Reasons for wanting a relationship

[Joan Nyan]

Why would/wouldn't you want to be in a relationship? Do you think there are there things you can get out of a relationship that you can't get anywhere else?

 

[MrRenegadeRooster]

I can tell you a couple things i don't get in a relationship.
Peace an quiet
Me time
Money...

But overall its pretty cool, like 7/10

 

[Innocuous]

It's what you want out of a relationship, and how much you're willing to do for the other person to make sure they get what they want. Being happy is good, but both people have to be happy to be in a relationship to get anything out of it.

 

[wheat pasta]

Well, it's really nice to have that other person to talk to, that other person to confide everything in. At least for me, since I don't really have any close friends.

It's nice to have someone to do little things for, like when I lived with my boyfriend (long story, had to move out) I would cook for him before work every day. He gave me shoulder rubs. etc.

I'm a solitary creature, but even I can see some benefits to having a significant other. It's not for everyone though, and yeah, 'me' time can be admittedly a little scarce, but I think it's worth it overall.

 

[SU 390]

Good reasons: Wanting someone to hang out with out, watch movies together, go on adventures, hold on to when I'm angry, laugh with, do little together.

Bad reasons: Just to be in a relationship and lose my virginity at last.

 

[wheat pasta]

Bad reasons: Just to be in a relationship and lose my virginity at last.

Sure, it's a bad reason, but totally understandable. I have plenty of male friends who are in just the same boat as you. You're not alone in wanting 'just' that against your better judgment.

 

[fire_fly]

Companionship. I really love the idea of having someone to take care of, and who can take care of me when I need them to. I'm sure it wouldn't be all sunshine and lollipops, nothing ever is, but it sounds really nice. I'd like to experience it someday.

 

[TowinKarz]

I'm not reliable enough as a person to do my half in one, that's why I don't "do" them.

 

[Inquisitor_BadAss]

I can tell you a couple things i don't get in a relationship.
Peace an quiet
Me time
Money...

But overall its pretty cool, like 7/10

Preaching to the coir man.

I'm not sure why I want a relationship but I wasn't even looking for one when I met my current GF. It's cool to have somebody that has the same interests and also wants le sexy time. There are some days I just want to do stuff on my own because she just isn't interested or busy lesson planning. I've never thought why I wouldn't want one because it's just awesome knowing that I have somebody there willing to listen.

 

[Replicant Sasquatch]

I feel like most people here couldn't get a relationship if they tried

"My hobbies include biking, drawing, and meticulously gossiping about autistic weirdos on the internet."

 

[Yamyam]

so I won't be alone and to feel. I would love to have someone to love and to have them love me right back and that we will always be there for one another.

it's something I really want.

 

[melty]

I give relationships an 8.5/10

 

[Trans Fat 41g]

Someone to get into arguments with when we reach the miserable age of sixty

 

[Lefty's Revenge]

I'll be that guy.

Love? Like romantic love. A consistent conscious decision on both of your parts to put the other ahead of yourself. Sure, you probably won't quite be there until you guys have been in a relationship for a while but thats the goal. Find someone to experience life with.

It might be a touch corny but I still believe in that shit

 

[Asmik Otaku]

It really depends on personality and how much you're willing to give and take.
Personally I prefer not being in one since I'm a selfish asshole. But everyone's different.
That being said I do enjoy casual dates and hookups since the Internet gets boring after a while.

In all seriousness though I forsee my attitude towards it becoming more positive and eventually start taking the whole dating thing seriously since the idea of companionship and having a sexy person to vent to sounds awesome.

But for now I rate relationships 3/10

 

[JU 199]

Netflix and chill

 

[KatsuKitty]

Physical touch is a need and not a luxury.

 

[Overcast]

Well, the idea of being in a close and intimate relationship with someone appeals to me. Someone who I can really talk to, someone I can share my hopes, dreams, fears, and insecurities with, and someone who I can love and be loved by unconditionally.

 

[Pepsi-Cola]

good things:
person to hangout with most of the time (pretty much no loneliness or boredom)
being able to pound dat pu$$y
always got a player 2 for like Mario Kart or whatever

too lazy to lay out bad things, mostly just money problems and drama and stuff like that

 

[Pikimon]

We take pride in our ability to communicate to each other via glares and judgy nods.