Incels.is (Previously known as /r/incels) - Subreddit's banned, entitled Manchildren whine about why they can't get laid.

[Duke Nukem]

The other issue is incels have absolutely no idea what women actually want and are looking for (hint: it varies because women are not some hive mind) and take advice from other loveless incels as to how to GET women and then get all angry at WOMEN that they are not successful.

Oh shit you mean the stock advice you got from the homeless guy under the bridge didn’t make you rich?

You need to be a millionaire for the gold diggers, steroids for the fitness chicks, and be at least six feet tall to qualify in the first place.

But none of those things will help you if you're ugly.

They really need to figure themselves out first. Not being comfortable with yourself is almost as bad as not showering regularly TBH.

Sometimes it's better to forget about girls at least for a while though. Life is way easier when you're not constantly worried about whether or not the barista at Starbucks is attracted to you or not or whatever you got your mind on.

 

[JaneThough]

You need to be a millionaire for the gold diggers, steroids for the fitness chicks, and be at least six feet tall to qualify in the first place.

But none of those things will help you if you're ugly.

They really need to figure themselves out first. Not being comfortable with yourself is almost as bad as not showering regularly TBH.

Sometimes it's better to forget about girls at least for a while though. Life is way easier when you're not constantly worried about whether or not the barista at Starbucks is attracted to you or not or whatever you got your mind on.

You should not want to date a gold digger, only should want a fitness chick if you are also into fitness, and the last one is outright false 100%.

And the next line is also 100% false. Steven fucking Assanti, a fat, useless, pile of shit with nothing to offer anyone, is married.

Incels' problem is they all want a 10/10 virgin waifu who will work full time, be their lover and caretaker AND be thrilled that their man never bathes or gets up from playing vidya. Incels don't understand that when they have nothing to offer, no one wants them. Or maybe they have to date fat ugly chicks. What's wrong with that?

 

[Duke Nukem]

You should not want to date a gold digger, only should want a fitness chick if you are also into fitness, and the last one is outright false 100%.

And the next line is also 100% false. Steven fucking Assanti, a fat, useless, pile of shit with nothing to offer anyone, is married.

Incels' problem is they all want a 10/10 virgin waifu who will work full time, be their lover and caretaker AND be thrilled that their man never bathes or gets up from playing vidya. Incels don't understand that when they have nothing to offer, no one wants them. Or maybe they have to date fat ugly chicks. What's wrong with that?

They think that all the ugly fat chicks are getting plowed by Chads or something. But seriously even those girls have better options than a smelly basement dweller. Like just admit that you have some standards dude. It's okay to not want to date certain types, I dislike some types of girls myself, doesn't make me gay for not wanting to date them.

Honestly the fact that Steven Assanti even got a girlfriend in the first place really is a mystery. But then again he's probably not an autist. A guy like that being married yet having nothing to offer even breaks my brain.

One of the biggest things with incels though is they like to convince themselves that women are only interested in millionaires with perfect bodies, or something similarly ridiculous. And I think most of them realize that they'll probably never have a chance with anyone halfway decent. It's a lot easier to write yourself off than it is to be someone worth a second look.

Even if they do manage to get a girlfriend, a new set of fears will take place. Will she leave me for someone "better?" Am I not as good at sex as her exes? Is my penis too small for her? Does she really enjoy my company or is she faking it just to take advantage of me being a lonely loser?

And then there's the fear of being cheated on...

 

[JaneThough]

They think that all the ugly fat chicks are getting plowed by Chads or something. But seriously even those girls have better options than a smelly basement dweller. Like just admit that you have some standards dude. It's okay to not want to date certain types, I dislike some types of girls myself, doesn't make me gay for not wanting to date them.

Honestly the fact that Steven Assanti even got a girlfriend in the first place really is a mystery. But then again he's probably not an autist. A guy like that being married yet having nothing to offer even breaks my brain.

One of the biggest things with incels though is they like to convince themselves that women are only interested in millionaires with perfect bodies, or something similarly ridiculous. And I think most of them realize that they'll probably never have a chance with anyone halfway decent. It's a lot easier to write yourself off than it is to be someone worth a second look.

Even if they do manage to get a girlfriend, a new set of fears will take place. Will she leave me for someone "better?" Am I not as good at sex as her exes? Is my penis too small for her? Does she really enjoy my company or is she faking it just to take advantage of me being a lonely loser?

And then there's the fear of being cheated on...

Yeah and all of that is the incels' problem and not the woman's. Having anxieties and self esteem issues is pretty universal, but incels are the ones who decide that it's everyone else's fault but their own.

Long story short: If you can't get a date, YOU are the problem. Full stop, every time. Literally, there's no other answer. Either work on you and figure out why you're dateless, or be dateless. Stop bitching and moaning and blaming everyone else for your problems like a bunch of whiny cucks.

 

[Duke Nukem]

Yeah and all of that is the incels' problem and not the woman's. Having anxieties and self esteem issues is pretty universal, but incels are the ones who decide that it's everyone else's fault but their own.

Long story short: If you can't get a date, YOU are the problem. Full stop, every time. Literally, there's no other answer. Either work on you and figure out why you're dateless, or be dateless. Stop bitching and moaning and blaming everyone else for your problems like a bunch of whiny cucks.

They'll never be cucks because you need a girlfriend or wife to cheat on you in the first place.

