Hey guys, first off sorry for the spelling, punctuation and etc not the best at it on phone. Anyway, I don't really post here much like that or come here that often. I use to when Kent was booming a few summers ago and then the site disappeared and I was like damn, because the Kent stuff was interesting. Anyway, it's cool it's back now, anyway I would like to speak on this current malik situation.
I've actually been pretty envoled, as well as others with this realtionship for almost more than a year. Because me and malik became good friends after he asked me to message him on Facebook few years back, because I was a frequent commentator when he wasn't as popular and first started out. I'm talking about the days where he was into passing women and legit me, that fail troll randomdude and some older black lady was the only one in his comments Lmao. So yeah I've known him for a while, and I always beileved out of all the tflers he was the less troubled and had the most hope of getting a gf. Him and this other white guy who was into making music , btw, that one guy is doing fantastic now so change is possible! (Sorry for not just saying his name, it would be rude lol, but sure you guys know). So, yeah I always seen him as the most sensabile and that's why I decided to build a friendship with him and try to help him through the hard times. also, I beileved I was so interested in the videos of the tfelrs because sometimes they can be funny like barakas and because in a way I related to their feelings in a way, which I think we all do and did once in our lives and that's why we try to help and get invested
Now that the boring back story out of the way , like I said I was super invested in this relationship because when malik met her on yt he really liked her. I could tell he did because of this was the one girl he wasn't too lustful for, however I was weary of him going into realtionship with Victoria because she was kind of shady with her actions. Out of respect for her, I won't go into detail but she did LIE a ton, sometimes small and in huge huge huge ways, but despite my warnings, he still stayed with her and they became a couple yay lol. However, their realtionship was super toxic, and trust me it was from both sides
Malik was toxic, NOT BECAUSE he was abusive, sorry for being edgy with caps lol. But because malik a very guillible and sensative dude. And also malik pretty much lacked emotion and empathy for others a ton in the past and this was the first time he truly felt for someone, therefore certain things, he would handle way too hard. Which is understandable, he kind of had a sheltered life . Basically it was like tyler the creator song IFHY. Where the character tyler was playing as words were edgy and immature but, yet the song is written in a way it could be a poetic love song, and it's actually beautiful tbh. Tyler perfectly captured how many troubled and a lil unstabled young men handle their realtionships and the few downs of it and that was basically malik in the realtionship. But, in malik case it was never like aggressive when he would get upset, just a lil dramatic and whiney and he always managed to get through it. But he's a super emotional guy who really is into emotional support with stuff so that's why he would go on live streams and talk about her and stuff, for support and him overacting, not to harm her. However, even tho malik was toxic in that way, Victoria was too in a sort of different way. But again, note he's far from an abuser
Honestly like you guys said, Victoria was very off herself as well. Which makes sense to why she even knew about his page, and before I truly realized she was off mentally I despised her because I felt she took advantage of his emotions and was kind of mean unessiarly, l2spell plz lol. Especially in the beginning, I kind of felt she knew the perfect things to say to set him off and the lies Jesus. But yeah, she did it so much, I was like no way this has to be a troll and shes going to expose him and break his heart for lawls, but she always noticed it's after a while of doing it the mind games and said sorry for it. I now know she honestly couldn't controlling when she got like that because I realized she was off too, even to more of a degree. Like even her goals for them wasn't logical at all and I would tell malik, nah, bro don't do that but they was in love even with the toxicity. Another way I knew she was off was with all these lies, man, so many lies but I must admit she did confess to them eventually, and I felt she did it because she thought malik wouldn't want to be with her if he knew the truth. But the lies, really made me tell him alot to leave her because that can be dangerous, like what if she had a husband or something?? I won't go into the lies in respect for her, but man, some where huge, but again, props for her to fessing to them. she did have much love for him, did awesome things for him and gave hi me good experiences amogust the bad so for that I thank her.
I didn't just push the realtionship to end because of her, but because as a couple it was just a bad situation which both didn't needed. He was insensitive to her at times due to his ignorance to common things and she was too because she would push and over blow things. And that's why malik would get really upset and sad because she kept pushing stuff ,like in that voicemail clip the person who posted that only posted a portion of it to frame him because she knew how to press his buttons, and note she said the same. These phone calls was hella long but in a sense it would be boring as fucking lol, and then she brings up something comedown on him and he usually go into whiney mode. But this one time he was the aggressor ,which he later apologized for. So really don't go off of these randoms postings of malik stuff they are cut at the right moments to make him look bad, however he was wrong for sharing them in the first place, and I told him not to really share even the good stuff in their realtionship.
Told him that because the tfl community is pretty toxic, they just bring each other down and are so jealous of each other . That's why I KNEW one of the people heshared all these things with was gonna try to expose him one day because all they think when a fellow buddy is telling them successs with a women "omg he's a show off I'm so jealous! Blah blah cancer cancer". He was even that way with Kent lol. Never got that like wouldn't seeing a guy like you win give you hope? Egos man lol. Anyway after the agrumenrs gotten too much towards the end, which she's was more of the start of it he got sick of it and broke up with her. He said this a few times and got back with her so I was like w. e but know this final time he was serious. Because he really fell in love with the anime thing and she got a little ridiculous towards the end. This new amv stuff is great for him, first-time I talked to him about something he's more passionatethen than women lol. Just wish he would of did it in a better way which wasn't mean at all,many people do it the same way, sadly lol but yes it's true he did break up with her, was his idea. Think about it, we all know malik love the. Female. Sex organ or posterior. So for him to give THAT UP means she must of gotten pretty bad lol.
So yeah guys, first off malik, Victoria, sorry. Didn't mean to say this much but, calling someone an abuser when he isn't is huge, so I had to share some light. She wasn't either just pushed him sometimes I think on purpose but again, she's off a lil too and was very sweet and loving women. I beileved they both just need more stable partners, to balance both of their issues out. Know, I'm just going off what I saw from an outside perspective and I really don't want To go into it more me and malik friendship been pleasent with out this realtionship going on and he has been his most happiest too. That's why I urge those who positing his stuff to stop, guy really doing well, trying to turn a new leaf and him finding these things again makes him regress. Yeah he did share this stuff but he did it out of not knowing how to control his emotions, and for seeking help. Imagine if someone repost all the cringy stuff you did with girls and stuff in the past. Would suck wont it? And I know it's funny but seems like you guys are doing it out of spite, not so much thegutta dude but these newer ones. Not talking about you kiwifarms people either, yall mostly observers the yaio stuffwasweird tho lol.
Anyway that's all, malik is not an abuser Victoria is sweet just that it was fail match, those who have hatered for malik let it go, and check out his amvs, leave advice and comments Cuz it's sad how his passion gets no views but his toxic stuff do( for his sub count, malik bro you know you be acting like those toxic videos of yours be making Jake Paul numbers lolol, ik ya ass gonna see this probably). Thanks for reading if you did sorry for errors because all you guys write beautifully.
Tldr: gumball is a good show, READ NIGGARDLY! sigh, fucking this phone auto shut lol.
