You know, finding a Mommy to have sex with...sorry, I mean "Significant Other, and possible Wife" is really hard to find if you spend all day in your bedroom or your apartment playing video games and ranting online that all these hypersexual sluts won't fuck you.
Seriously, if any of these incels could tell me they go to parties and bars all the time, and they actually approach women on a regular basis, and STILL strike out? Then maybe I could sympathize and go : "yeah that sucks. Damn, law of averages, give this guy a break and let him run into the nerdy girl he's been looking for"
But they don't. They sit at home, watch anime, MLP, and play video games. Many of them have zero friends that they actually interact with in person. And they can't fathom why they don't meet women. To the incel that will assuredly eventually read this, most of the women in your area don't know you exist! And that's not a metaphor for "I'm such a loser, she doesn't know I'm there", It's more of a literal "You're more elusive than the Sasquatch" kind of thing.
So if you can't give up your nerd life, stop looking for dates online. Join an anime club, or a gaming club in your area. and make some friends. Learn to interact with people, it is not that hard! Talking to people in Counter-Strike does not count as real social interaction