Gonna need a different approach than what you tried with the gays though. That didn't work too good.
I'm unsure of what you mean.
Homosexuals are like other humans in that they're mostly normal and function fine in society if left alone. They ask for few things medically (and it's all in STD prevention) and maybe have a slightly higher rate of depression and anxiety than other groups, but being attracted to your same gender doesn't change much.
Meanwhile, trans people go to long lengths both socially and medically to be seen as their gender (and sometimes they don't). Currently, trans people have several internal wars: do you need to be diagnosed with dysphoria to be trans? Is trans mental, physical, or something else?
Then there's the medical side: is HRT giving trans people the best experience? Can we monitor those who got GRS for 5 years and see what happens rather than have them drop off the map? If we allow GRS can we find a way to fucking standardize it so trans people can have a safe procedure or sue for medical malpractice if shit goes sideways? We also have insurance company problems: if being trans isn't a medical condition and you don't need certain things to be trans, why should they cover hormones or surgery?
There's cases where you talk to detransitioners and they sadly tell you they did it as to belong, to feel better about their body, or worse, because they were sexually assaulted and couldn't stand being their own gender anymore. There's more trans people than ever, but not all are trans for traditional reasons. There's a high comorbidity between trans and other mental illnesses, to the point that it's really bothersome.
I try to treat every trans person IRL and online with respect when I meet them because I assume they're struggling the same as everyone else. I hope if I do talk to them about being trans it turns out they're up to date on medical side effects and are making good choices for their mental health, and to make sure they know about the side effects of possible procedures they get.