Makeup! Clothes! "Girly stuff" thread

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So green eyeshadow on green eyes? Yay or nay? I heard conflicting sides with many articles saying it'll look good but then my mom says it washes out your eyes stating that her mom did that and that's what happened.

There's a school of thought that wearing a shadow color the same as your eyes competes with eye color. But you know, I really think you can do it if it's just part of the eye look, like a crease shade with and otherwise neutral eye or smudged on the lower lash line. Can't hurt to give it a whirl.
 
So green eyeshadow on green eyes? Yay or nay? I heard conflicting sides with many articles saying it'll look good but then my mom says it washes out your eyes stating that her mom did that and that's what happened.
It probably won’t make your eyes pop like contrasting colors, but like Mageflower said it’s worth a shot. Worst case scenario it washes off! Green eyeshadow is cool, anyway.
 
People have issues with the Real Real? Why?


Why is it obvious? Please be patient with me I have autism when it comes to the US middle class. Why would you not want to put money into a quality item that draws attention and then just cycle your outfits around it?
Quality items don't draw attention because nobody knows what quality items look like any more. I went through a period of obsessing about clothing quality, and that's my big takeaway. 99% of people don't wear quality clothes. Sometimes items stand out as quality, sure, but in many cases it's not visibly evident and you have to train yourself what to look for - specific fabric blends, how the garment is finished on the inside which isn't even visible to anyone else, etc. If 99% of people don't know what to look for because they haven't trained themselves and they're used to the crap clothing literally everyone wears, then you don't really get any accolades for wearing expensive but non-branded clothing.

So you're left with doing it for yourself, which is what you should be doing, but that's not all. Even expensive garments that are supposed to be quality often aren't - my $30 reformation black t-shirt got a random hole in it within a year, my $15 per pair bombas socks wore out much sooner than I expected. These items looked good to me and I bothered doing research, but they ultimately didn't hold up the way I wanted. I'm also very picky and like variety. When you only buy quality items you have fewer fun options, sometimes you just want whatever dumb thing is trendy.

After everything, my takeaway is that buying actual quality items isn't easy, and you have to want to do it for yourself and not expect much, either from other people or from the item itself.
 
I have green eyes, and wear green shadow all the time.
But it's always a muted green, like olive or an army green.
I think it's based more on your skin tones, I look good in the muted, cooler colors. I can't wear orange eyeshadow. I've tried, but it looks awful.

And I've always wanted a Chanel 2.55 bag in black. To me, it's a classic, simple, elegant bag.
It's still going strong after 60 years.
I doubt I'll ever be able to afford one, but I can dream, right?
 
On the topic of clothing, there are so many options out there that get destroyed by the manufacturer if they don’t sell. Tossed out if it gets a hole or falls out of style. Is waiting in a wearhouse somewhere getting liquidated (so much untouched new clothing in the world). Quite often, donated and unsold clothing goes to impoverished countries for their people to use, which is a decent enough way to give a second life to clothing and prevents it from ending up in the landfill.

I honestly just thrift all my clothing. Depending on the neighborhoods you shop in, you find all sorts of different selections. I’ve been to thrift stores and found brand new and like new clothing, with tags. I hate the idea of supporting fast fashion. Ideally, If I’m not buying directly from the source, I’m not giving them the cue that people want this and to produce more. Especially if that same thing I eyeballed at the mall, ends up donated because it was someone else’s impulse.

Though unfortunately, everyone else still wants it..but at least I’m trying. I got two cute cotton pieces made in the USA for 50c at a garage sale. Kinda artsy black dress and a grayish blue sleeveless cardigan. Got good quality and helping get rid of unneeded goods. My mind is a little sounder as I’m helping out a neighbor or a local charity if I do these options, even the environment a little bit. And I save money.
 
which is a decent enough way to give a second life to clothing and prevents it from ending up in the landfill.
Yeah but doesn't that also mean that no local clothing makers can keep their jobs? They can't compete with free shit from the global north. It's like what happened with TOMS putting all those local shoemakers out of business.
 
