Opinion Not Everything About The Sopranos Aged Well

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By Philip Etemesi

Disclaimer: The Sopranos made efforts to portray life and crime as it was in the real world during the time it aired without pulling any punches, but that doesn't make some of it any easier to watch through a 2024 lens.

The Sopranos premiered 25 years ago and since then, it has remained the touchstone from which other crime shows are measured. From great characters to gripping plots, the HBO drama has a lot to offer. The quality is hardly surprising considering that most of the storylines were penned by some of the industry’s best writers, including the talented trio of Matthew Weiner, Terrence Winter, and series creator David Chase. In 2013, the Writers Guild of America named it the best-written show of all time.

As stainless as The Sopranos might seem, it has a few questionable, pointless, or disturbing aspects, many of which were excusable when the show first aired, but are more glaring now. Given how progressive society has become and how much the quality of television has improved, it’s now time to put the series on trial for some of its crimes. While the charges might not ruin the crime drama’s reputation, the entire story might have been cooler if these issues didn’t exist.


10 - Tony’s plot armor

The Sopranos subverts many gangster genre tropes and offers a realistic portrayal of modern post-Gotti-era mob life. Regrettably, Tony, like many other screen protagonists and antiheroes, benefits from plenty of plot armor. There’s only ever one serious attempt on his life (which he survives), and the feds seem less interested in capturing him, yet they ferociously go after everyone else.

The DiMeo crime family boss glides through the entire show without ever appearing before a senate committee or setting foot in jail.

Is Tony Too Smart?


Sections of fans might argue that Tony doesn’t benefit from plot armor or luck. He is simply too smart. But is he? If Phil Leotardo can tear Tony’s organization apart in such a short period, the FBI shouldn’t have to struggle to pin the man down. Even worse, no member of the DiMeo crime family makes a serious effort to overthrow Tony. Toppling the leader has been a common practice in the mob since the early ‘20s, but Tony never has to worry about such problems. Richie Aprille considers it but never really pursues the goal.


9- The blatant racism

Generally, The Sopranos offers an enthralling study on the poisonous effects of greed, placing dark comic twists on the familiar get-rich-fast premise. However, it occasionally strays by turning some of its characters into racist pricks. Take the scene where Tony’s daughter Meadow introduces her black boyfriend, Noah, to him, and he goes completely nuts.

When Meadow briefly goes to her room, Tony shamelessly orders Noah to draft a breakup speech.

“When my little girl comes down the stairs, you're going to say how nice it was to meet me, then you're going to go drop her off at school, and then you're going to say goodbye.”

Tony Goes Full KKK


David Chase draws splendid performances from Patrick Tully and James Gandolfini in this scene. Tully is especially more impressive as he transforms from an anxious third party into a steely-eyed teen ready to stand up against racism.

“F*** you,” he says to his girlfriend’s dad, but his brief retaliation is noble compared to what Tony throws at him. The mob boss refers to him as a charcoal briquette, a mulligan, and a ditsoon. This kind of wording is odd, coming from one of the greatest TV characters of all time, yet there was no uproar 25 years ago. The show also has another questionable plot where Tony’s men try to break up a Native American protest.


8 - Many Unresolved Storylines

Where did the rapper Massive Genius (Bokeem Woodbine) go? From the outside, the show might seem like it has no hanging threads, but it actually has plenty. One of the major ones stems from one of the most memorable episodes, “Pine Barrens.” In it, Christopher and Paulie believe they’ve killed the Russian mobster, Valery, but when they go to bury his body in the New Jersey Pine Barrens, he takes off. The cat-and-mouse game ends without a payoff and Valery is never seen again.

The Guessing Game Continues


To be fair, most storylines in the crime drama have an ideal denouement, but this doesn’t mean the slips should be excused. The best-written TV show of all time ought to have no unattached cables. Fans would want to know what happened to Furio after he fell for Tony’s wife, Carmella, and fled to Italy. Was he tracked down and killed or did he choose to break omertà before going into witness protection? Only David Chase knows.


7 - Gender-based violence

Many key characters in the show get physical with women. Tony does so during his pre-break-up argument with Carmela, pinning her to the wall. Christopher also puts his hands on Adriana and Ralph murders his girlfriend, Tracee in the open. Tony’s sister, Janice, also gets attacked by her lover, Richie Aprille, but she retaliates in a major way by shooting him.

There's Rarely Any Punishment


What’s sad about these incidents is that there were rarely any consequences. Throughout the show, we see characters getting comeuppance for other misdemeanors. For example, Ralph pays for constantly being disrespectful to Tony and other mobsters, but he never pays for killing Tracee. Christopher too, never pays for mistreating Adriana. Instead, it’s she who is punished for talking to the authorities, yet she isn’t the one who approached them in the first place.


