Years ago, a writer named Harlan Ellison - a man known for his volcanic temperament in public - verbally burned someone beyond recognition when they asked him (a Jew) not to make a flippant comment about concentration camps.
He looked at them, eyes wide and roared: "How the FUCK can anyone trivialize the Holocaust? Are you *fucking stupid*? How does a few words undo six million deaths and all the blood on those walls, you simpering coward?" (I'm going by memory here).
That's always been my outlook on this sort of shit and this sort of dumbass SJW crap. If you think you can trivialize rape with a joke, the comedian isn't the problem, your being uncomfortable and needing to be coddled is.