Bit petty but I would have been tempted to get the cremation palette from j* since I love my tongue in cheek morbid humor and dark colors on my eyes, but fucking hell the packaging turned me off. For Christ's sake man, you could have made it in the shape of an urn or a coffin and give it a nice look but instead you just slapped your alien-vampire hybrid mug onto it. What a waste, it could have had a cool design that matched the death theme of the palette.


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Quite often, donated and unsold clothing goes to impoverished countries for their people to use, which is a decent enough way to give a second life to clothing and prevents it from ending up in the landfill.

okayyyyyyyyyy so this is what we're told what happens but its not the case. unsold donated clothing rarely gets given to impoverished countries. actually what happens is pretty shitty.

ok so basically donated clothing gets sorted into 3 main categories: able to re-sell (what you find in thrift stores), clothing that is too soiled/damaged often gets shredded and made into other products like furniture stuffing and insulation. but then there's another category of clothing that falls in between those two categories and we're told it's just given to poor people but it's not.

what happens is that clothing gets packed into crates and shipped off to 3rd world countries where it's NOT divided among the unfortunate, but buyers bid on it for re-sale in their respective countries. which doesn't sound so bad except 1. its an incredibly risky business: a good crate can yield good money especially if it contains multiples of the same items (often used as work uniforms). but if the crate doesn't have much, that person can become completely broke over it. its an industry that really doesn't benefit anyone. 2. like i said prior, one of the best industries to help developing countries climb out of poverty is the apparel industry (yep, it's a fucked situation where kids working in a factory also means that family finally has food on the table). But they can't DO that if there's a steady stream of donated runoff going into their country. basically, clothing donation "charities" make money by helping to keep developing countries down.

Even countries that make their own clothing just re-sell donated clothes because it just easier and has a higher profit margin.

if you want to get rid of your clothing, try to give it to people directly first: people you know, local shelters, etc. If you want to donate it try to find a thrift store that has a well-curated stock: you'll get a decent amount of money and it keeps that clothing's longevity and away from the abovementioned shit industry. but ultimately people just got to be buying way fucking less.

info about used clothing auctions is getting harder to come across but here are a few good articles about donating clothes:


 
Bit petty but I would have been tempted to get the cremation palette from j* since I love my tongue in cheek morbid humor and dark colors on my eyes, but fucking hell the packaging turned me off. For Christ's sake man, you could have made it in the shape of an urn or a coffin and give it a nice look but instead you just slapped your alien-vampire hybrid mug onto it. What a waste, it could have had a cool design that matched the death theme of the palette.


Thank you. I’ve wanted to get a JS palette because of how cool the packaging designs are and from friends recommending them constantly. When I heard there was a Smokey eye palette out I figured I’d finally cave in and buy one, until I saw Voldemort on the cover.

Is there a dark/ smokey palette similar to this that you’d recommend ?
 
People complain about this and Huda Beautys' palettes, can you cover them with some nice paper or paint over them?
I have one of Hudas' palettes, and I stuck huge googly eyes over hers. Makes me smile when I use it, and her eyes are covered up.

As for shopping at thrift stores, I can never find things I like. Some people can find and put together entire wardrobes, but not me.

But I think that's more about my dislike of shopping in thrift stores. When I was younger, that's where most of my clothes came from, I rarely got new clothes.
 
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Thank you. I’ve wanted to get a JS palette because of how cool the packaging designs are and from friends recommending them constantly. When I heard there was a Smokey eye palette out I figured I’d finally cave in and buy one, until I saw Voldemort on the cover.

Is there a dark/ smokey palette similar to this that you’d recommend ?

The only one that I have is Venus immortalis from Lime Crime which I like well enough (plus it glows in the dark if you're into that) although it's former owner is a cow but thankfully someone else took over.

edit: i got ninja'd by computer wife.
 
