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People Judge Me Just Because I'm Really Pretty​

"Maybe you should just leave the handyman work to your husband," the hardware store employee told me when I asked him what aisle the adhesives were in.

I stood speechless and fuming that he would be so gender-discriminatory toward me when another woman walked up to us.

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She asked the store employee where she could find a ratchet set and as I braced myself for another sexist comment, the same employee answered, "They're in aisle 12."

He then turned back to me and told me pretty girls should leave the "technical" work to people who know how to handle it. Not men, but "people." Um, did he just insinuate that I'm stupid?

To a man who knew absolutely nothing about me, I was no more than a pretty face.

I forced myself to walk away as anger boiled up inside of me and called a friend outside, ranting into the phone about the jackass in the store.

"Don't hate me because I'm beautiful" is a phrase used in jest during sarcastic conversations, usually when we're making fun of beautiful women who claim their good looks are a hardship. But the reality is that although being pretty does make some things easier, it also definitely makes some things harder.

I'm tired of being judged because of my attractive face. I'm tired of being whittled down to nothing more than my looks because people naively think I have nothing more to offer. And I'm tired of people believing that just because I'm pretty, I don't have a right to get upset when I'm treated as nothing more than that.

I'm tired of men assuming I must be easy. (No, I didn't wake up and put on this face just so I could find someone to have sex with.)

I'm tired of women thinking I'm going to try and sleep with their husbands just because they're insecure about the way I look. (I don't want your husband — this is just how I look.)

I'm tired of co-workers not taking me seriously and treating me like I'm nothing more than cheekbones and blue eyes. (Newsflash: I didn't get this job because I attached a photo to my resume.)

I'm tired of the snide comments women whisper in my presence and think I can't hear them. (I'm pretty, not deaf.)

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I'm tired of people assuming that just because I'm pretty, I'm also brainless, stuck-up, and most likely a slut, because that's the stereotype our society perpetuates.

When you add in the fact that I'm a single mom, I'm pretty much doomed to be perceived as nothing more than a knocked-up baby mama (who was actually married for eight years in which two kids were conceived) looking for a sugar daddy. Because isn't that what all the pretty, single mothers are doing these days?

Gag me. I'm sick of it.

Laughable as it may be, "pretty girl problems" are a real thing.

Sure, most people would agree that good-looking people have some advantages over less attractive people, but it's not a black and white issue.

Being pretty is a blessing and a curse, just like fame and money. There are trade-offs.

I'm so much more than pretty. I'm a domestic violence survivor, hard-working mother of two special needs children, founder of a nonprofit, former missionary, and woman's rights activist.

But because I'm pretty, all of that often doesn't matter to people — because I'm pretty. Probably just pretty.

So do I have a right to complain about the burdens of being pretty? Hell yeah, I do. But remember: I'm not complaining about my face. I'm happy with it, I'm grateful for it.

What I am complaining about are the opinions of narrow-minded, jealous, insecure, and shallow people who judge me entirely on my physicality.

Don't hate me just because I'm beautiful.

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[Site of Origin]

I'll take shit that never happened for 400, Alex.

 

[Grinrow]

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This is what she looks like

Biography - Eden Strong

If I could describe myself in just three words, I’d say… I have no f’ing clue. I guess I should start by saying that if you don’t want to read about domestic violence and sexual assault, then you’re reading the wrong blog. I should also add that if you don’t want to read about sex,

edenstrong.com

her bio is also rather weird because she defines herself as cute and single mother.

for some reason I get the vibe that she really needs therapy.

God fucking damn look at that 7head you could land a Jumbojet on that thing

 

[los pepes]

Just from reading the title you knew the author was going to be a white guy in a dress or a 300 pound sheboon.

 

[Spl00gies]

Oh honey, you think you have it bad. Imagine how much worse it would be if you were pretty!

 

[Amber the Hedgehog]

Lady first of all, lets be clear you look fine but you aren't anything that breattaking. To be fair pretty much one is nowdays becouse we get oversaturated with pictures, videos, adds, movies and so on of pretty people with technological enhancements to hide their awkward moments. That line of stimulation isn't very effective because of that but you wouldn't hit the top anyway. You look nice but that's it.

So maybe the reaction you are getting isn't you looks but how you carry yourself? People are really good at picking vibes and you probably aren't sending the best ones. I'm getting so hard playing the victim who need protection honest, while also wanting to be a bad ass woman who needs no man, so basically a needy bitch. So others do their best to get rid of you without being super rude about it. Calling someone pretty while insulting them is great way to lesser the blow without completely going out of the message.

 

[Alexander Thaut]

Lady first of all, lets be clear you look fine but you aren't anything that breattaking. To be fair pretty much one is nowdays becouse we get oversaturated with pictures, videos, adds, movies and so on of pretty people with technological enhancements to hide their awkward moments. That line of stimulation isn't very effective because of that but you wouldn't hit the top anyway. You look nice but that's it.

