The vagina is inside of the body & doesn't swell up. The complete opposite happens - it shrinks and gets dry as a desert. What's getting larger is the vulva & the clitoris. But the labia also gets thinner and can rip apart which causes bleeding.
Who the hell are you to judge? If a gay man/ straight woman likes huge dicks that's their preference. This "there is more to people" shit is troon speak and manipulative. 1. Everyone already knows that and 2. some people just want a quick hookup and then fuck off.
Also it's fucking ironic that troons spew the There's more to people than what they have in their pants crap (heh) because they don't care about other people at all and only want validation fuck puppets.
Yeah, vulva is what I meant. Sorry for the confusion
But I stand with it. If it's only about that one area of a body for you and you really are capable of forgetting about everything else about a person -how they look, how they smell, if they are groomed, if they are not, etc.- I guess congrats to you? It's just weird. Even if you are just looking for a hookup.
Same with being trans. It's not just genitals that make the difference, it's your whole socialization when you were young, your body type, your manners, your way of thinking, infertility, when on hormones or after GRS, some sort of mental disability that might come coupled with other issues, problems coming from the medication you take and, and, and.
I really doubt here are many people out there who just care about genitals and nothing else, like they claim. It's the most absurd argument, and only works, because it gets people saying: "Of course I'm no genital fetishist!"
Edit: I get it though, the way I express(ed) myself was/is pretty autistic. I'll take my pills before posting next time