Honest Question: Can Fatties Be Attractive?

I've never seen a girl with an above average BMI who was hot, but I've met some who were pretty or cute. If you have good genetics and a pretty face you can kinda get away with it a little bit, but at a certain weight you're just gonna look doughy, and no one looks good doughy.
 
They usually have a window between the ages of 18 to 25. After 25 nothing can make fat look better, no matter how much fat cleavage you show.

But if you get in and out during that window, you're good. Fat boobs aren't big boobs, ladies. Guys know this. Depends how desperate they are.
 
i have encountered a few flirty and nice fatties. the only thing i feel when talking to them is pity. why do so many people ruin their body?

chubby can be cute.
 
Absolutely, and some people actually look much better at certain weights. It's just that 9.9999 times out of 10 that weight is "athletic". I have seen a couple chubby girls and maybe even one or two that normal people might consider downright fat that just happened to be the perfect size and shape for their height, facial features, hairstyle etc., and wind up being very pleasant to look at where I wouldn't change a thing, so I know it's technically possible. But tons of factors have to come together for that to be the case. And that doesn't mean that if you just have a stereotypically "pretty" face you can be fat or chubby and still look good. It's like all of your geometry has to be just right.
 
No. The only way to be fat is to 1) consume more than you need while 2) exerting less than you could. Period. So obesity is already a natural visual signifier of greed and sloth. Additionally, that correlation is widely known, so if someone is fat, they're either too stupid to know why, or they don't care, either of which is yet another undesirable trait in a partner. On top of that, it's widely known to be unhealthy, so it can again be assumed that a fat person is either too stupid to know that, or they don't care about their health, or they know and care but they're incapable of taking care of themselves, again all negative traits in a partner. There are edge cases where life circumstances can permit someone to be fat while still being a good person, e.g. working single parent prioritizing the wellbeing of their children over their own, but again you have to ask yourself, is a person who does not have room in their life to even care for themselves likely to be a quality partner?

Being fat is not a red flag, it's a whole suite of red flags. Why should I care for someone who doesn't care for themselves.

Note that I'm not advocating for the shit-ass colloquial ideal of anorexic retard model heroin chic "skinny" either, that's its own set of red flags. A self-respecting person is physically active and nourishes their body without poisoning it. If you don't love your body, I won't either.
 
Yes... but its akin to finding a unicorn and past 24 they deflate into a balloon. Honestly what I saw once might if been a Frankenstein mix of cosmetic surgeries over something nature produced.
 
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