💬 Off-Topic Losing people to transgenderism support thread - Support group for trans widows and other people who lost loved ones to troonism

[Idiot Sandwich the 3rd]

I can shout TTD from the rooftops all day long on the farms but the truth is I’ve had a good “nonbinary” friend for about 5 years now. Today I let it slip that I don’t actually think being nonbinary is a real thing so she blew up and claimed that I never truly cared about her and was lying to her face this whole time so we broke things off then and there.

Unironically, am I the asshole? She wasn’t nonbinary when I met her, and it’s not as bad as full on transitioning so I thought I could look past it. I probably should’ve been upfront with my beliefs, but I liked her so much I decided to tolerate it out of respect. She’s acting like I secretly hated her for the color of her skin. I detest the way these people are conditioned to enmesh this ideology into their entire personhood.

I'm gonna say youre not an asshole.
I already mentioned before I had plenty of pooner friends throughout my life, I have told some of them that I still think of them as women and we agreed to disagree.
I know this is not the majority of pooners but it shows it is perfectly possible for both sides to still be calm and good with each other.

If you were not an asshole or rude when telling her that you didnt saw her as anything other than a woman, then youre not an asshole, you just expressed your point of view and where honest.

 

[Ed Special]

Got an update on my chaser cousin: His car's shown up in his parents' driveway again. Seems like even the tranny he was chasing got sick of him being a lazy useless piece of shit and gave him the boot.

 

[LinkinParkxNaruto[AMV]]

Today I let it slip that I don’t actually think being nonbinary is a real thing so she blew up and claimed that I never truly cared about her and was lying to her face this whole time so we broke things off then and there.

You were willing to look past a difference in ideology to be friends with her but she wasn't able to do the same with you. She is the asshole.

 

[femboy fart huffer]

Randomly went back to randomly to have a look at what my now tranny ex looked like after another year of drugs and holy fucking shit, you know how most trannies want to transition from man to girl? Yea so he did the fucking opposite and went man to granny. Like full on if I told you his name was margret and he grew up with lard sandwiches you'd believe me. Haircut you'd never find outside of a bingo hall and a clothing choice that looks like it belongs in a 1950s furniture store more than it does a wardrobe. And people try telling you that faggots have good fashion sense smh.

 

[Drive-by Farts]

I'm gonna say youre not an asshole.
I already mentioned before I had plenty of pooner friends throughout my life, I have told some of them that I still think of them as women and we agreed to disagree.
I know this is not the majority of pooners but it shows it is perfectly possible for both sides to still be calm and good with each other.

If you were not an asshole or rude when telling her that you didnt saw her as anything other than a woman, then youre not an asshole, you just expressed your point of view and where honest.

Not the asshole. Reading this thread, way too many of you are continuing to entertain hard leftists as friends. I also cannot help but notice how many of the posters themselves actually lean left. This would be a great time for everyone reading this to rethink their friend group AND rethink their political leanings. Leftists in America today want you to agree with them when they claim the sky is red and that a hulking 6ft male can be a woman - and if you don’t agree they’ll shoot you. This is Communism 101.

 

[Idiot Sandwich the 3rd]

Not the asshole. Reading this thread, way too many of you are continuing to entertain hard leftists as friends. I also cannot help but notice how many of the posters themselves actually lean left. This would be a great time for everyone reading this to rethink their friend group AND rethink their political leanings. Leftists in America today want you to agree with them when they claim the sky is red and that a hulking 6ft male can be a woman - and if you don’t agree they’ll shoot you. This is Communism 101.

Since forever you can have friendships with people of all kinds of political beliefs AND DISAGREE. Being friends ≠ Believing on the same ideas.

If you only live in an echo chamber where everyone agreed with you then sure, you won't have issues with trannies, or communism.
If your ideas are never challenged you will never grow as an individual.

I didn't peaked because I suddenly got conservative friends that would tell me troons are bad, I peaked because I've befriended people who are pro-trans and even people that would eventually troon out, I peaked because I could see how fucked up these people are for myself.

The echo chamber mentality encourages extremism, it will push you to believe that everyone you disagree with is a terrible person, regardless of your political view or the opposing politics to your own.

