I think that some find him to be a bit too flamboyant or perhaps his personality or energy just doesn't click. Some folks think he takes it a bit too easy on her, but I think he just doesn't want to be cruel. We feel free to be brutally honest, but we're also just a forum of autists. He's putting his name and face out there and has a professional reputation to think about.
I find him very expressive, but he's coming at it from a place of having an issue with depression and anxiety and he is actively doing something to treat it. He also works a normal adult job and is educated with at least 2 higher ed degrees. He lives independently and while he's no waif he is a taller man with a bit of meat on the bones. He dresses smartly. He styles his hair before he turns the camera on. He's in a healthy, happy relationship and actually has friends that he actually goes out and interacts with. In all ways I can think of he is a better person than Hamber.
IMO that's what makes this vid so fucking stupid on her part. She's only making herself look so much worse.