Problems with discussing "tea" outside of Kiwifarms

[Born in Summer]

Gonna post this here since this doesn't refer to a specific lolcow, but a very common behavior among non-KF ladies discussing drama/tea.

It seems to me that anywhere that isn't KF will typically tend to "dogpile" on a (female-oriented) cow after a singular fuck-up, usually with innocuous things, typically based on hearsay, that come off as stretch. Or they will look at something minor and assume some fanfic-tier bullshit that no one in their right minds would even consider.
Colleen Ballinger, as a recent example, came out with that terrible apology video that everyone and their grandmother is talking about in response to grooming allegations. The aftermath of this has led to many accusing her of partaking in a bunch of other -isms and -ists that apparently people were okay with, since no one gave a shit until she'd fucked up. Below are some examples I could find from a Youtube comments section discussing her poorly written Netflix show.

Spoiler: Examples

For context, this person assumes this because the show includes a creepy uncle character that's meant to be played for laughs.


This person talks about Colleen and her fanbase like she was some abusive husband beating their wife every single day lol


Hearsay of her supposedly being racist with no evidence

You will see this claim come up a lot, yet I am unable to find a single shroud of primary source evidence to back this up. At best, there's only hearsay.
If anyone has anything to confirm this, please let me know.

Now to clarify, I am no fan of this woman and don't intend this to be a white knight post. Hell, I barely even knew she existed until the drama started happening. But I truly do believe that all these extra accusations, primarily based on hearsay, makes discussing drama, pertaining to cows with large female followings, unbearable to do outside of the farms as everyone is "hungry for blood" so to speak. Ironically giving her shitty ukulele song some validity when it comments on how dumb gossip can get online, and no one wants that.

If any of you have other examples of this kind of superfluous "dogpiling" occurring, then please feel free to share them. Or better yet, share some of your own personal gripes with talking about (girl) drama outside of the farms, that's what the threads for after all.

 

[Rat Friend]

Girlcow drama is so jarring to read to me.

Never complete without people arm-chairdiagnosing the cow with narcissm / being a victim of SA or accusing the girlcow of every -ism possible, to impose moral superiority over them

Girlcow discourse, from what i observed, is nothing but a moral code-dick measuring contest, so they rather moralfag and scream about how problematic a cow instead of just laughing at them and having fun with it. Lame

 

[JamusActimus]

As a man, I am not an expert on girlcow but I noticed a redemption is often extremely rare for girl cow because users tend to fully despise the cow.
(even retards like Ralph,gator and Flamenco had their small redemption)
It's not always the case but sometimes I feel like female users hate the cow and then try to justify it with their actions rather than the reverse.

This does not grind my gears I know some threads are just not for me.

 

[Shallow Wave]

I have no idea what kind of tastes you have that you can't discuss tea outside the farms, but I like mine black with cinnamon, a bit of milk and a bit of honey!

 

[Born in Summer]

I have no idea what kind of tastes you have that you can't discuss tea outside the farms, but I like mine black with cinnamon, a bit of milk and a bit of honey!

God how I wish the farms had an LOL rating, a heart just doesn't articulate it quite enough.

 

[blubberlubber]

As a man, I am not an expert on girlcow but I noticed a redemption is often extremely rare for girl cow because users tend to fully despise the cow.
(even retards like Ralph,gator and Flamenco had their small redemption)
It's not always the case but sometimes I feel like female users hate the cow and then try to justify it with their actions rather than the reverse.

This does not grind my gears I know some threads are just not for me.

It's because women tend to do this shit either way. I'm not trying to sound like Elliot Rodger here, but female communities on the internet tend to be very devoted to whatever it is they're talking about and get bitchy over just about everything. Everyone always sends ALR huge fucking walls of text in the mail detailing how THEIR weight loss journey is SO MUCH BETTER and how she inspired them to lose weight. They would always snark, but it's just socially acceptable to do it in public to a cow. If I'm being honest though, I feel such communities have the potential to change with the recent example of Trisha Paytas becoming a born-again ASMRtist and somewhat moving away from that sort of drama.

 

[Dysnomia]

I think they are handled much better here. We have checks and balances against autism. Act like a retarded white night or sperg out too much and you are going to get told. And get a bunch of trashcans, hats and puzzle pieces. So all your posts look dumb and you look dumb if you keep posting.

As a man, I am not an expert on girlcow but I noticed a redemption is often extremely rare for girl cow because users tend to fully despise the cow.

I think the only example is Pixyteri. Who is basically the closest female equivalent of Chris Chan. No one really hates her and we want her to get better, recognizing her lunatic mother is a huge part of what made her this way in the first place. She's improved on a number of occasions but she ends up going a hundred steps backwards into a disaster again. She now thinks that she was born with a penis in her stomach and her name is Ashton. She pelvic thrusts in public, wears Sora cosplay everywhere and wears a bandaid on her finger at night because she thinks a ghost is trying to rape her and force her to wear a wedding ring.

But a lot of these female cows aren't even cows. They're just snowflakes. Good for a passing laugh. But there's little in terms of long term lolz. It's why lolcow farm made the /snow/ board. /pt/ was clogged up with dumb bitches shooping their faces and being catty. Those are not cows. Those are attention whores.

But when I comment on Youtube I have to be careful because I don't want comments deleted and people stalking me because I said a thing. Maybe I'm overreacting. But I don't want any crazies dogging me because I used the wrong pronouns or something.

It's because women tend to do this shit either way. I'm not trying to sound like Elliot Rodger here, but female communities on the internet tend to be very devoted to whatever it is they're talking about and get bitchy over just about everything.

This is why I came here. The sane females seem to have migrated. I also think that lolcow farm's mods are way too autistic. There's red text everywhere. Sometimes I can't even figure out why the user was banned.

 

[Android raptor]

I've said before but the nutter radfems on girlfarms are cows unto themselves.

That said KF has way more /pol/tard tradcel autism, so there's that (not that they don't sometimes post on LC too, especially in the tradthot threads).

 

[Heckler1]

I think a problem is that gossip as a social skill is somewhat lost nowadays, and people often feel the need to get involved in people they hear about, instead of just watching/having fun at a ridiculous person's antics. So the issue with talking to people outside of the farms about cow tea, is that they ruin the fun by taking it too seriously or by trying to involve themselves. This is magnified when talking about people using online spaces, as people often seem to feel the need to virtue signal, or use the topic as a lightning rod for them to gain clout/attention.

 

[Pedophobe]

The recent Illuminaughti drama seems like a good example. I'm still not sure what she even did to inspire several hundred hour-long callout videos in one week.

 

[Born in Summer]

The recent Illuminaughti drama seems like a good example. I'm still not sure what she even did to inspire several hundred hour-long callout videos in one week.

It's made out to be a lot more complicated than it actually is but basically she accused a lawtuber of plagiarizing her style, even though its not really unique and you could argue she "plagerized" other people as well (although it's more like she didn't make her citations clear enough).
This led to a very common trend you'll see among girlcows or "tea" communities, where it takes only one fuck up for people to start digging into other shit they can lambast the woman for or you'll have (ex-)friends coming out with their stories about how she was mean or something. Several days later, we have this uber autistic back and forth between the girl and the community, which goes to show that sometimes the best solution is just ignore it and move on.