🍗 Deathfat Fat Acceptance Movement / Fat Girlcows

[OttoWest]

Does it change since they are not married and she is not offically disabled? When she discusses marriage that was the guy before him which kind of had the same ending as this has only Jeremy was not stupid enough to marry her.

Massachusetts does not recognize common law marriages, instead the state will acknowledge cohabitation agreements. From my research, this must be a written document to be acknowledged as legal, it can’t just be an oral agreement.

Spoiler: Mass Legal Stuff

Cohabitation agreements are contracts made by unmarried people who live (or plan to live) together. In 1998 the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court ruled for the first time that “unmarried cohabitants may lawfully contract concerning property, financial, and other matters relevant to their relationship. Such a contract is subject to the rules of contract law and is valid even if expressly made in contemplation of a common living arrangement….” (Wilcox v. Trautz, 427 Mass. 326, 332.)

A cohabitation agreement must be in writing to be valid. However, “if the parties eventually were to marry, the [cohabitation] agreement is no longer valid, and the rules concerning antenuptial, postnuptial, or separation agreements will then govern any agreement thereafter entered into by them.” (Wilcox at 332, footnote 4.)

 

[Angry New Ager]

Does it change since they are not married and she is not offically disabled? When she discusses marriage that was the guy before him which kind of had the same ending as this has only Jeremy was not stupid enough to marry her.

They lived together for years, with the intent to marry, and that's good enough in a lot of states to consider them to be in a common-law marriage. (ETA: Never mind; @OttoWest has a much better grasp on MA law than I do. But I do think there is still a possibility he could have ended up in trouble for abandoning her—not so much as if they were married/had a CA, but it's still possible.)

Spoiler: spoilered for length

When Evie broke up with her former fiance, she wasn't anywhere near as sick, disabled, and unable to perform ADLs as she is now. She was a deathfat, but ambulatory and able to function. I don't know if she had been employed at all during that time, or just before, but she would have been seen as capable of seeking and holding a job. So her former ex-fiance wouldn't have been held responsible for her if he kicked her out.

But things are a lot different now. If Jeremy just put Evie out on the street, the burden of caring for her would fall to the state because she's unable to care for herself. And it's my understanding that it would be the state that would come after Jeremy for criminal abandonment.

Evie would be the kind of homeless client who would accept any and all help, and likely get it, because she's so sick and disabled (even if she hasn't qualified for SSI/SSDI). A caseworker who noted that she was a victim of criminal abandonment, by an employed ex-fiance with sufficient means to be a homeowner, could report Jeremy to the appropriate authorities, and he'd be subject to criminal charges.

Evie probably doesn't know about this. Jeremy might, especially if he consulted an attorney while trying to figure out how to get Evie out of his house with the least amount of drama and at the lowest cost possible. Or, he might not; I really couldn't tell you. But the way he's handling this suggests he does.

For Jeremy to avoid potential criminal abandonment charges, Evie has to have a place to move to that she believes will meet her needs. That, or he has to find her a place to go, and pay for it. But if he can get her to line up new housing herself, and leave on her own, he ceases to be responsible for her as soon as she leaves. Her new place may turn out to be a dump; she may not be able to function in it; her brother may give up on her—none of that will matter as far as Jeremy's concerned.

The chances that Jeremy would ever get hit with criminal abandonment charges if he just parked Evie at a fleabag motel and said goodbye are slim, but he's got way too much to lose to risk it. His kids have already endured enough hardships due to Evie sucking up an unfair share of resources, and exposing himself to the risk of criminal charges would only make things worse for them. So he's handling this in as fair and reasonable a way as he can, given the circumstances.

And, despite having a thing for fats, he's probably a decent guy who wouldn't be able to get ruthless in forcing her out—he's been in a seriously difficult position ever since Evie broke her ankle, and he's consistently acted in the most honorable way towards her, even at his own (and his kids') expense. So I expect him to fork over whatever money she ends up needing in order to complete the move; it would be consistent with all of his behavior toward her so far. And she's definitely going to need it; there's no way she'll have all of the necessary funds raised by the end of this month.

