Kiwis who dated single parents - Experiences good and bad

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Imagine raising another man's child lol

In all seriousness though I think it depends. In most cases, a divorcee probably shouldn't be your first pick unless you're one yourself. The kid is most likely never gonna see you as their "real" dad (depending on their age) and you'll always have to deal with her ex husband in some capacity since they share a kid between them. Unless she's a widow, that already takes care of the second problem but then again you still have the aspect of her kid not seeing you as their "true" father. Honestly, if you're REALLY that adamant on wanting to go for a single mom, then an ex-teen mom maybe? Chances are she's a lot more responsible and the father of her child tends to be out of the picture 9 times out of 10. Again, it depends on the situation and although I think the cons outweigh the pros, its your life so do what you think is best.
 
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It all depends on several factors really. Is she a divorcee/widow with some clout? Or is she a 18-year-old Nord with a mixed child? Raising stepkids is hard, for the reasons listed above (not my dad, etc), but also on your end, you may feel apprehensive about punishing them because you don't see them as your kids. But if she is widow/divorcee who isn't a crazy bitch, then she may have something to offer to you. If she is a teen mom, then you're probably going to be raising her and her old man's mistake. It's unlikely that she has education and thus can't offer you anything but a pussy. It also depends on a woman's maturity, willingness to learn from mistakes, and plans for life (and ability to execute plans). Keep in mind though, that even if she is successful, there's probably a reason she got divorced in the first place. Ultimately, it's up to you and her and y'all's ability to make things work.

I would rather spend the rest of my life jacking off to cartoon wolves than adopt stepchildren.
 
I am warning you to run if that happens because most of the time those women are crazy or have some seriously crazy bullshit following them.

Most of the time the only reason why you stay is to help the kids not be raised by this fucked up person or not be fucked up because their mother spread eagle and didn't have a gameplan after the guy fucked her and left.

There are some sweet women out there with kids, but those are 9/10 because their husband died.
Those you could date but good chance they will be reminding you that their husband died and it gets real awkward real fast.
 
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I am warning you to run if that happens because most of the time those women are crazy or have some seriously crazy bullshit following them.

Most of the time the only reason why you stay is to help the kids not be raised by this fucked up person or not be fucked up because their mother spread eagle and didn't have a gameplan after the guy fucked her and left.

There are some sweet women out there with kids, but those are 9/10 because their husband died.
Those you could date but good chance they will be reminding you that their husband died and it gets real awkward real fast.
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You do know that sometimes, and I'm not saying all the time, but sometimes, rarely, decent women get divorced. Lmao.

I sometimes forget that most of the people on this site are teens-twenties and haven't really gotten to the stage in life where all the single people your age are either weird incel types or divorced.
 
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She taught the kids to do that. Guarantee it.
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Normally, I'd agree; but this woman didn't teach those girls anything, most of their formative teaching came from decent grandparents, and they refused to listen to their mom (mostly because she didn't do anything but screech at them).

Besides.... I could hear them whispering and plotting on how to get me to stay, while their mom sat there and played on her phone (I was just trying to finish the damn movie).

Additionally, she hadn't exactly had time. The youngest's dad had died a year before (accidental, iirc), and the older girl's babydaddy had come back; but he hadn't left the picture very long before I met them.

The guy did show back up (with a new woman) in the end; the biggest reason I left is because I have a fairly hefty self-preservation, and I very much didn't want the need to murderdeathkill that piece of shit. Those girls were sweet & good kids; but holy shit, not worth a prison sentence.
 
the only reason to date a single mom is to crush her daughters as well because as the freerange step-dad you trigger all their 100% guarenteed daddy issues

alt single moms do make decent freinds with benefits because really theres no way any man will be more important than their kids (hopefully) and you can just chew andscrew because thats all either of you really want
 
Not dated per se but I had a casual relationship with a single mom years prior to meeting my wife.

Pros:
She wasn't getting anything from her ex, so she was hornier than a lioness in heat.
Kinky tastes (almost too kinky in retrospect).
Kind hearted, though used me as her head-shrinker after sex.
Big tits, wide hips, pleasingly matronly figure.

Cons:
Lack of intimacy; part of the reason I swore off casual relationships in general.
Kids came first, I was an afterthought; essentially a dildo with a pulse.
Ever present risk of her ex exacting some petty cuck revenge on me.
No trust, never knew if she was fooling around with other guys on the side.

We split on amicable terms but I chose to relegate that experience to memory and move forward. Glad I used a pseudonym tbh.

Like others in this thread have said, it generally isn't advisable to date single mothers aside from widows. Even then that's a case-by-case decision. It was an overall pleasant experience for me with a single mom slam piece but I wouldn't recommend it to any young bucks reading this. I feel that my experience was by no means indicative.
 
I dated a single parent and then became a single parent.

Its tough, you try find someone after being so lonely and get shoved around and shit thrown at you because they don't want to be step parents or daddy's (mind you, I never fucken asked them to be since they already have a damn dad) or they don't want kids yet so they're like,"we can be friends?" and then when you reject them you get the,"good luck finding someone who's going to accept your children."

Its shit, its degrading, it kills all hope and leaves you to focus on your esteem issues and fucks with your confidence but at the end of the day you're either in it or you're not and i was lucky enough to find someone who wanted it all.

The major difference is a parent who has them 90% and the parent who has them the other 10% .. so like a weekend. Usually the Dad's if the Mum has sole custody lol ..
 
Are you asking about a single person who is a parent, or someone who parents singly? With the former you sometimes get to enjoy adult time when the child is with the other parent. But the they're tied to the other parent in ways that could affect your mobility and spontaneity. I have no experience with the latter.
 
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Are you asking about a single person who is a parent, or someone who parents singly? With the former you sometimes get to enjoy adult time when the child is with the other parent. But the they're tied to the other parent in ways that could affect your mobility and spontaneity. I have no experience with the latter.
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Mainly the former with some crossover into the latter and as I suspected based on your response.
 
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