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It took a while but yeah. (Post page 50, I think)so this is an actual thread now? and it actually has interesting insight into the psychology of sexual deviants?? bring the flood.
There's some performative/virtue signal-like posts of people complaining about the content/ideas, even though the thread isn't about celebrating or sharing their own, but actual discussion. You could discuss the harms of X/Y/Z, or why someone likes a particular thing in a purely clinical light, without the haranguing over pornography or some such. A lot of people are vulnerable to something called Splitting, where something can only be good or only be bad, with zero in-between.
To me, the value of this discussion is that learning the how and why of something is how you can avoid, if need be. There's also just a general fascination in learning and discussing the reasons too. It's never just "because it's hot," there can be a genuine underlying reason the person might like something that they don't even realise. Main issue is the number of possibilities could be too complex to take account of.
I don't fully buy the entire 'fetishes are dictated by childhood experiences' shit, I simply do not think that seeing something as a kid will result in you being into that as an adult.
They might have the same starting point of being spanked but the type of person they are kinda dictates where that leads and I would be willing to bet that the type of fetish category person you are is a lot more immutable and based in childhood than the specific fetish.
I agree with this in a lot of instances but do to how things work it can be dismissed entirely. I still want to reply to this entire post, but in particular it's less, "X directly resulted in Y," and more, "X resulted in Y, which may or may not have lead to Z." I think revisionism is extremely common though if someone feels a degree of shame for their fetish/kink and want to make themselves completely blameless for it.I don't fully buy the entire 'fetishes are dictated by childhood experiences' shit, I simply do not think that seeing something as a kid will result in you being into that as an adult. I think that a lot of it is retroactive revisionism.
It wouldn't account for all fetishes given hypersexuality isn't just a childhood thing, you can induce it as an adult via frequent porn usage and such. Some fetishes are described as addictions in some contexts and I think it's the most apt. You can build up a dependency/tolerance to certain content via continued exposure as an adult, and then said content is now a "kink" to you as it can serve a passive function in arousing you.
I do think Childhood experiences might factor into positive or negatively-formed paraphilia.
For instance, if someone's parent disciplined them physically, but then hugged/soothed them after, that might legit screw up some wires in the brain. Your brain is releasing endorphins for the pain and a parent hugging releases oxytocin and so now your brain is associating being spanked/receiving pain with physical affection. If someone as a child received very little physical contact from their parent except in instances of harm, then some brain-wiring may associate natural parental love with being hurt. It'd go some way to explain why doms and dominatrixes are a thing, since they're effectively acting as some facsimile of someone's parent, as they can act the role of carer/decision-maker or someone who gives them the pain they've come to associate with "love" in a sense.
Autism or some shade of light autism probably explains a the origins of a lot of fetishes along with psychosis, and then social contagion helps proliferate them. Someone who develops an autistic fixation on something is likely going to end up perceiving that connection to be of some other nature, especially if their fixation relieves stress or it occupied a huge chunk of their thought.I guess a more easily pointoutable example would be autism fetishes. There is something about how their brain works that drives them to be more likely to develop certain fetishes. That, aside from within normal people and things that don't have such obvious outward symptoms.
Delusions can be affected by a broader societal context, which also affect daydreaming. So in the context of social contagion, someone who ends up ruminating about something may end up exploring it in every capacity, which can have negative context if it's possible to explore it sexually.
"Daydreaming" is also a mundane-sounding thing, but in the context of the above: Daydreaming + hypersexuallity = fostering a (perceived) real connection with certain people/things in a sexual context and reinforcing certain ideas. This is especially potent because daydreaming is often what the brain does when in its "default" state so if someone's head is seeded with a particular thought, they may spend half their day thinking about it.
Daydreaming social interactions can give the brain near-identical social fulfilment too, which is why watching people interact on a screen could offer you more or less similar fulfilment to talking to people in person can. It's pretty much the explanation for how/why online social interaction is even engaging, because as far as your brain is concerned the interaction is real, which can (for some) apply to their fantasies/daydreams.
(Sorry for just dumping Wikipedia extracts but maybe it's marginally better than dumping walls of text or something.)
It's weird here how I agree with you but I think the part in bold is why the part I italicised is possible. It's so complex that trying to navigate to a possible sole cause is very difficult, maybe even impossible. But due to the difficulty, it's often easier to reduce it to, "Just because."I don't think you can point at a single thing and say it caused something completely unrelated in someone a decade later. I think that a lot of the actual cause is subconscious and multiparted so not something that can be easily explained, and that the desire to point at the sexy Star Wars vore worm isn't a genuine attempt to explain where the fetish came from but instead quickly answer the question in an easy way that is complete on the surface. Like would anyone watch that scene and wonder what it is like to be vored by the giant worm if they didn't already have something in their head that would point them to that thought? Is the worm the origin of that thought process, or was that thought process there for a lot longer than the person thinks and the first memory of it surfacing in an obvious way was in regards to the worm? I think I am advocating from vore eugenics. Admittedly that's a problem I have with a lot of psychology, the desire to have an answer when sometimes there just isn't one that can be explained or comprehended. I shit myself because I watched Rugrats as a kid and the apple falls down because the Earth is flat and moves upwards. Obviously. Some people are depressed because their dad died. Some people are depressed because their brain has always simply worked differently and no matter what they were always at a higher chance of becoming depressed.
To me if someone can point the origin of their vore fetish to the Star Wars sandworm (which might be a retroactive revisionism, but let's pretend it isn't), then I'd instead focus on the exact context he viewed the scene. A while back I spoke about how someone who has a fetish/kink for diapers might be due association with other, pleasant childhood memories or an attempt to replicate them in the present as a sort of placebo. The brain is very easy to gaslight, even if you're aware of the fact you're lying to yourself.
If you tell yourself you like something diapers because they relieve stress because of X-reason, it's probably going to work, especially if you're also doing dopamine/endorphin-releasing "acts" during the process.
With the part I underlined, the main issue I have with psychology is the opposite. I think everything can have an answer, it's just the pursuit of said answer is to have some sort of "fix" or ulterior motive, whereas I think there's value in just knowing it.
my guy. No. Having sex with a person wearing a pup hood isn't zoophilia. A person pretending to be a dog isn't a dog. I am still on the site that takes the piss out of men pretending to be women and how they aren't actually women right?