How are you doing? - Kiwi Farms Wellness Check

[Betonhaus]

As we get into summer I realize that I'm missing something about my old basement level apartment that i took for granted, how it stays cool.

 

[Nameless One]

As we get into summer I realize that I'm missing something about my old basement level apartment that i took for granted, how it stays cool.

Install a window AC unit. Like 130 bucks. You will feel the difference compared to the stagnant air if you have a well insulated house.

 

[Betonhaus]

Install a window AC unit. Like 130 bucks. You will feel the difference compared to the stagnant air if you have a well insulated house.

This is my fuse box. Unless I unplug the fridge or oven I'm not really going to have good luck here.

 

[Nameless One]

I don't know what I'm supposed to be looking at, but it doesn't look good. Don't have enough breakers/power?

Ver archivo adjunto 9073751

 

[Betonhaus]

I don't know what I'm supposed to be looking at, but it doesn't look good. Don't have enough breakers/power?

Basically with my tv, home server, and fridge I need to juggle the power usage.

Plus I'm on a flat rate electricity bill with a settle-up date once a year and I don't want to find out i vastly underestimated my electricity usage

 

[souschef]

utterly fucked

I'm tired but i can't sleep. I close my eyes and my ape brain starts doing fireworks. And i already offered to cover morning classes today in addition to the afternoon ones

Let's just hope i don't accidentally amputate one of my fingers in the process. No sense in trying to sleep anymore

 

[Nameless One]

utterly fucked

I'm tired but i can't sleep. I close my eyes and my ape brain starts doing fireworks. And i already offered to cover morning classes today in addition to the afternoon ones

Let's just hope i don't accidentally amputate one of my fingers in the process. No sense in trying to sleep anymore

Have you tried melatonin?

 

[souschef]

Have you tried melatonin?

Not really, no

It's not that i have insomnia, i just simply couldn't fall asleep today. Happens sometimes, brain won't turn off

Damn, i won't be home until like 17h. I think i'll cook a meal now for my mom and leave it ready for her so i can immediately pass out the moment i come back home

 

[demicolon]

Not really, no

It works, but stops working really fast.
@Betonhaus here's my trick: keep a wet towel in the freezer for maybe 15 minutes, then after it's nice & cold but not solid wrap it around your forearm, it will suck out the heat out of you pretty well.

 

[(((I am NOT a jew)))]

I know this might be the worst place to ask this but honestly ladies and gents I've been wondering.

How much should you really "try" when it comes to talking to a girl and spending time?
Asian girl went back up north. We haven't committed to anything. We're both open to coming to see each other in the future but there is no plan right now for a long distance relationship, we are still keeping in touch though.
Last week kind of was a reminder to me of how easy a date is when she's open to you. Kind of made me realize how retarded I've been when trying to make anything happen, even in platonic relationships. How if someone really likes your company, then will find, no, make time for you and not dance around anything.

I ran into a woman the other day who noticed me from some months back but funny enough she had to remind me who she was. I lost her number and just didn't make any moves because I thought she was too above my grade, whereas now I don't really believe in that shit, or just don't care. She gave me her number again.
Now... she told me she'd have to get someone to watch her kids (strike one, which to be fair she did tell me about before. I don't even care but she does belong to a certain demographic so ehhh, don't kill yourself for me saying that @Getmeout).
I reached out yesterday, no reply (strike two).
I'm trying to just shoot my shot more and be open to what the world throws at me. But I've also gotten better at boundaries. I'm trying not to get in my head and seem too desperate but at what point should you just move on?
I know people get busy and all that, but when I've been down this road before. I honestly don't know how to show I want to move things along at a decent pace without also being desperate.
I don't want to get my hopes up anymore, but I'm also too naive/socially retarded to realize when a woman is just trying to get my attention versus actually wanting me in her life.
It also puts me in a bind where I don't really want to be trying to talk to others when there might be something happening immediately with someone. But I also don't feel like waiting around indefinitely for a non-answer answer.
I can't be as smooth talking or forward as some dudes. I don't have that gift. So I just feel like I can put the offer out there. If she's still radio silent after today, I'll know and start moving on. But I didn't know if there was some universal metric other weirdos on here have learned for spotting flakiness before it happens. It's hard when she seems to be initiating interest as well, so I'm lost. It would save me so much grief moving on.

 

[Cherry Milk]

I'm so pissed off and feeling like shit.

Ugh

 

[Cow Hunter]

I know people get busy and all that, but when I've been down this road before. I honestly don't know how to show I want to move things along at a decent pace without also being desperate.
I don't want to get my hopes up anymore, but I'm also too naive/socially retarded to realize when a woman is just trying to get my attention versus actually wanting me in her life.

What you want to do, is act like just how you do right here on the kiwi. Never conform to some woman's standards, or worry about them messaging back. If they aren't actively bothering the shit out of you by talking too much, take it as a blessing. The only reason pace matters is because you are staring at your phone 24/7 hoping for a response like some cuck. Invite them to a rave or a McDonald's or some shit and if they weasel out of it then its time for you to mosey on over to the next woman.

 

[Nameless One]

What you want to do, is act like just how you do right here on the kiwi. Never conform to some woman's standards, or worry about them messaging back. If they aren't actively bothering the shit out of you by talking too much, take it as a blessing. The only reason pace matters is because you are staring at your phone 24/7 hoping for a response like some cuck. Invite them to a rave or a McDonald's or some shit and if they weasel out of it then its time for you to mosey on over to the next woman.

It's fucking McOver.

Regularly see them in person as much as you can for the best results.

 

[Troon Petty and the 41ers]

One of the cats has when started doing his "I'm distressed" meow when he wants pets. Needy little guy.

 

[Scream Aim Fire]

Not great; stomach started feeling weird last night, and it's still going on today. No idea what's going on, really; I've been feeling fine for the most part otherwise.

 

[Getmeout]

I don't even care but she does belong to a certain demographic so ehhh

*Opens mouth*

don't kill yourself for me saying that @Getmeout

*Closes mouth*

 

[Fingolfin]

I am good, still recovering from illness but also a little down cause of it. Not been a fun week, but hey tis the weekend so chatting with the lads on VC and tis brightened my mood up a lot.

A few ales between us all, some good jokes and memes while MAYBE do a drunk raid on World of Warcraft for fun again.

 

[The Last Stand]

I'm hungry and I don't have the energy or know-how to cook. And will be broke when June hits.

 

[Nameless One]

I'm hungry and I don't have the energy or know-how to cook. And will be broke when June hits.

Ramen noodles and yakisoba noodles. Buy bread. I'm basically a povertynigger too.

 

[The Last Stand]

Ramen noodles and yakisoba noodles. Buy bread. I'm basically a povertynigger too.

I actually hate ramen. I'd rather eat rice and beans.