So maybe the reaction you are getting isn't you looks but how you carry yourself? People are really good at picking vibes and you probably aren't sending the best ones. I'm getting so hard playing the victim who need protection honest, while also wanting to be a bad ass woman who needs no man, so basically a needy bitch. So others do their best to get rid of you without being super rude about it. Calling someone pretty while insulting them is great way to lesser the blow without completely going out of the message.

I'd bet hard cash that this woman has been either an escort, a prostitute, a hooker, or some form of sex worker.

also lmao she keeps mentioning that she knows lawyers, like that means anything. why are women so obsessed with fucking status symbols like "I got published in yahoo" or "I know lawyers", but you can't criticize them without someone whining about rape.

 

[Solid Snek]

She isn't beautiful.

She's cute at best. Look at this photo with filters and makeup yet she only looks cute.

I wouldn't say "cute". Cute is soft and young looking, neither of which she's displaying here. I definitely wouldn't call her beautiful, either.

I'd describe her as modestly handsome.

I also wouldn't be surprised if "she" has a penis.

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I'd bet hard cash that this woman has been either an escort, a prostitute, a hooker, or some form of sex worker.

She has.

If you check that Bio Page you posted earlier closely, it states the following:

And while I’m at it, in full disclosure, we also talk about disowning abusive families, open relationships, stripping, shaving your newborn baby’s head with eyebrow trimmers, and that time I accidentally stayed in a hotel that was adjoining a drug rehab facility.​

I can't find much evidence of her stripper career, as it appears that in a burst of sobriety, she purged most relevant entries from her blog. However, she was sloppy, and there is still evidence of her career in other places; as for example in this blog post, where amongst other things, she mentions teaching stripper classes. (archive)

I'm not a BP user myself, but if any fans of the BP board are reading this and like compiling content, this lady (?) is definitely nuts, and may be worth a thread.

 

[Tom Myers]

I wouldn't say "cute". Cute is soft and young looking, neither of which she's displaying here. I definitely wouldn't call her beautiful, either.

I'd describe her as modestly handsome.

I also wouldn't be surprised if "she" has a penis.

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She has.

If you check that Bio Page you posted earlier closely, it states the following:

I can't find much evidence of her stripper career, as it appears that in a burst of sobriety, she purged most relevant entries from her blog. However, she was sloppy, and there is still evidence of her career in other places; as for example in this blog post, where amongst other things, she mentions teaching stripper classes. (archive)

I'm not a BP user myself, but if any fans of the BP board are reading this and like compiling content, this lady (?) is definitely nuts, and may be worth a thread.

I found those photos too, but was too lazy to upload.

I'd say she looks below average. I'd rather have a moon faced fat girl.

 

[Unpaid Emotional Labourer]

I actually think it’s female. For one thing, if it was a troon pretending to have been a sex worker, he probably wouldn’t have claimed he was a stripper. For some reason they always choose hooker or dominatrix, aka a weird hooker who talks too much.

 

[Iron Jaguar]

It's hard being good looking, whether you're male or female. If you're a good looking man, other men will hate you and act like insecure bitches. My wife has seen other men react this way around me.
Short, ugly, overweight men will particularly hate you if you are the opposite of their phenotype.

 

[Hellspawn]

Sigh, the delusions of some women. They'd be so full of themselves they'll never realize the difference between them and actual pretty women. Strangers will often subconsciously go out of their way for truly attractive people. Halo effect at work. The egoistic ones, who have never received extra favors, end up conflating negative reception with sexual interest, because, well, that's all they know. In a way, it's depressing.

 

[fhqwhgads]

It's always in the eyes. She has crazy eyes. Can't smile with them. She also looks quite scary and manly in this pic:



Reeks of NPD.

 

[Solid Snek]

I actually think it’s female. For one thing, if it was a troon pretending to have been a sex worker, he probably wouldn’t have claimed he was a stripper. For some reason they always choose hooker or dominatrix, aka a weird hooker who talks too much.

That's true. She also maintains that she has a baby (the one with the mangled eye that she took a pair of eyebrow trimmers to), and while it's certainly possible for a troon to adopt, it's very unlikely, and goes against everything troons stand for. At the very least, I suspect she wouldn't mention the poor kid if she were really a man.

She does have the impeccable jawline of a 19th century British safari commander, though.

 

[Kujo Jotaro]

I wouldn't say "cute". Cute is soft and young looking, neither of which she's displaying here. I definitely wouldn't call her beautiful, either.

I'd describe her as modestly handsome.

I also wouldn't be surprised if "she" has a penis.

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She has.

If you check that Bio Page you posted earlier closely, it states the following:

And while I’m at it, in full disclosure, we also talk about disowning abusive families, open relationships, stripping, shaving your newborn baby’s head with eyebrow trimmers, and that time I accidentally stayed in a hotel that was adjoining a drug rehab facility.​

I can't find much evidence of her stripper career, as it appears that in a burst of sobriety, she purged most relevant entries from her blog. However, she was sloppy, and there is still evidence of her career in other places; as for example in this blog post, where amongst other things, she mentions teaching stripper classes. (archive)

I'm not a BP user myself, but if any fans of the BP board are reading this and like compiling content, this lady (?) is definitely nuts, and may be worth a thread.