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okayyyyyyyyyy so this is what we're told what happens but its not the case. unsold donated clothing rarely gets given to impoverished countries. actually what happens is pretty shitty.

ok so basically donated clothing gets sorted into 3 main categories: able to re-sell (what you find in thrift stores), clothing that is too soiled/damaged often gets shredded and made into other products like furniture stuffing and insulation. but then there's another category of clothing that falls in between those two categories and we're told it's just given to poor people but it's not.

what happens is that clothing gets packed into crates and shipped off to 3rd world countries where it's NOT divided among the unfortunate, but buyers bid on it for re-sale in their respective countries. which doesn't sound so bad except 1. its an incredibly risky business: a good crate can yield good money especially if it contains multiples of the same items (often used as work uniforms). but if the crate doesn't have much, that person can become completely broke over it. its an industry that really doesn't benefit anyone. 2. like i said prior, one of the best industries to help developing countries climb out of poverty is the apparel industry (yep, it's a fucked situation where kids working in a factory also means that family finally has food on the table). But they can't DO that if there's a steady stream of donated runoff going into their country. basically, clothing donation "charities" make money by helping to keep developing countries down.

Even countries that make their own clothing just re-sell donated clothes because it just easier and has a higher profit margin.

if you want to get rid of your clothing, try to give it to people directly first: people you know, local shelters, etc. If you want to donate it try to find a thrift store that has a well-curated stock: you'll get a decent amount of money and it keeps that clothing's longevity and away from the abovementioned shit industry. but ultimately people just got to be buying way fucking less.

info about used clothing auctions is getting harder to come across but here are a few good articles about donating clothes:


I'm pretty sure what's actually happening is that China wants to set up a bunch of factories in Africa and sell their clothes to the people there directly, but can't compete with the secondhand market. So they spread this "poor local artisans" story along with other rumors.
 
a lot of it predates the removal of tariffs from chinese goods (when their manufacturing industry skyrocketed). tbh i don't actually know what the truth is in that instance but them simply spreading rumors really doesn't make sense
 
I have a cape obsession. I got this cape and this bag. These things should be really fun for Halloween.
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How many of you are familiar with Etude House? It's a Korean makeup brand that has really nice items with some cute packaging at usually some pretty low prices. Personally, I like Korean/Japanese makeup brands because it doesn't make my butthurt sensitive skin freak out. For example I have this palette by them:

 
How many of you are familiar with Etude House? It's a Korean makeup brand that has really nice items with some cute packaging at usually some pretty low prices. Personally, I like Korean/Japanese makeup brands because it doesn't make my butthurt sensitive skin freak out. For example I have this palette by them:

Etude House is AMAZING. Such cute products, and a wide array of them; it’s quite an accessible brand for beginners in Asian beauty. In fact, I think they were my first foray into Asian beauty, both with skincare (the Wonder Pore toner) and makeup (The Face Blur primer thing, and as for eyeshadows I think I have the Coffee one, that Cherry Blossom one, the peach or juice one, and a mini eight colour palette whose name I forget). Currently, I’ve just discovered their Soon Jung line for ultra sensitive skin— you should check it out!! I’m using their Soon Jung 10-free Moist Emulsion (free of ten icky ingredients often found in skincare), and it has been a great occlusive and softener in my routine!
 
Ok, you guys got me. Now I'm curious. If I like my skin already and don't wear makeup, is this hobby even worth looking into?
What hobby, skincare? Well if you think your skin is healthy and you wash it everyday, I don't see why you'd want to spend money on it, haha. Unless you'd like to improve it or start some anti-aging routine, I would always advise saving the money on it-- unfortunately my skin requires lots of TLC with my eczema:/

That being said, skincare can be a fun little "selfcare" (pardon the faggy term) activity, and if you can spare the time and money, it's quite relaxing and rewarding once you find what your skin loves! And there are many affordable products you can explore; what exactly would you be interested in targeting?
 
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