6 - Little to no female empowerment

The mafia has always been male-dominated, but as a show that mostly aired in the 21st century, The Sopranos could have empowered its women a lot more. Out of all the female characters, only Dr. Jennifer Melfi remains on a stable professional path. Others like her who get decent jobs, like Agent Deborah Ciccerone, only appear briefly. The rest are relegated to mob wife roles.

A Missed Opportunity


Female crime bosses can be interesting. Shows like Griselda, All the Queen’s Men, and Queen of the South prove it. The HBO drama would, therefore, not have been weaker for featuring powerful women. A great opportunity is missed with Annalisa Zucca, a Camorra boss that Tony meets while visiting Naples. She could have played a crucial role in the proceedings but after four scenes, she was never seen again.


5 - Where is Bobby in Season 1?

As the kindest mobster on the show, Bobby Baccala finds more pleasure in being a personal assistant to Junior than in committing crimes. He is introduced in Season 2 as one of the key members of Junior's crew. Eventually, he becomes one of the DiMeo crime family’s high-ranking members. But where was he in Season 1? Given how dependent Junior is on Bobby, he ought to be around from the beginning. No explanation is offered as to where he was.

A Simple Behind-the-Scenes Answer


Regarding Bobby’s absence, the answer is simple: Steve Schirripa hadn’t been cast yet. The producers also didn’t know that such a character would be needed. Even so, a proper plot explanation should have been provided. After all, the show perfectly explains the absence of many other characters, notably Richie Aprille, and Ralph. The reason for Big Pussy’s time away from the screen is also explained in detail.


4 - Bizarre lgbtq storylines

Many of the greatest gangster TV shows have no major LGBTQ storylines so The Sopranos stands out by at least going that route. Still, the gay characters are handled too harshly. One of the DiMeo crime family’s capos, Vito Spatafore, remains in the closet for a long time. He even gets married and has two children. When a Lupertazzi crime family member spots him at a gay bar, Vito chooses to go into hiding.

To Vito, the Mob Life Is Better than a Perfect Relationship


The general level of homophobia is frightening and, to make matters worse, the victim is still painted as a villain. Vito is the kind of character that should be pitied and rooted for. Instead, the show makes him detestable, and it’s all because of his questionable choices.

During his time in hiding, he begins a relationship with Jim, a short-order cook. Jim adores Vito, but the mobster later abandons him to return to New Jersey to resume his mob life. Along the way, he kills a stranger after a minor disagreement. After returning to his home city, he gets brutally murdered.


3 - The minor continuity errors

The critically acclaimed HBO drama sure seems meticulously written and perfectly edited. With its rigorous use of varied camera angles, Zen-like shots, and multilayered narration style, it has become a prototype of sorts for other showrunners. However, upon close perusal, a few continuity errors can be spotted, proving that David Chase and his team were human after all.

No One Noticed That?


There are several examples of continuity issues on the show, though most of them are tied to the visuals rather than the story.

When Gigi is chatting with Tony at the Bada Bing, a stack of cash next to them keeps appearing and disappearing. When Tony is chatting with Agent Harris at Satriale’s Pork Store, his Escalade (seen through the window) also keeps appearing and disappearing. The same can be said of the magazine Valentina is reading when Tony visits her at the hospital, and the blood stain on Tony’s vest after his fight with Bobby.


2 - Mob traditions aren't adhered to

Cosa Nostra members live by a code and a certain set of traditions. So, why do so many characters ignore them? Like Dominic Toretto, the characters keep emphasizing that there is nothing more important than family, yet Paulie, one of the most prominent mobsters, is unmarried and without kids, despite being past his 50s. He doesn’t have a goomah either.

In Season 6, Bobby is revealed to have never killed anyone, leaving viewers wondering how he became a Made Guy in the first place. In addition to that, so many mobsters become informants. Not to forget Furio falling for his boss’ wife.

Rebellion Without Consequences


So many mobsters are rebellious and they never face any consequences. It could be presumed that this is just the nature of the ‘90s and 2000s crop of Cosa Nostra gangsters. Newer generations generally have a habit of breaking old rules.

It would make sense for Silvio to pressure Paulie to marry, letting him know that his bachelor lifestyle is part of why their enemies consider this a “glorified crew.” It would also make more sense for Bobby not to be a Made Guy since he hadn't "made his bones."


1 - Plenty of body-shaming

Weight is a major issue in the show, and like racism, it isn’t handled well. "Oh, look at that! It's like an ad for a weight loss center. Before, and way before!" Paulie says after spotting Bobby and Vito standing beside each other at the Bada Bing. Tony also tells Bobby to stop leaning on his car because he might accidentally flip it over. The most insensitive remark comes from Ralph, who jokes that Johnny Sack’s wife, Ginny Sacrimoni had a 90 lb mole removed from her rectum.

