In what context, your delusional gibbering? You are our cum dumpster.
You don't even know what sex you are any more you dribbling shit dick!
*tokes on along with this new vape flavor*
All I'm gettin is boring God work... relationship or work advice or... whatever this junk is, I dunno. It's been floating, or fragmenting in my mind for a bit, while I was trying to relax and play a video game, so I stopped to take a break and create! I'll put these perceptual Lego pieces in my head together and try and sort them out as best I can and I shall create...
*snaps reality*
What men want in women are "women jobs"...
Secretary
Waitress
Cook
Nurse
Mommy
Model
Nun
What women want in men are "men's jobs"...
Builder
Maintenance
Soldier
Doctor
Daddy
Gladiator
Priest
What both want in parents are "shared jobs"...
Teacher
Law
Leader
Coach
Boss
Artist
STEM
If you flip any of these around it creates fetish/taboo types, like a male cheerleader, or male nurse, or female daddy, or female soldier, or saying "only men can be ~this~ parent job" or "only women can be ~this~ parent job", then it feels really awkward and antithetical to the natural order, which is like wandering into wonderland.
Human sentience can't exist in abject reality for very long. It might be fun to explore, like with cosplay or Halloween, but if you try it as a "lifestyle"... you're not different than a transsexual. I'm not saying you ~can't~... I'm just sayin, yer shits gonna stink worse than everyone else's at a default and EVERYONE is gonna be smellin it! You will not be able to hide the stench of that crotch rot!
So, based on this, a priest should be allowed to marry, any parent can't be one unless they have been married. So if you have a parent job you should seek to date someone who also has a parent job, or else it is awkward and likely won't work out, like a boss dating a secretary, or a teacher dating a daddy. It's a fling, it's fun, but it'll fade fast.
So priests marry BEST with nuns, their counterpart and neither should ever marry anyone in STEM as they will likely argue all the time over dominance.
Parent roles are adult roles, men and women roles are child roles. It takes an adult mind to operate in a parental role, where as it takes no effort to be what you are naturally. A man inherently likes male things, a woman inherently likes female things and it is WORK to try and play in the opposite role, which is why we don't.
Some people might be born different, very small percentage, but in reality there's just this small percentage of humans whose always looking to escape reality by being "different" so they roleplay through life, which can be kind of cute... or horrifying, depending on the application of artistry or crudity.
For example idols in media are often derived from perfect impossible pairings, like Samantha Carter on SG-1, who is a woman, who is top tier in soldier, maintenance and builder... all male jobs, but everyone loves her in those roles because the character feels genuinely quirky, an oddball, but an equal/stable one.
We like stable oddballs because it shows that even greater levels of adulting are possible, that you can "act like a role model", not simply "act like an adult". At that level you take on a high degree of responsibility, like a G.I. Jane sort of character, the more you risk, the more you can lose if you fail... as in, you'll be seen as a loser.
That's why a man who fails to act like a man or a woman who fails to act like a woman is seen, naturally, as a loser... unless they can manage to prove otherwise with super hard work, work that puts them ABOVE the parenting level and into the saint level.
Okay, bored now, I want to go play. Oh, here is some old stuff too I have attached about relationships. It's good stuff, explains everything a LOT more coherently than everything else. The right is all, "Do what you're told, don't think!" while the left is all, "Here's a genderbread man, er, I mean person... of colored significance."
You can tell they're play acting... neither can coherently explain what they're even doing, it's like they're just wearing costumes.
There's also unacceptable jobs for both, like...
Saboteur
Stalker
Slave
Torturer
Child
Jobless
Killer
Nothing wants a relationship with the rejected, no matter if it's adult, man or woman.
