Now you are just being disingenuous, there is no way you are that dense.
Go on and tell me how Stephanie and Hank's relationship is going to go better than Tim and Bob's relationship just because it's straight.
Did you know that even in gay relationships there are typically feminine/masculine dynamics in the same way a straight one has them?
But do explain why its so wrong for a gay man to question himself, but the other way around it isnt?
You're not getting my point at all if that's what you took from it.
If you're straight, you're straight. If you're gay, you're gay. If you like both, you like both.
Where's the questioning? Kiwis are so firm in "if you're born a man then you will never be a woman" but as soon as gayness comes up it's like you can be whatever sexuality you want bro, God gave you the choice!
I think you don't understand that this is an analysis of cost to benefit. Benefit being basic, lower urges being fulfilled, and cost being...Well everything the guy himself listed. He himself says he doesn't think its worth it, but you have a problem with his judgement? Why?
Intimacy is not a "basic, lower urge" it's an important part to anyone's life. Again, as I said before, intimacy =/= sex, but most people DO need sexual intimacy on some level.
He's making it sound like he wants to get fucked in the ass and that's a problem to him, and his solution is to pop some viagra and force himself to sleep with women instead of just...finding a guy he likes without getting fucked in the ass. If the guy desires intimacy with men and is rejecting it then he'll just have to cope with never having intimacy somehow instead of overcompensating and suffering.
I was trying to avoid it, but you brought it up first : the problem with incels is NOT that they aren't having sex, its the bitterness / hatred that only some of the most extreme people get. Plenty of people go without and don't pull an elliot roger.
Incels lack intimacy. Though true its by their own design, if they attained intimacy, they would not have the incel mindset. It's a catch 22 type thing.
"Is wanting to take it in the ass sexual or emotional?"
Gotta be kidding me.
Dude is just now finding out you can feel attracted toward someone without wanting to fuck them being your #1 priority. I can only imagine how you see other women.