Yes, I have friends who are retarded for believing in this troon nonsense, but otherwise they're nice people to hang out and talk about other topics with.

 

[Waifuchu]

Not the asshole. Reading this thread, way too many of you are continuing to entertain hard leftists as friends. I also cannot help but notice how many of the posters themselves actually lean left. This would be a great time for everyone reading this to rethink their friend group AND rethink their political leanings. Leftists in America today want you to agree with them when they claim the sky is red and that a hulking 6ft male can be a woman - and if you don’t agree they’ll shoot you. This is Communism 101.

How is that different than any of the many examples in this thread of trannies cutting their "friends" off for not being strong enough enablers?

"You don't fully 1:1 align with my personal sociopolitical values, BEGONE FROM MY LIFE. NEVER BLIGHT MY AIRSPACE WITH YOUR THOUGHTS AGAIN UNLESS YOU REPENT AND ACCEPT MY TRUTH."

If I only allowed myself to interact with people who had the exact same thoughts and perspectives on the world that I do, I would have no friends.

 

[█████████]

I'm so thankful that none of my family members are trannies, not even the most liberal of my relatives are.
(Though they tend to be the normie "don't be raycisss or hateful" type of liberals, not the deranged antifa types.)

How is that different than any of the many examples in this thread of trannies cutting their "friends" off for not being strong enough enablers?

"You don't fully 1:1 align with my personal sociopolitical values, BEGONE FROM MY LIFE. NEVER BLIGHT MY AIRSPACE WITH YOUR THOUGHTS AGAIN UNLESS YOU REPENT AND ACCEPT MY TRUTH."

If I only allowed myself to interact with people who had the exact same thoughts and perspectives on the world that I do, I would have no friends.

It's okay to want to befriend people with shared values as you.
Notice he said "extremely hard leftists", so he means the type of leftists that want white genocide, laughed at Charlie Kirk's death and want more right-wingers dead, burned down shit at BLM riots, think their 50-person piss fetish tranny polycule is healthy, etc.
I can maintain family relations and friendships with left-wingers, so long as they're not the extreme type.
Most normie-type leftists were also disturbed by the Charlie Kirk thing and don't think everyone should be in 50-person polycules.

I have tried to befriend far-leftists, and it always ends up with me or them breaking off the friendship.
One of the most recent times I cut far-leftists off was with a friend group that had a man actively abusing a woman, but the entire friend group normalized it, since the man was "transfeminine" (basically MTF) and the woman he was abusing was "in a polycule" with him. They used a bunch of therapy-speak words to gaslight other retards into thinking their situation was normal.
You can't deny that the left has shifted so far in recent years that it makes even old-school leftists be considered right-wingers nowadays.

 

[General Zoider]

I want to give a kind of update from the furry side of things with this whole transgender thing post Charlie/post only 2 gender stuff, thanks to reports from new exfurs:

Many who did it for clout have detransitioned or have regretted it, especially those who went all the way, many years long communities have purity spiraled into the sun. Though now there are witchhunts because of charlie and also anyone who even thinks about detransitioning is basically cut off from everything. But many have just completely lost their minds after truely getting on HRT, it's like getting on something that will fuck with your body will fuck with your head. The basic gist is that furries and other subcultures seem to just be collapsing under the weight of their own tranny problems.

 

[Dendyy]

A friend I've known for a decade trooned out. He's married with two kids, but now those kids are gonna grow up knowing their dad is a disgusting crossdressing freak.

I sent him a text begging him to reconsider. It's futile, though; the Pritzker poison claims another victim.

 

[█████████]

A friend I've known for a decade trooned out. He's married with two kids, but now those kids are gonna grow up knowing their dad is a disgusting crossdressing freak.

I sent him a text begging him to reconsider. It's futile, though; the Pritzker poison claims another victim.

Is he planning on being one of those "proud girlcock futa transbian" types that keeps his dick, or is he going the full cock-chop route, if you know? Because if it's the full cock-chop route, send him the sex change surgery thread. A detransitioner said that thread alone has saved people and prevented them from getting it. Does he really want a shit-infested axewound where his crotch is? Neovaginas aren't self-cleaning like real vaginas, and they use your colon to make it, so it smells like feces. And you'll potentially lose bladder control, so you'll also piss yourself.

