Most hate is immature

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Whenever you meet someone, they'll formulate an image of you in their mind and act accordingly. If they like you, they'll be happy when you come around, speak nicely about you, and do good things for you. If they dislike you, they'll silently bemoan your presence, talk shit about you, and act in ways towards you that they wouldn't to other people. Very profound I know 🙀. However, these opinions are formed off things that aren't really fair. Things like: this person has an annoying voice, I disagree with this person, this person is ugly, this dude's weird, this guy's doing better than me in life, etc. People may retroactively give some justification for this hate, but it usually stems from something quite childish.

Ok, I think this person is a bit of a loser. He has an anime phone case and spends his free time watching Shonen anime made for 12 year olds. He has poor social skills. He's also kind of fat. So what? Should I talk behind his back? Should I go out of my way to make his life worse? Inevitably, someone is going to have a gripe with me. Should they talk shit about me? Should they go out of their way to make my life worse? I don't try to hurt anyone. I just keep to myself, that's not fair.

I understand that everyone has these emotions, to hate is to be human. But it takes maturity to show kindness and respect to the people you dislike, and not through gritted teeth. Plus, being filled with hate and dislike is bad for your mental health. Obviously, it's justifiable to hate people that do horrible things, but most hate isn't towards those people.
 
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Sounds pretty hateful and out of tune right out the gate. There are valid reasons to hate someone for under performing or enacting atrocities. You cannot have love without a concept of hate and often things fueled by hate are driven by love.
 
Everyone judges one another based on physical appearance and manner of dress. Whether judging from appearance alone is "fair" or not is debatable, but it often is a reasonably accurate way of determining lifestyle choices. And I would argue judging people for lifestyle choices IS fair.

Different lifestyle choices say something about one's personal character. E.g. you look at a muscular man or fit woman and can infer that they are willing to expend effort to achieve long-term goals. Which in turn says something about their character.

You see a fat man/woman who is sloppily dressed with an anime phone case (your example) and you can infer that person probably isn't focused on long-term goals and is simply satiating easy desires like eating and entertainment. Which in turn says something about that person's character.
 
Wow... I never thought of it that way! I'm a changed man thanks to your totally unique perspective! You are truly one of the most original thinkers of our time, your one of a kind musings too enlightening for this evil chud harassment New Zealand basket weaving forum! When you receive the Pulitzer I'll brim with pride knowing I was one of the first to have my eyes opened by this world-changing scripture.
 
Now it's MOST hate is immature.

He has an anime phone case and spends his free time watching Shonen anime made for 12 year olds. He has poor social skills. He's also kind of fat. So what? Should I talk behind his back? Should I go out of my way to make his life worse? Inevitably, someone is going to have a gripe with me. Should they talk shit about me? Should they go out of their way to make my life worse? I don't try to hurt anyone. I just keep to myself, that's not fair.
Is there something you want to tell us?

I like anime as a medium. Theoretically, it should encourage creativity and freedom. You aren't constrained by real life, and most anime are sourced from manga written by individual writers, not teams from corporations. But, most anime end up reusing the same tropes, storylines, character archetypes, and are incredibly one-dimensional. You have to sift through slop to find watchable anime.
 
Sounds pretty hateful and out of tune right out the gate. There are valid reasons to hate someone for under performing or enacting atrocities. You cannot have love without a concept of hate and often things fueled by hate are driven by love.
Obviously, it's justifiable to hate people that do horrible things, but most hate isn't towards those people.
Love = hate is a boring platitude.
Everyone judges one another based on physical appearance and manner of dress. Whether judging from appearance alone is "fair" or not is debatable, but it often is a reasonably accurate way of determining lifestyle choices. And I would argue judging people for lifestyle choices IS fair
I'm not saying you can't judge. It's inevitable and built in to your mind. Acting on your negative opinion of someone is what I'm against, for the most . Talking shit about that person, being mean to them etc. It's not productive and quite unfair usually, as your opinion of someone is usually based on superficial things that aren't tied to morality.
Is there something you want to tell us?
It's called an example buddy.
 
it takes maturity to show kindness and respect to the people you dislike, and not through gritted teeth.
fuck you faggot
Plus, being filled with hate and dislike is bad for your mental health.
fuck your momma
Obviously, it's justifiable to hate people that do horrible things, but most hate isn't towards those people.
fuck your grandmomma

I'm a grown adult, my hate isn't immature. It's the deep, profound, abiding, invested hatred borne of decades of wisdom and experience. Go back to reddit, pussy.