 

[I call shenanigans]

Fat Alex Archive of the potato quality:
fatalex.mp4

Interestingly, someone on reddit pointed out that she’s wearing the same top in this vlog as she was wearing for her gastric bypass surgery announcement. While her face looks different, her body not so much. So much for keeping of 95% of that 100lb she lost off. Not quite so much pulling around the boobs, but interesting she can supposedly wear the same clothes plus or minus 100lbs.

ETA: For someone who buys as many clothes as she does, she really doesn’t have many in her rotation that she wears. I suspect she returns most of them or onsells them because she lives in leisurewear. I’m not going to fault her for that choice, because many of us that can get away with it will do the same. We just don’t buy new dresses every week. Apart from her delusion/lying about being a size 18, which clearly she isn’t, the dresses she bought which were all too small, we’re NOT maternity dresses. Not only does she not realise that she needs more room for what will be ever increasing boobs, she’ll also need more room in the hemline. The oversized pants she said were too big, we’re actually too small, which was obvious from the strain in the crotch front to back. There’s no room for a baby bulge in those. As a (you do realise I’m pregnant) “fashion influencer” she really needs to discover maternity wear. She’ll also need to ditch the athletic vests if she plans to breastfeed. I seriously doubt she will, but expect she’ll pretend she is. Now is actually a good time for her to be researching/shopping for useful maternity and postpartum clothing, not the stuff she’s buying now which will never fit her post baby.

 

[cybercybe]

"Prettiest woman in the world"

 

[NoReturn]

Remember how Aubrey got her PhD? Guess she's got a lot of free time now:

https://www.tiktok.com/@hoff.phd/video/7358572930487536942

https://www.tiktok.com/@hoff.phd/video/7358916457201274154

I like how she explicitly says "involving humans" so people can't throw mouse studies at her.

https://www.tiktok.com/@hoff.phd/video/7358602726487493931

 

[GenociderSyo]

 

[Tumbo II]

Forgive me if this is mentioned somewhere in the thread but did eve or Jeremy ever comment or give any reason as to why they specifically broke up? All I've managed to find in confirmation from Eve that it happened but nothing beyond that.

 

[HamFan]

Remember how Aubrey got her PhD? Guess she's got a lot of free time now:
1.mp4

https://www.tiktok.com/@hoff.phd/video/7358572930487536942

2.mp4
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https://www.tiktok.com/@hoff.phd/video/7358916457201274154

I like how she explicitly says "involving humans" so people can't throw mouse studies at her.

3.mp4

https://www.tiktok.com/@hoff.phd/video/7358602726487493931

I ain't got no PhD, but all I understand here is that these studies were very poor:

Spoiler

She mostly covered this part in text:

(Seriously, if I misunderstand I'll be happy to be corrected).

"Even if being fat puts you at a greater risk of depression, losing weight does not mean it will go away." What fucked up logic. If being fat puts you at a greater risk, why not at least try weight loss? Oh, I know, because being fat is not your fault, and eating less is torture. She got a PhD so she could say all this shit with a smirk. We have to believe her. She's a doctor.

 

[Otterly]

She got a PhD so she could say all this shit with a smirk. We have to believe her. She's a doctor.

The conclusions you can draw from reading pretty much anything on obesity are;
-CICO works as a general concept. No fat people in famine zones
-there’s probably about a 25% difference in how people use what they eat on top of the CICO stuff and that’s probably down to things like gut bacteria and what you eat and insulin etc
-the above leads to tiny daily underburns which can add up over time and which are resolvable with fewer kcal in.
-the above doesn’t cancel out CICO - nobody can starve and be fat
-all diets work
- not all diets are easy to stick to
-if you don’t stick to a diet it won’t work
-people underestimate calories in by about half and overestimate exercise done by about half.
-people generally don’t succeed at diets not because of the diet but because they don’t or can’t stick to it
-you need to change how you eat to lose weight and keep it off
-you probably don’t need as many kcal as you think you do.
People who are significantly overweight generally have something else going on that makes them unhappy. Same with depressed people. We have this model of chemical imbalance in the brain that’s fixable with a magic pill. It’s a model that’s wrong - maybe a tiny percentage have a chemical issue. Most people who are depressed need to have their lives change and that’s really hard to do. Most people who are very overweight are eating the hole in their lives and again, it’s hard to change. You CAN change it. It takes a lot of effort and work.
For her to say it’s simply not possible is epically missing the point. For her to say weight loss doesn’t resolve depression misses the point. SRIs aren’t supposed to make you happy they’re supposed to lift the fog enough to make you able to make changes that make you feel better.
If you’re very fat your QoL is low. Simply losing weight without looking at WHY you did that to yourself in the first place isn’t going to achieve much. You have to change how you eat and live, and have a hard look at your life. I don’t think many people are actually capable of that (and kudos to anyone who is.)