His wife will also leave him eventually, if she hasn't already. Even if she's liberal, giving into it at first and pegs him, I bet she's not going to put up with it forever.

 

[Dendyy]

Is he planning on being one of those "proud girlcock futa transbian" types that keeps his dick, or is he going the full cock-chop route, if you know? Because if it's the full cock-chop route, send him the sex change surgery thread. A detransitioner said that thread alone has saved people and prevented them from getting it. Does he really want a shit-infested axewound where his crotch is? Neovaginas aren't self-cleaning like real vaginas, and they use your colon to make it, so it smells like feces. And you'll potentially lose bladder control, so you'll also piss yourself.

His wife will also leave him eventually, if she hasn't already. Even if she's liberal, giving into it at first and pegs him, I bet she's not going to put up with it forever.

His wife is totally submissive and will go along with anything he wants. Too bad he didn't use his patriarchal powers for good.

He's injecting estrogen like heroin, but I don't know if he will castrate himself or not.

Trannyism is such an evil religion. It causes nothing but misery and death.

 

[PositiveMonk]

A friend of mine has been acting really weird lately. His transphobia has gotten much more annoying in recent months, almost as if to compensate for something and like he's testing the waters. My issue here isn't that he's transphobic of course, he knows I will happily discuss transphobia and gender critical shit with him, it's that it's ALL he talks about and it has no depth to it. Unrelated to this I was looking at some old conversations and noticed next to what I was looking for, was him talking about "accidentally" having switched his tinder profile to men years ago. I tried telling him that his obsessive seething about troons is getting tiring, and while he eased up with me, I'm aware that he's still doing it to others in the friend group.

I suppose there's not much I can do if he's going down this path. It'll be disappointing but it's not exactly my problem. It is funny to me how I've ignored all the signs for years though, I'm expecting him to next tell me that he "tried woman's underwear for a laugh and they're just SOOO comfortable!"

 

[Aunt Carol]

His transphobia has gotten much more annoying in recent months, almost as if to compensate for something and like he's testing the waters. My issue here isn't that he's transphobic of course, he knows I will happily discuss transphobia and gender critical shit with him, it's that it's ALL he talks about and it has no depth to it.

This is a novel problem. I'll trust your assessment--there's a lot in constant interaction that's hard to describe objectively, and a hundred tells get lamely described as a "hunch."

You could try pushing him towards being positively anti-trans, whether it's actually helpful or just for your own amusement. He's preaching to the choir and the choir is bored; go argue, politely, with handmaidens and low-level policy makers on social media. Or encourage him to phonebook and report the weekly diaperfur troons found in childcare and education; that's methodical, honest work.

Either he'll agree and go do it, refuse because he doesn't want to tar his account names for his troonout, or he'll stop pestering you specifically because you're not giving him unconditional attention.

 

[gohi_trout]

A friend of mine has been acting really weird lately. His transphobia has gotten much more annoying in recent months, almost as if to compensate for something and like he's testing the waters. My issue here isn't that he's transphobic of course, he knows I will happily discuss transphobia and gender critical shit with him, it's that it's ALL he talks about and it has no depth to it. Unrelated to this I was looking at some old conversations and noticed next to what I was looking for, was him talking about "accidentally" having switched his tinder profile to men years ago. I tried telling him that his obsessive seething about troons is getting tiring, and while he eased up with me, I'm aware that he's still doing it to others in the friend group.

I suppose there's not much I can do if he's going down this path. It'll be disappointing but it's not exactly my problem. It is funny to me how I've ignored all the signs for years though, I'm expecting him to next tell me that he "tried woman's underwear for a laugh and they're just SOOO comfortable!"

From a hopeful perspective, maybe getting him interested into something else would be good. Diverting an autistic obsession with trannyism to an interest in cars or bikes might be helpful. If he's just genuinely being obnoxious about trans stuff, its a pretty straight forward solution, having something else to talk with him about. But if he is actually going down the troon path, an active skill could be enough to distract him from becoming entrenched in trans stuff.