There Are Better Ways to Address the Weight Issue


The Sopranos could have benefited from a little more sensitivity. After all, there are better ways to address the weight issue and the show even adopts one of them. For example, in the Season 6 premiere "Members Only," Vito is revealed to have lost 160 pounds and even appeared in a weight-loss commercial. Such an approach gives a better message than having Ginny hide packs of candy to consume them when her husband isn’t watching.
 
My gangster fav may be a murderer, extortionist, thief, pimp, liar, and an adulterer, but at least he's not racist or homophobic!
 
The first episode has Tony threatening to kill his therapist. That should have told the viewer that this is a fictional drama about an evil man and not about empowering women or fighting racism. Tony is remembered because he's a charismatic liar, it's entertainment not a documentary about how mobsters acted in accordance with mobster tradition while championing progressive values. I really like how this guy mixed his politics with film critique and then said that it's not a realistic portrait of mob life according to Wikipedia.
 
Of course Paulie didn't have a "goomah", he's a single man. It's the phonetic spelling of the Southern Italian dialect word cumar - comare in Italian which means godmother or close female family member. It's a euphemism for mistress but being a tutsun the author is a real disgraziato.
 
"No women in roles in the mob" - Yeah, that's how its always been

"Mob rules and traditions are routinely ignored" - So, we should enforce the one where women don't have a large role to play, right?

It wouldn't be official lefty hand wringing without open contradictions.
 
10) The FBI didn't care about the De Meo family for two reasons: 1) NYC was right across the river and the Five Families were higher priority and 2) 9/11 happened. The FBI had way bigger fish to fry. And if you recall, by the end of the show the noose was tightening around Tony's neck. Between the NYC mob and all of his captains ending up as rats, it was ultimately going to be a race to see who gets to Tony first.

And Phil is able to take the De Meo family down because his hands aren't tied like law enforcement's are.

9) Tony is a bad, bad man. Racism is the least of his sins.

8) Unresolved storylines? People come and go in your life. Things that seem important suddenly haven't been thought about in years. TV shows can be like that too where one day you realize that something got resolved off screen or wasn't resolved ever. Not everything needs wrapped up in a bow, especially if your show is just a slice of life and not a soap opera.

7) and 6) The Mob exists in a macho world where women are there for babies and amusement and if they get out of line or too uppity, they get five across the face. So do underlings who step out of line. The lesson to be learned is women shouldn't go near those guys, not that they should be all GURL POWER and YASSS QWEEN because that's a good way to end up getting the Tracee or Adriana treatment.

5) Bobby is somewhere offscreen. The characters know where he is. Exposition can be overdone.

4) Nobody likes fags. Especially macho types. See points 6 & 7 for more.

3) It's a TV show, not a history book. Of course there are continuity issues at times.

2) It's a TV show, not a book on the traditions of the Mob. And beyond that, it isn't like the characters aren't all hypocrites.

1) Nobody actually looks at fatties and says how nice they look in real life.

Should note that the FBI DID care about taking down the De Mayo family.... And it was a major plot point as well.

Midway through season one, Tony agrees to let Junior be the head of the crime syndicate but with everyone knowing (save for Junior) that he was just a figurehead and Tony would be calling the shots from the shadows. Which works out great for him as Junior gets arrested at the end of season one and spends most of the series on trial for his crimes.

Junior is ultimately acquitted due to a combination of him feigning senility and his goons threatening to kill one of the jury member's family. But by that point, 9-11 happened and as stated, the FBI basically moved on to dealing with terrorism and put the De Mayo crime family on the backburner, even as the one FBI agent was shown to be willing to trade information with Tony's crew in exchange for Tony reporting to him any suspicious activities involving Arabs acting fishy and possibly being terrorists.

Also, David Chase was notorious for not giving a fuck about closure for a lot of plotlines (most notably the finale). He did allow one writer to come up with a follow up on Pine Barrows and the Russian, with the reveal that the Russian suffered brain damage, didn't remember the attempt on his life, and was reassigned to a menial job sweeping floors due to his brain damage. But he vetoed the plotline making it to script/screen, as by that point he was pissy that fans wanted a follow-up to that storyline.

Finally, the death of the stripper/hooker Tracee was not swept under the rug (like the article said). It is explicitly brought up when Tony murders Ralph, with Ralph saying "She was a horse" (said in a way that sounds like he said "She was a whore", which was what Ralph said to Tony when he murdered Tracee to justify that murder) and Tony ranting and raving like a madman in a way that could be taken as him talking about Tracee not the horse in question.
 
Should note that the FBI DID care about taking down the De Mayo family.... And it was a major plot point as well.
You could also argue that the FBI, while allocating resources to it, doesn't really consider it too worthwhile. In the end they are a glorified crew and NY and foreign mafias are probably the more juicier targets. Heck, near the end half of their officers are feds.
 