 

[vanilla_pepsi_head]

The conclusions you can draw from reading pretty much anything on obesity are;
-CICO works as a general concept. No fat people in famine zones

The absolute state of society. The fact that anyone in current year thought a peer-reviewed study was needed to ask this question is embarrassing beyond belief. It's got to be the junk food lobby and scam weight loss industry (plus Big Pharma, naturally) that tries to plant retarded ideas about nutrition and run interference to keep as many people as possible from understanding how basic calorie counting works, right? Or fake concerns, like how so many people loudly object to things like calorie counts being displayed on restaurant menus because they claim it will do more harm by triggering anorexia nervosa in epidemic proportions, as if that's a real or legitimate possibility. Lol no, these types just expect the world to change so they can avoid anything that forces them to acknowledge any degree of personal responsibility, or even just reminds them that indulging every impulse all the time might not be good for you.

Anyway, brb, I have to go see my doctor about muh asthma and chest pains, then I need to go eat an entire Bloomin' Onion and half a jar of chipotle mayonnaise by myself so the anorexia doesn't creep up on me again.

 

[Pudgy Bear Claws]

Forgive me if this is mentioned somewhere in the thread but did eve or Jeremy ever comment or give any reason as to why they specifically broke up? All I've managed to find in confirmation from Eve that it happened but nothing beyond that.

They didn't say specifically but Eve did say he got tired of her situation (meaning he was sick of her lazy, smelly ass) and that she couldn't change.

 

[Sonalee Rashitwar]

Speculation, but I wonder how much of the obesity and craving/addiction for foods has to do with the fact that many people don’t really eat simple, “real” food, but rather ultraprocessed food items you can’t make in your kitchen/that weren’t around before the 80s.

There are teams of scientists and focus groups behind those that design things like snack foods to hit brain “bliss points” while deliberately not being satiating. So people can’t stop eating and buy more.

Also, a lot of the “influencer dietician” marketing and the idea that people should just exercise more and still eat and drink those snacks are using the exact same playbook with the same strategy and people from Big Tobacco companies.

Many food components and flavors are tested on mice, dogs, and other animals before humans.

Craving and mindlessly eating tons of this ultraprocessed food really makes many people in this forum have no more agency than the lab animals.

(PL: figured this out and pretty much stopped eating these kinds of things- chips, cookies, most candy, commercial cereals, etc. Just because I felt mad at the idea that I was manipulated around eating X. Have seen some degree of weight loss, clearer skin, fewer digestive issues, less anxiety).

 

[Smoky Acetone]

Since we are on the fat Alex pregnancy train, I thought it apropo to post another hambeast's pregnancy journey and her subsequent decision to start losing weight. @NoReturn has definitely posted this bitch before and ill try to find the posts and link them so you can see some of her awful takes. has maaybe posted on this bitch before but I couldn't find the posts.

At 34 33 weeks: she discusses having to go in for multiple NST s(non-invasive pregnancy screening) due to her high BMI to ensure oxygen and baby movements are good. She acknowledges that these screenings are due to her being a fatty and that she doesn't give a fuck what you say if you're going to be mean (sure Jan).

35 weeks. She has been diagnosed with gestational hypertension and has to be induced which she didn't want. How proud are you to have a high BMI now??

Postpartum: she realizes that being a fatty had horrible consequences on her pregnancy and delivery ( ). She wants to have another kid and not fear for her life during delivery. Hopefully this happens ( ) and she doesn't just give up because it gets too hard and she loves her garbage food.