 

[Waifuchu]

Back in high school, I was pseudo-friends with this severely autistic dude. He had zero filter and would do gay shit like raise his hand during class to yell "MAMA LUIGI!" because Youtube Poop was one of his fixations, but I was surprised that he was actually pretty chill if you could look past the 'tism outbursts. He was really politically incorrect, and I guess his limited social skills were just barely strong enough that he never interrupted class to shout "NIGGERS STEAL BIKES!", but he was more than happy to share that with people in one-on-one conversations.

I haven't seen him in a decade or so, and this guy is the sort of 'tism hermit that will never, ever initiate contact with anyone else first, so he's made no move to contact me during the last ten years, and while I haven't seen him or talked to him for all that time, I've got a sinking feeling that he might've trooned out. I'm still Steam friends with him, and his current PFP is a sparkly pink anime girl.

As much of an edgelord as he could be, I think he was just doing it because that was the kind of humor that was really dominant online back then, and this guy is nothing if not terminally online. He was also the type to jump into any fad that was popular with other autists, no matter how gay it was, so this naturally led to him becoming obsessed with My Little Pony, 'cause that was in vogue. If, at some point in the last decade, he started brushing shoulders with trannies and groomers on Reddit or Discord, convincing him to troon out would probably be the easiest thing in the world for them. The guy is naïve as all hell, and eagerly goes along with any sort of fad if he's being "supported" by "friends" along the way. Even more concerning is that, back in school, he would openly ogle girls and make creepy statements about them, so the chance of him being a massive porn consumer are pretty high.

Maybe the PFP is a coincidence and he dodged the dilator-shaped bullet here, but... I feel like if I were to DM him after all these years, the "reunion" would start with him declaring that he goes by Lilith now.

 

[femboy fart huffer]

his current PFP is a sparkly pink anime girl.

Ngl you sound overly paranoid, at least from what you've said. Anime is also just incredibly popular with autists anyway. Maybe he just likes anime like every other autist? Every autist loves anime, only a fraction of them are actually trans.

 

[Hero's legacy]

My brother got hit with the tranny infection for some time now as he is now with 3 other dudes in dresses and I recently got blocked by him on twitter as I tried to mock him for being gross as hell. Saw him comment under dick picks and post some highly questionable stuff. Doesn't help that my mother and father seem all too supportive of it. And given how long this is going, I doubt there is anything I could do to change that, as I am going against my parents' support for this. Thankfully I do have other relatives that do see the issues with this, so I am not alone in the family.

Though I suspect that I won't be seeing him for quite some time as I told him that he isn't allowed to wear the dress in my home when I first found out about it.

Update to this one. My mom caught wind of the argument I got with my brother and she wants me to make up with my brother. She tells me that it's not my business and to warn me about the Christianity, as Kirk was mentioned, as she has some experience with some of the groups like that. But with the things she said, I can't help but be reminded of how the left behaves. Plus, she wants me to think if I am correct on these things, but given what I have seen, that just steeled my position. Hard to take such people seriously when a grown man makes sexual comments underneath dick pics.

I get the feeling I am going to need to learn to deal with conflict one and one and get used to standing my ground more.

 

[Waifuchu]

Ngl you sound overly paranoid, at least from what you've said. Anime is also just incredibly popular with autists anyway. Maybe he just likes anime like every other autist? Every autist loves anime, only a fraction of them are actually trans.

I'd be happy to be wrong, but that's where we're at with this stupid fetish. You see an autist with a sparkly pink anime PFP, and instead of rolling your eyes, you start hoping that they haven't been inducted into some porno cult.

 

[femboy fart huffer]

I'd be happy to be wrong, but that's where we're at with this stupid fetish. You see an autist with a sparkly pink anime PFP, and instead of rolling your eyes, you start hoping that they haven't been inducted into some porno cult.

The only thing I can really say is that if you care about him enough to worry he's trooned out you probably care about him enough to just send him a message and see how he's doing. Autistic until proven transgender type shit. If he is a massive retarded tranny then he was never in your life to begin with so you haven't lost anything other than the few minutes of your time. Yea there's a higher than average chance he has trooned out but at the same time you're worrying about something that at this moment doesn't exist, you're just getting worked up over hypotheticals right now.