Could cut a rock with the angles of her face

 

[Alexander Thaut]

I wouldn't say "cute". Cute is soft and young looking, neither of which she's displaying here. I definitely wouldn't call her beautiful, either.

I'd describe her as modestly handsome.

I also wouldn't be surprised if "she" has a penis.

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She has.

If you check that Bio Page you posted earlier closely, it states the following:

And while I’m at it, in full disclosure, we also talk about disowning abusive families, open relationships, stripping, shaving your newborn baby’s head with eyebrow trimmers, and that time I accidentally stayed in a hotel that was adjoining a drug rehab facility.​

I can't find much evidence of her stripper career, as it appears that in a burst of sobriety, she purged most relevant entries from her blog. However, she was sloppy, and there is still evidence of her career in other places; as for example in this blog post, where amongst other things, she mentions teaching stripper classes. (archive)

I'm not a BP user myself, but if any fans of the BP board are reading this and like compiling content, this lady (?) is definitely nuts, and may be worth a thread.

the angles on her face and her eyes all fucking scare me.

you sure we can't get the entries via wayback machine or sth?


anyways this lady looks coo coo for cocoa puffs. wouldn't be surprised if Null gets some takedown request or sth just because we're shitting on her looks and her ego.

It's always in the eyes. She has crazy eyes. Can't smile with them. She also looks quite scary and manly in this pic:

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Reeks of NPD.

jesus christ that's a big face.

no wonder she's desperate.

 

[Solid Snek]

the angles on her face and her eyes all fucking scare me.

you sure we can't get the entries via wayback machine or sth?

Possibly? I haven't really poked that much, since like I said, this isn't my normal cow type. The purged stripper entry where she apparently discussed her career as a stripper teacher is not on the Wayback Machine, but there may be other entries, or other archive sites, floating around.

(she's definitely been crawled by the Wayback Machine; her frontpage shows captures back to 2018 )

-edit- oh, actually, she might have changed her URLs at some point. The 2018 capture redirects to a different blog URL - It's Not My Shame to Bear - so that's something people could explore, too. Definitely has more stripper content archived.

"And This Is How I Accidentally Slept With A Naked Homeless Guy On Drugs"
It's like Penthouse Letters for Karens!

And Before I Knew it My Boobs Were on the News
I'm Selling My Body
In Which I Take My Clothes Off For Money

It just keeps going. She's been writing this stuff for years.

(also, apparently her stripper class was called "Sexy Survivors", and it was about empowering women whose breasts are too big.)

 

[Mariposa Electrique]

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Biography - Eden Strong

If I could describe myself in just three words, I’d say… I have no f’ing clue. I guess I should start by saying that if you don’t want to read about domestic violence and sexual assault, then you’re reading the wrong blog. I should also add that if you don’t want to read about sex,

edenstrong.com

her bio is also rather weird because she defines herself as cute and single mother.

for some reason I get the vibe that she really needs therapy.

Looks like Charolette Clymer. 3 to 4 at the most. Really old looking.

 

[Tackleberry]

Literally none of this happened to her. Seriously. None of it.

 

[Poppavalyim Andropoff]

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This is what she looks like

Biography - Eden Strong

If I could describe myself in just three words, I’d say… I have no f’ing clue. I guess I should start by saying that if you don’t want to read about domestic violence and sexual assault, then you’re reading the wrong blog. I should also add that if you don’t want to read about sex,

edenstrong.com

her bio is also rather weird because she defines herself as cute and single mother.

for some reason I get the vibe that she really needs therapy.

ah I see now. She's taken this guy being nice and saying "pretty" instead of "basic bitch" as some hill to die on.
Wonder if it's her first time there? Did Massive Chin think perhaps Girl 2 is known to the guy somehow?

Not to toot my own horn but I've forgotten more shit than your average hardware store counter jockey will ever know and if I go in rockin the suit on the way home from a deal instead of covered in shit & paint I get treated like a prime spastic. I wish I had someone to rant on the phone to about it instead of turning around and telling said cunt to jog the fuck on & get me a box of welding sparks

 

[DDBCAE CBAADCBE]

I wouldn't say "cute". Cute is soft and young looking, neither of which she's displaying here. I definitely wouldn't call her beautiful, either.

I'd describe her as modestly handsome.

I also wouldn't be surprised if "she" has a penis.

Spoiler: More Pics

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She has.

If you check that Bio Page you posted earlier closely, it states the following:

And while I’m at it, in full disclosure, we also talk about disowning abusive families, open relationships, stripping, shaving your newborn baby’s head with eyebrow trimmers, and that time I accidentally stayed in a hotel that was adjoining a drug rehab facility.​

I can't find much evidence of her stripper career, as it appears that in a burst of sobriety, she purged most relevant entries from her blog. However, she was sloppy, and there is still evidence of her career in other places; as for example in this blog post, where amongst other things, she mentions teaching stripper classes. (archive)

I'm not a BP user myself, but if any fans of the BP board are reading this and like compiling content, this lady (?) is definitely nuts, and may be worth a thread.

Gross. That is NOT pretty. She looks like Bruce Jenner.