The first thing that would really help them is to realize that women not wanting to date you doesn't automatically make you the scum of the earth. They have preferences and sometimes it's not you.

Screeching about how they only want male model millionaires isn't going to get you anywhere. No woman is going to be impressed by what I do for a living or how much money I earn doing it, I don't lose sleep over it but I think a job would be a good goal for a good lot of these guys for a number of reasons. I'd be amazed if any of these guys had jobs to be honest with you.

Many of these guys haven't recovered from being outcasts in their school years and can't get beyond that. Sure you're going to deal with shitty people everywhere but at least you can get another job and not have to deal with office politics as much.

 

[KoldHardTruth]

incels are the ones who decide that it's everyone else's fault but their own.

Yes, but I've heard stories of incels lowering their standards and still failing miserabley, why do you think that is? I think it's because they're using people for their insecurities and they can see right through the BS.

The first thing that would really help them is to realize that women not wanting to date you doesn't automatically make you the scum of the earth.

It could be the unresolved trauma they had from being bullied in high school for being non select.

 

[Duke Nukem]

It could be the unresolved trauma they had from being bullied in high school for being non select.

Well what do you expect, high schools are shitholes.

I did actually address that at some point. Middle and high school are where they enter puberty and start to get sexual feelings and having them unfulfilled for years does have a strong negative impact on them.

Honestly I think most of them just want to have sex, which is understandable.

 

[KoldHardTruth]

Honestly I think most of them just want to have sex, which is understandable.

Everybody has the desire to have physical intimacy (hugs, kisses, sex), but due to social anxiety incels consume so much pornography' to the point where it fucks up their psyche so bad that they look at women as pieces of meat.

 

[Duke Nukem]

Everybody has the desire to have physical intimacy (hugs, kisses, sex), but due to social anxiety incels consume so much pornography' to the point where it fucks up their psyche so bad that they look at women as pieces of meat.

Perhaps so, honestly I wouldn't blame pornography for incel existence though. Not that overuse does anyone any favors. Although the general lack of real world experience perhaps skews their sense of what is right and wrong as far as intimacy and relationships go.

Maybe Chris was on to something when he said dating education should be a thing in public schools.

 

[TerrorSperg99]

I think if Chris wasn’t as fucked up as he was he could’ve gotten a girl like Megan.

 

[Taarna]

And the next line is also 100% false. Steven fucking Assanti, a fat, useless, pile of shit with nothing to offer anyone, is married.

First of all /doubt
Second of all, he either has money, or the girl is severely lacking in some category, possibly all of them.

 

[JaneThough]

First of all /doubt
Second of all, he either has money, or the girl is severely lacking in some category, possibly all of them.

He is a worthless piece of shit, and so is she likely. That's the point. He found a woman on his level. Incels need to find women on their level.

It's not like you can't find this all in a thread that is literally linked on the homepage before you start doubting it.

 

[Taarna]

Incels need to find women on their level.

They have trouble getting any woman, because even low quality women are repelled by low confidence.

Even low quality women have incredibly high standards.

 

[JaneThough]

They have trouble getting any woman, because even low quality women are repelled by low confidence.

So work on your confidence.

 

[Taarna]

So work on your confidence.

Confidence is earned through success. But confidence is needed to have success.

 

[JaneThough]

Confidence is earned through success. But confidence is needed to have success.

That sounds like a cop out pussy way of saying "it's not MY fault I'm shit!"

Suck it up, buttercup, and make your life better because no one else will. Or just fester and rot. It's your choice and your life, the rest of us our living our best.

 

[Taarna]

That sounds like a cop out pussy way of saying "it's not MY fault I'm shit!"

Suck it up, buttercup, and make your life better because no one else will. Or just fester and rot. It's your choice and your life, the rest of us our living our best.

I'm not saying you can't improve your life or your skills with women. But it's not as easy as saying "just be confident". If it was easy, you wouldn't see so many people having problems with it. Most men are incels.

 

[JaneThough]

I'm not saying you can't improve your life or your skills with women. But it's not as easy as saying "just be confident". If it was easy, you wouldn't see so many people having problems with it. Most men are incels.

Patently false.

As many men are out there having trouble finding a woman, there are women having trouble finding a man. Incels refuse to date women in their league, or to improve themselves to have a better chance to date other women. Why should a woman want to date a jobless, confidenceless man? Understand a woman's perspective: she's going to be the one expected to raise the children when they come. So why would she choose a man with zero prospects when she knows going into a relationship she will likely be giving up her career to raise a family, or at very least having to take on more work?

 

[Raging Capybara]

I think if Chris wasn’t as fucked up as he was he could’ve gotten a girl like Megan.

Well, he followed the advice from this thread and lowered his standards, and got a girl like Barb instead.

 

[Whatevermancer]

https://youtube.com/watch?v=vOfw1-uGP2M
Even though this guy is not an incel, he is right about how modern men are effeminate. The thumbnail speaks for itself, those stupid broccoli haircuts, tight clothing, and a bunch of piercings.

Late response, but that's the same shit people were saying about my generation.

You aren't real men, you're just a bunch of sissy faggots with your long hair, black and pink clothes and emo music. Back in my day...

On the other hand, AFAIK, stats show that the level of testosterone are decreasing, but I think it's the fault of the people that shat up our environment with endocrine disruptors.