🤝 Community Lolitas - 1000% more backstabbing than you'd expect.

[Lazuli]

From my experience, the more "into" the Lolita fandom someone is, the higher the crazy factor goes. The regulars and core members of a community especially.

Disclaimer:

• No, it is not a fetish or ageplay.

I see this repeated ad-nauseum on lolita sites and such, but the question keeps coming up because of stuff like this.

 

[Rilakkuma]

It's not so much that lolitas are into ageplay, its that people into ageplay are into lolita. There's always that one weirdo at a meetup who wants to act like a little girl.

 

[Barbarella]

So...this is what became of all the pageant girls. I wondered.

 

[hea_racist]

I personally really dig the clothes but the gatekeeping in this community is real. Also I don't find that much wrong with the fetishists, they are a thing in the goth scene too and nobody is getting their panties in a twist about them there

 

[takemetoyourgrave]

I personally really dig the clothes but the gatekeeping in this community is real. Also I don't find that much wrong with the fetishists they are a thing in the goth too and nobody is getting their panties in a twist about them there

Part of this thing is that people already associate lolita so heavily with ageplay and that part of the community that's horrible and they dont want to be associated with it. While the goth community might have some fetish elements it's not as overt in today's culture what with every girl and their mother calling their boyfriend "Daddy" and being a little.

Basically no one wants to be some assholes wank fodder.

 

[hea_racist]

Part of this thing is that people already associate lolita so heavily with ageplay and that part of the community that's horrible and they dont want to be associated with it. While the goth community might have some fetish elements it's not as overt in today's culture what with every girl and their mother calling their boyfriend "Daddy" and being a little.

Basically no one wants to be some assholes wank fodder.

Meh I lowkey disagree. I think sexuality is something adults shouldn't find shameful as long as it's harmless. Clothes get sexualized all the time, no matter how much self proclaimed 'Lolitas' will bitch about it that doesn't change the fact that any woman can buy an ap piece and call her bf daddy

 

[Mater Lachrymarum]

Meh I lowkey disagree. I think sexuality is something adults shouldn't find shameful as long as it's harmless. Clothes get sexualized all the time, no matter how much self proclaimed 'Lolitas' will bitch about it that doesn't change the fact that any woman can buy an ap piece and call her bf daddy

We're talking about people who shit in diapers in public.

 

[DICKPICSRUS]

We're talking about people who shit in diapers in public.

Some of them even like to eat it

 

[hea_racist]

We're talking about people who shit in diapers in public.

Yeah I guess you have a point there

 

[Meowthkip]

We're talking about people who shit in diapers in public.

There was that one goth otherkin dude who was into scat, Eric Draven I think? Haven't heard much from him lately.

 

[Fresh Grown Breasts]

I know this is a bit late: This just in. Ftm lolitas. Women who say they are male but then go lolita and think they can then call themselves brolitas. http://fuckyeahtranslolitas.tumblr.com/ PS: A number on the tumblr page are male to female but I somehow find the female to male lolitas funny.

So it's women who identify as men dressing as hyper-feminine women but calling it a masculinised name? Doesn't that just make them...women? I'm so fucking confused.

 

[Splendid]

Don't be. Feeling special or unique is the whole point.

 

[Medicated]

It's not so much that lolitas are into ageplay, its that people into ageplay are into lolita. There's always that one weirdo at a meetup who wants to act like a little girl.

Maybe it's just by chance, but I've hung around Lolita communities, and the long time members usually have something they are covering for. Then I go on the internet and see the same thing pop up there as well. It can't just be co-incidence. Lolita draws certain types to it, just like any other type of hardcore fandom. Many hate being associated with that though (even though they have their own skeletons/issues) and if they are smart, keep it all under wraps.

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[hea_racist]

Maybe it's just by chance, but I've hung around Lolita communities, and the long time members usually have something they are covering for. Then I go on the internet and see the same thing pop up there as well. It can't just be co-incidence. Lolita draws certain types to it, just like any other type of hardcore fandom. Many hate being associated with that though (even though they have their own skeletons/issues) and if they are smart, keep it all under wraps.

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Heyyyy you found my accounts wadup

 

[Medicated]

Heyyyy you found my accounts wadup

Do you sew your own stuff btw?

 

[hea_racist]

Do you sew your own stuff btw?

Fuck I used to but I'm shit at it, I am a total ita I know , so now im saving up for my cords

 

[Medicated]

Fuck I used to but I'm shit at it, I am a total ita I know , so now im saving up for my cords

So whats with the self doxxing and stuff? attempt at internet fame? I know you've been everywhere, every chan. Attention? exhibitionism?

 

[hea_racist]

So whats with the self doxxing and stuff? attempt at internet fame? I know you've been everywhere, every chan. Attention? exhibitionism?

Meh I like how ppl at chan screech at me, in that regard attention whoring is fun, I don't really mind self doxing I have nothing to lose tbh

 

[Medicated]

Meh I like how ppl at chan screech at me, in that regard attention whoring is fun, I don't really mind self doxing I have nothing to lose tbh

So are you making any money off it then?

 

[hea_racist]

So are you making any money off it then?

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