the fucked up part to me is that they never point out real, effective examples of what they want, cause they exist without defaulting to the "here's godmode and if that's not good enough here's a skip game button"
Pathologic 2 released with many people (even some who wanted the struggle) being unable to bear through the game at all, and addressed this with a patch that allows you to tweak every single aspect of the game's difficulty while strongly encouraging you to stay on the intended difficulty. however even if you turn it off, you're given wonderful flavor text that also explains the actual impact every parameter has on the intended narrative and game design (running too fast makes time not matter, never needing to sleep makes you miss plot important dreams etc.) and never allows you to completely negate them, causing the game to still retain its identity to someone less-abled that would be taken away by just giving you godmode or something.
on the actual proper "i have like 2 fingers and i genuinely cannot interface with this game" side (not even counting controllers for disabled people), Nier Automata like several platinum games titles has tons of accessibility features that can only be activated if you pick easy mode, and unlike something like Bayonetta there's not really any downside to using them. these are so effective you can straight up not play the game beyond moving the camera and player, but you still get to pick and choose which actions you can handle doing yourself and which ones you want done for you. (plus you still have to like, not actively walk off a cliff and shit)
approaches like these are actually more accessible, cause if you have no arms and it takes you longer to do x or y on your weird foot controller, you can adjust those aspects while still getting to play a game. i'm not sure why every millionth copy of this same topic has to be about letting me turn games into youtube playthroughs, cause why would any disabled people buy games at that point when you can just watch the same experience for free.