I get it, fandoms are unpleasant as fuck, and it's hard to judge a work in a complete vacuum. I don't mention certain things I like IRL because I don't want to attract the type of people that are into them.
Earthbound is my favorite game and I still agree that the Mother fandom is prone to looking way too hard into elements that are actually pretty surface level. Yeah the games carry their themes and have punchy emotional moments, but sometimes a spade is just a fucking spade. Case in point, most people with a brain think the whole "Giygas is a fetus" thing is retarded considering Itoi stated in interviews that the whole fight was inspired by a traumatic incident from his childhood where he accidentally walked in on an R rated movie. There's also plenty of criticism to be levelled at the games (Earthbound's uneven difficulty and downright boring battle system, Mother 3 being very railroaded) but the high points make up for the lows for me. Same with LISA actually, to all the points above.
Just don't let garbage fandoms prevent you from trying out stuff entirely, because let's face it: in this DEI infested hellworld we find ourselves facing, good entertainment feels few and far between. Practically every franchise I liked is dead or hijacked. I don't ever want a new actual Mother entry, because sometimes dead is better.