they do, but only for specific games to a very specific extent. sony especially is extremely paranoid someone manages to break out of their walled garden, affecting their games and more importantly service sales. at best you gonna get some asset replacements, but that's about it. anything else is another vector devs would have to harden (given how shit vidya devs are and sony would have to check for everything, good luck with that), so the only two options is either make studios liable in their contracts (meaning third party would dry up over night) or outright forbid it in any form which is much cheaper and much less effort (and people are gonna buy it anyway).
MUH drivers is a meme, unless you are a sucker buying a nvidia gpu and play games at day1 of release. and unless you make yourself stuck on win7 or even XP I can't even remember the last time I had to "fix" a game (because I either don't buy it if their reviews mentions that shit or I wait long enough for those shit being ironed out - consoles still don't have store reviews and patches take longer, if they ever get released at all). fuck even niche nip games where you have to fake regions and get a translation going are mostly figured out by now.
parts are also a non-issue for most people unless you're again a sucker having to buy the new FOTM stuff for fps differences or fidelity you don't see by your own admission.
agree on the multiplayer aspect, but that's again down to devs not giving a shit and/or the microsoft environment which has been fucking cancer for 30+ years straight (sure, let everyone run everything as administrator, what's the worst that could happen? oh, and they still disable extensions in fucking 2022 because some applecuck in management thinks it looks prettier). fwiw once a console gets crowbar'd opened it's even worse there, just look at what happened with the 360 (and ignoring all the typical console issues like backward compatibility etc.).
first of all, sony interactive entertainment, the subsidiary responsible for playstation, sits in california since 2016 (ffs this is common knowledge by now). you can literally blame retarded west-coast faggots for sony's behavior the last 6 years.
as for xbox and dosh, might be now, but it will also inevitably affect games, the same way netflix affected series and movie production. let's just say there's a reason they're shitting out new series every year instead of renew running ones. and for vidya especially I hope you're ready for more GAAS cancer to justify people keeping their sub up (with optional microtransaction not covered by gamepass of course).