I might have posted some of this before, but there's been developments. There is, of course, nobody at work I can talk to about any of it.
For context, I work in a large workplace that is sorted into teams (low end), branches, divisions, etc. A few months ago, an MtF joined my branch. I don't have to work with him directly, but on the branch social chat, he can't go one fucking day without reminding everyone he's a man and calling attention to his transness. Like, using the trans flag as his Zoom background, talking about his 'neurospicy' trans woman flatmate, saying it would be interesting to have JK Rowling paint his portrait because he was curious as to what somebody who didn't believe in his existence would paint (yes, he actually said that). Encouraged, of course, everybody to add pronouns to email and chat, and explained how to do it. (If I wanted to do it I'd know how to do it.)
He also has a non-binary they/them sibling so you have to wonder what his parents were doing wrong. The reason I know this TiM has a nonbinary sibling? He told the chat, of course.
I also once worked with an AWFL (affluent white female liberal) who is a single mother, has the exact libshit leftist opinions you would expect (and doesn't hide them because the workplace is generally leftist), and has purple hair. (I'm gay but couldn't give you an exact tone but something like a purplish-blue).
She was in my team years ago and talked about her 'queer daughter' (who was fucking 11 at the time). She moved out of my team but recently returned to our division and now has a trans 'son'. At first she appeared to hedge her words (I'm surprised she wasn't libshit enough to be thrilled to be honest) and kind of sometimes used they/them, sometimes talked about taking her 'kid' to an event, etc). But now it's all he/him, 'my son is a sullen teenager', no mention that her 'son' is a trans-identified female at all. She is senior to me (though not in my direct line of reporting) but if I leave this workplace I feel like approaching her and begging her 'please don't let your daughter take testosterone'. It would probably be fruitless to do so, I imagine, but at least I'd have made an effort.