Mate, it’s a show about gangsters. Gangsters do crimes, they’re not supposed to be nice.
Perhaps Sesame Street or Glee would be more up your alley?
 
9- The blatant racism

Generally, The Sopranos offers an enthralling study on the poisonous effects of greed, placing dark comic twists on the familiar get-rich-fast premise. However, it occasionally strays by turning some of its characters into racist pricks. Take the scene where Tony’s daughter Meadow introduces her black boyfriend, Noah, to him, and he goes completely nuts.

When Meadow briefly goes to her room, Tony shamelessly orders Noah to draft a breakup speech.


Tony Goes Full KKK


David Chase draws splendid performances from Patrick Tully and James Gandolfini in this scene. Tully is especially more impressive as he transforms from an anxious third party into a steely-eyed teen ready to stand up against racism.

“F*** you,” he says to his girlfriend’s dad, but his brief retaliation is noble compared to what Tony throws at him. The mob boss refers to him as a charcoal briquette, a mulligan, and a ditsoon. This kind of wording is odd, coming from one of the greatest TV characters of all time, yet there was no uproar 25 years ago. The show also has another questionable plot where Tony’s men try to break up a Native American protest.
I don't get this. Why is it a problem if characters are racist and do racist things? It's not like this was depicted as being good, or Tony in general being a good guy overall. Characters can be murderers, extortionists, despots and tyrants, but whoowee they definitely must be inclusive to all races and genders? I don't know about that.
 
He left out a lot of other problems with the show.

11. The needless killing
There's no reason these people should be going around killing people all the time. I want to like them but...yeesh.

12. Extortion and stealing
All the main chacharacters seem to make their money from stealing, threatening people to get money, lending money then beating people up who won't pay, stealing and reselling items. It's not a sustainable way to make a living and quite frankly looking at it from a modern perspective is just gross. A better plot would be where Tony goes back to college as an adult learner, takes some business courses, maybe gets a good job at an insurance agency.
 
I don't get this. Why is it a problem if characters are racist and do racist things? It's not like this was depicted as being good, or Tony in general being a good guy overall. Characters can be murderers, extortionists, despots and tyrants, but whoowee they definitely must be inclusive to all races and genders? I don't know about that.
They do the same dumb shit in the TTRPG hobby. Evil people can't engage in slavery, rape, etc. and you can't have any actual horror elements in a horror setting.
 
The Sopranos made efforts to portray life and crime as it was in the real world during the time it aired without pulling any punches, but that doesn't make some of it any easier to watch through a 2024 lens.
Phil, you talk like a finocch.
The word is 'moulignon', you minchia.
The show also has another questionable plot where Tony’s men try to break up a Native American protest.
A bunch of native Americans trying to interfere with a Columbus Day parade.
 
Also, David Chase was notorious for not giving a fuck about closure for a lot of plotlines (most notably the finale). He did allow one writer to come up with a follow up on Pine Barrows and the Russian, with the reveal that the Russian suffered brain damage, didn't remember the attempt on his life, and was reassigned to a menial job sweeping floors due to his brain damage. But he vetoed the plotline making it to script/screen, as by that point he was pissy that fans wanted a follow-up to that storyline.
Typical Hollywood ego, they built that guy up in Pine Barrens as a big deal since Slava tells Tony that he was basically Russian Rambo and Solid Snake combined, murking Chechens left and right back in the day like it was nothing, and Tony telling Paulie would be a major fookin problem if that guy shows up again. So why wouldn't fans want that followed up on lol. Getting pissy over that is so Hollywood

btw rewatching Sopranos right now and it's as good as ever. I'm so (not) sorry this faggot doesn't understand that Tony Soprano is not a good person. None of the mobsters are good people. They're mobsters, they're not supposed to be good people. Bad people saying and doing bad things being the main characters, we can't heccin have that in our entertainmenterinos!

And they pulled their punches with Noah, Tony should have beat the shit out of him like he did to everyone else on the show that ever stood up to him or pissed him off in any way. The ones he didn't personally murder or have murdered, anyway. Outside of Paulie and Silvio
 
You know how I know none of you read the article? Look at this quote ripe for the picking! This is page 4!

Given how progressive society has become and how much the quality of television has improved,

Is this dipshit seriously trying to convince us that the BK Kids club hellscape of lazy, hacky, millennial writing, casting by committee, wooden female ninjas on wires beating up 300lb men, peachy messaging, merch tie ins... "The power of one, the power of two, the power of cancellation!" ... is BETTER than peak HBO?!

Somebody should Clockwork this nigga and make him watch Clockwork... We won't try to rid him of his ultraviolent tendencies (probably impossible for the negroid) but instead try and force him to have a sense of taste.
 
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