Opinion How Body Positivity Still Upholds Restrictive Beauty Standards

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How Body Positivity Still Upholds Restrictive Beauty Standards​

This week, a TikTok of Selena Gomez advocating for “real stomachs” garnered much praise. Here is a beautiful celebrity, and she may, in fact, be just like us — seems to be the widespread sentiment. But a closer inspection of the moment reveals a sobering truth about online body positivity itself: that by casting certain common bodily features in the spotlight, it ends up pathologizing them instead. It says that stomach rolls when someone bends over is a feature to celebrate rather than be indifferent to — thereby bringing attention to a bodily feature that may not have otherwise been the site of scrutiny.

Gomez has been vocal about her health and body image, and her refusal to suck her tummy in may well be her way of rejecting restrictive beauty norms celebrities are beholden to. But she’s one among many celebrities and influencers whose bodies still conform to the beauty norm that body positivity claims to challenge — turning the movement into one that centers the experiences of the privileged, rather than challenging societal norms around beauty.

Arguably, body positivity, as a movement itself, may have suffered the same fate as many subcultures that began on the Internet — it got co-opted. The change was slow but sure: where it previously sought to hold beauty norms up to critical scrutiny, it is now malleable for anyone to claim. This doesn’t make it more democratic; it uncritically champions individuals rather than dismantling a collective and systemic ideology of fat-phobia.

Consider some of the implications of fat-phobia: it begins with a “fat tax” on clothing, goes on to make everyday life more expensive, and reaches medical apathy and negligence that can be fatal. At the heart of these issues is that, by design, institutions are set up to make life more difficult for some people because of prejudice — at the heart of which is beauty norms around body size. There’s no reason why thinness should be the aspirational ideal — it hasn’t been one at all until recently in our history. And yet, it governs how people are received by society, imposing a tax on life itself for those who don’t conform.

Body positivity, then, was meant to radically alter what we consider beautiful and, by extension, worthy. That a particular body type is the ideal isn’t coincidental — capitalism, patriarchy, and even racism collude to make thinness profitable by embedding its desirability in our psyche. In this context, then, proclaiming the regular contours of a human body as radical or body positive defeats the purpose. Far from critiquing the structures of society that impose beauty norms, it bolsters them.

It’s hard to “love” curves that everyone already has and may not have even noticed — had it not been for the directive to perform positivity for something innocuous.
 
Rationality is mentally ill, being healthy is disease, sex is rape, trading is theft, sexual normalcy is perversion, criticism is punishable as hate. Welcome to 2022.
 
The reason there’s a fat tax on clothes is logical. Actually there’s three;
1. Cost of cloth.
2. Distribution, margins and sticking of extra non-norm sizes.
3. When you draft a pattern, you can’t just scale it up constantly. You can do that in small ranges, so baby clothes can be scaled up to toddler, then the proportions change, then you can scale to maybe 4-5, they change again. Kids clothes patterns tend to come in age ranges like 0-18m, 2-5, 6-12 etc.
The same applies for adult sizes. You can scale between about a British size 6-20 fine. Past that, people hold fat so very differently that it’s impossible to make well fitting clothes that fit all. You end up either going bespoke or tarp.
Also has anyone in these groups of HARS ever considered what beauty actually IS? We are programmed to find things that are beneficial beautiful. So for men, while the exact details vary over time and space, the general idea of beauty is a woman in her early to mid childbearing years, slim but not emaciated, and healthy looking. For a man, it’s having the physical strength and ability to protect you. The minor details like eyes and foreheads and hair change with cultures, but what we find beautiful is what we need to get breeding. Beauty isn’t a subjective thing you can change, it’s reflective of an underlying harmony of function,.
 
Arguably, body positivity, as a movement itself, may have suffered the same fate as many subcultures that began on the Internet — it got co-opted.
Yeah, by you. It was orginally for the disabled and people with severe eating disorders.
 
capitalism, patriarchy, and even racism collude to make thinness profitable by embedding its desirability in our psyche.
I see someone can't be bothered to look up what capitalism entails.