If she reads the Farms, she can check up on a fellow fatty and learn what awaits her if she even gets to the delivery stage this time...

ETA: Or maybe it was me
ETA: Spelling

 

[Tumbo II]

I mean hopefully she plans on loosing weight and being healthier overall for the sake of her kid and any subsequent. But there's always the possibility to be disappointing as deathfats often are so I will keep my expectations to a minimum.

 

[I call shenanigans]

Fat Alex’s latest vlog. Haven’t bothered to watch it yet. Waiting for a reactor that I can tolerate, who will also cut out her GRWM segment that is always there.

Looks like more food, and did you know I’m pregnant content.

ETA: I was going to joke about hoping for no toilet content this vlog, but just found out that she actually films herself in a Porta Potty. So reorganising furniture, deathfat food consumption, driving, shopping, and toilets were all ticked off the usual vlog list.

 

[stupid frog]

Fat Alex’s latest vlog. Haven’t bothered to watch it yet. Waiting for a reactor that I can tolerate, who will also cut out her GRWM segment that is always there.
https://youtube.com/watch?v=FjvP2NfMHJYLooks like more food, and did you know I’m pregnant content.

I tortured a robot. It only tolerated 5 minutes.

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Summary​

A couple attends a food truck festival and goes shopping at TJ Maxx. They enjoy the food and find cute baby clothes.

Highlights​

• 0:22 Trying delicious food at a food truck festival in Connecticut.
• 1:41 Shopping for baby clothes at TJ Maxx.
• 3:27 Finding cute sunglasses and a candle for the kitchen.
• 5:00 Purchasing Nike onesies for their upcoming baby.

Key Insights​

• The couple enjoys trying different food trucks at the festival and finds the burger balls to be particularly delicious.
• They have a fun time shopping at TJ Maxx and consider buying straw purses and hair clips but ultimately decide against it.
• The sunglasses they find at TJ Maxx are a perfect fit and have a stylish design with gold accents.
• The couple is excited about their upcoming baby and buys Nike onesies in preparation for the little one’s arrival. They also purchase other baby clothes for the fall season.

 

[Diet Coke 4 Life]

Potato Archive of Fat Alex vlog:

 

[I call shenanigans]

The couple is excited about their upcoming baby and buys Nike onesies in preparation for the little one’s arrival. They also purchase other baby clothes for the fall season.

Sounds like a good move…I guess she knows already how fat her baby will be. I did read that fried Oreos we’re on babies menu this vlog.

 

[stupid frog]

I feel like people are always giving away baby clothes due to how fast they grow.
So 1. she has no friends (shocked if true) 2. she is going to use babies growing fast an excuse when hers get fat

 

[Blackpink]

I tortured a robot. It only tolerated 5 minutes.

I don't blame it.
The robot missed some of the highlights we're here for :
Some horrifying angles of Fat Alex being way too fat way too early in the pregnancy.
She says once or twice "I love you" and the husband does not say it back.
She is very happy that he enabled agreed to go to the food truck place.
She claims they are meeting friends there but none are seen in the vlogs or in their sunglasses reflections.
She takes a shot of herself inside a port-a-potty.
Fat Alex has some type of fecal obsession which has been a point of discussion for years now.
She takes selfies and videos on the toilet all the time, can't go a day without mentioning shit, showing toilets, her dog's elimination habits, her favourite expression for being tired is "pooped".
If you pay attention it's quite alarming.
Talks about shitting herself very frequently, too and it started before the WLS so it's not dumping syndrome related.

"country shade tree" on the youtube did a live reaction on the food truck video.
Her chat has very funny and mean comments sometimes.
I don't have a "favourite" reactor to Fat Alex yet because none of them make me laugh, but their subscribers often do.
I can't link or attach screengrabs now, but I might come back to this.

ETA: the husband is now unemployed according to his LinkedIn profile.
Explains why he is suddenly more present, taking things slowly with his career to focus on family and declaring he will do vlogmas if the need be.
That's where his paycheck comes from.