EDIT - join date is literally today, found the fed/troon/middleschool edgelord
 
I'm a grown adult, my hate isn't immature.
Yea bro you're an adult so everything you do is mature. You're definitely right buddy.
It's the deep, profound, abiding, invested hatred borne of decades of wisdom and experience. Go back to reddit, pussy.
"Go back to reddit" after saying the most Reddit sentence in history. You sound like some autist roleplaying LOTR.
EDIT - join date is literally today, found the fed/troon/middleschool edgelord
If I were some fed I'd blend in and follow what everyone else is saying like you are retard.
 
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You dropped this bud.
 
Most hate is immature
Because it's based on social affect, not actual morality or even direct experience.

I know. I'm on a site known for harassing people. Stfu.
We do not. We share evidence of people being stupid, and other people mocking or attacking or even harassing the other morons, but do not do it ourselves.

Whenever you meet someone, they'll formulate an image of you in their mind and act accordingly. If they like you, they'll be happy when you come around, speak nicely about you, and do good things for you. If they dislike you, they'll silently bemoan your presence, talk shit about you, and act in ways towards you that they wouldn't to other people. Very profound I know 🙀. However, these opinions are formed off things that aren't really fair. Things like: this person has an annoying voice, I disagree with this person, this person is ugly, this dude's weird, this guy's doing better than me in life, etc. People may retroactively give some justification for this hate, but it usually stems from something quite childish.
I see you're able to reflect and understand the notion of a social-object-self. Good!

You also seem to understand that most morality, social-morality, is "moralizing" an opinion or preference that's socially disseminated. AKA groupthink. AKA monke brain.

Ok, I think this person is a bit of a loser. He has an anime phone case and spends his free time watching Shonen anime made for 12 year olds. He has poor social skills. He's also kind of fat. So what? Should I talk behind his back? Should I go out of my way to make his life worse? Inevitably, someone is going to have a gripe with me. Should they talk shit about me? Should they go out of their way to make my life worse? I don't try to hurt anyone. I just keep to myself, that's not fair.
And yet you don't really think about why one should, or should not, do these things. Why are you defaulting to "low status; be a jerk". Instincts you don't grasp and reflect on yet? Or nobody told you to?


I understand that everyone has these emotions, to hate is to be human. But it takes maturity to show kindness and respect to the people you dislike, and not through gritted teeth. Plus, being filled with hate and dislike is bad for your mental health. Obviously, it's justifiable to hate people that do horrible things, but most hate isn't towards those people.
What's the correct moralized coding for "congratulations, you think and speak at a high school level, come back to KF when you're actually grown up, faggot?"
 
Yea bro you're an adult so everything you do is mature. You're definitely right buddy.

"Go back to reddit" after saying the most Reddit sentence in history. You sound like some autist roleplaying LOTR.

If I were some fed I'd blend in and follow what everyone else is saying like you are retard.
You're fat and I would not have sex with you.
 
Tell me you know almost nothing about Kiwi Farms without telling me you know almost nothing about Kiwi Farms.

The Farms documents dysfunctional individuals. Documenting drama isn't harassment. If it was harassment in any meaningful sense, Josh would be drowning in unwinnable lawsuits because actual harassment is illegal. The community frowns upon trolling plans and lolcow gayops. Anyone who cries harassment is most likely upset a website has archived embarrassing facts about them or someone they care about. Kiwi Farms is a "harassment site" for the same reason Socrates was executed: because it offends and inconveniences egotistical manbaby retards.
 
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