I love how fat people claim the above when they really couldn't be bothered to eat a few salads and go on a walk from time to time instead of stuffing their faces with sugar. Part of the reason why insurance is so expensive in places is because of fat people, as they tend to see more doctors and need more healthcare treatments to stay alive.
 
goes on to make everyday life more expensive
The Fat Acceptance thread is full of tiktok videos of fatties showcasing themselves eating multiple meals at restaurants and loading up their carts with junk food. While nothing is cheap these days, they're the ones making their lives more expensive. When a fatty goes out and eats a full bread loaf smeared with butter, inhales an entire serving bowl of Cesar salad, demolishes multiple appetizers, orders cheesy pasta with starchy side dishes, asks to see a desert menu, and washes it all down with a huge sugary soda, how is that anyone else's problem in any way? Most of those fats look smugly into the camera as they eat. They're proud of themselves. They like to do a poverty LARP, but they obviously have a lot of money if they're eating like that every day, multiple times a day. It's impossible to feel sorry for these gluttons when their existence is filming themselves shoving garbage into their maw and then have the audacity to whine, "Why would capitalism/thin people/diet culture/the patriarchy do this?"
 
The Fat Acceptance thread is full of tiktok videos of fatties showcasing themselves eating multiple meals at restaurants and loading up their carts with junk food. While nothing is cheap these days, they're the ones making their lives more expensive. When a fatty goes out and eats a full bread loaf smeared with butter, inhales an entire serving bowl of Cesar salad, demolishes multiple appetizers, orders cheesy pasta with starchy side dishes, asks to see a desert menu, and washes it all down with a huge sugary soda, how is that anyone else's problem in any way? Most of those fats look smugly into the camera as they eat. They're proud of themselves. They like to do a poverty LARP, but they obviously have a lot of money if they're eating like that every day, multiple times a day. It's impossible to feel sorry for these gluttons when their existence is filming themselves shoving garbage into their maw and then have the audacity to whine, "Why would capitalism/thin people/diet culture/the patriarchy do this?"
What I think is one of the biggest tragedies is that they’ll pay 2-3 times as much for that restaurant food that they could make for themselves. Some foods I can understand going to a restaurant for, but deathfats will spend money on really simple things like pastas that can easily be made at home. Nearly every deathfat I come across loves those cheap carbs, and will regularly pay extra to not have to cook them. Eating out regularly is so expensive, but deathfats put aside a considerable amount of money to eat things restaurants will mark up a lot to make a profit. The deathfats that can at least cook for themselves regularly I have more respect for, even if it’s not much healthier than what they’d get at a restaurant because at least they put in some effort.

Deathfats also have the worst taste in restaurant food and often have the palate of a toddler, but that’s a rant for another day.
 
They like to do a poverty LARP, but they obviously have a lot of money if they're eating like that every day, multiple times a day
A huge portion of the population lives paycheck to paycheck. A huge portion of the population is Obese. These factors are correlated, a lot of these fatties are spending every spare cent they have on food. I have on multiple occasions seen obese friends go out to taco bell when their bank account is already literally in the red from their McDonalds breakfast, and put it on the last sliver left on their credit card. These people have less than zero self control, and have literally nothing to their name but hundreds of pounds of fat and undesirable folds of flesh.

I have no pity for them, they drive their own ignorance and suffer for it. They trade away their quality of life in old age, both financially and physically, if not their chance at living to an old age entirely, for the reckless pursuit of simple pleasures in excess. By comparison, trading away their romantic prospects is a minor loss. Still, literally trading life and love to eat mcgriddles every day should qualify you for psychiatric treatment, that's just not right.

I won't fuck fatties. It points to multiple layers of deeper rot, and I'm not interested in a fixer upper of a life, especially when I'm relying on the very person who's proven to be negligent to actually do the hard work.
 
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