🍗 Deathfat Fat Acceptance Movement / Fat Girlcows

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Here's a better (or worse) perspective (also stolen from reddit) wearing the same sheer coverup; left was Jaimie ~4 years ago when she was still living with her parents. iirc, she moved out in late 2023. I wonder if her parents accepted she's a terminal fat with not much time left and was like, "Eh, we'll only have to pay her rent for 5 years max; she's not croaking in my home."

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Looks like they do talk about Kass in "Escaping Pearadise" but I don't have HBO so I can only see the clips they've been posting.
If anyone does have access, could you please provide a summary?

ID · @investigationdiscovery
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As allegations against Pearadise spread online, founder Stefan Wilhelmy says he felt unable to share his side of the story. In this clip, founder Stefan Wilhelmy responds to some of those allegations. Watch “Big Girls Wanted: Escaping Pearadise” June 10 on ID and stream on @HBOMax. #BigGirlsWanted

"If the girls were skinny, people would care."

Christie Boschman · @thatdocumentarygirl
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Big Girls Wanted: Escaping Pearadise #truecrime #documentary #whattowatch
 
Looks like they do talk about Kass in "Escaping Pearadise" but I don't have HBO so I can only see the clips they've been posting.
If anyone does have access, could you please provide a summary?
download (1).mp4


"If the girls were skinny, people would care."
download.mp4

Chikara covered all 3 episodes scene by scene with screenshots, some clips and commentary. Sam at every size did a high level summary, as did Alex is shook. I'm sure others also did but those are the ones I've watched. Linking isn't working for me right now though
 
Chikara covered all 3 episodes scene by scene with screenshots, some clips and commentary. Sam at every size did a high level summary, as did Alex is shook. I'm sure others also did but those are the ones I've watched. Linking isn't working for me right now though
Thanks for this. I'm not in a position to archive (and will have to watch them myself later), but here are some embeds.

Chikara
Pearadise Is A Cult, Stefan Uses Young Women For His Sick Fantasies - E01 Escaping Pearadise Recap
Stefan Digs A Deeper Hole And Gets One Of The Women Pregnant - Escaping Pearadise S02 Recap
Stefan Shows His True Colors And Feelings About These Women - Escaping Pearadise E03 Recap

Alex is Shook
I Watched The Pearadise documentary So You Don’t Have To
 
"If the girls were skinny, people would care."
I find this whole Pearadise situation profoundly stupid. You cannot convince me for a single second that any of those girls did not know it was a fetish situation. Yeah, the guy is a sex pest who I'm sure molests anything that crosses his path, but don't move into the BBW Fuckhaus and get shocked when no one cares that you got perved on. This drama was never particularly interesting, and that's why no one cares.
 
I find this whole Pearadise situation profoundly stupid. You cannot convince me for a single second that any of those girls did not know it was a fetish situation. Yeah, the guy is a sex pest who I'm sure molests anything that crosses his path, but don't move into the BBW Fuckhaus and get shocked when no one cares that you got perved on. This drama was never particularly interesting, and that's why no one cares.
Yeah but when your ass is big enough to have it's own zip code and most guys won't give you the time of day to have some guy not only pay attention to you but call you beautiful I could understand how some might gravitate towards that and ignore the fetish aspect of it.
 
As I’ve been seeking out the OG deathfats, I came across Marianne Kirby aka TheRotund. Kirby is still around, still fat, and still promoting the usual FA/HAES nonsense now with a series called Fat Tuesday, a weekly IG post where she and some other deathfat celebrate “best dressed fats”.

I’ve been meaning to upload a few vids but today they did thread regular Jordan Underwood:


The features themselves are pretty dull with just a handful of still photos of the so-called fashionable with flat, scripted narration. It’s their baiting tagline that got an eye roll out of me:
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Yes, that is how they end each reel.
They’ve also featured the Plus Sized Park Hoppers and Kiki Chirico. Here’s a couple on the more ridiculous side:


^This dude is not in fact the same gay black dude with moobs that occasionally got featured in this thread but a completely different gay black dude with moobs! It’s sad to realize you’re not a unicorn.
 
I find this whole Pearadise situation profoundly stupid. You cannot convince me for a single second that any of those girls did not know it was a fetish situation.
I feel like part of the problem with the fat acceptance movement as a whole is the focus on fat people (women primarily) being seen as beautiful. These chicks literally thought the world would be a better place if people thought they were beautiful. Promoting fat women as beautiful is activism for these people.

In reality, that barely matters at all. Yes women are judged more on their looks than men but JFC it's only one aspect of life. Get a hobby, you know?

It's not surprising to me that these women who apparently didn't have any other problems in their life except they wanted to be seen as beautiful (and are stupid) went to this place and realized that chasing male validation at any cost ends in disappointment at best, tragedy at worse.

Skinny girls learn this shit in high school. That's pretty privilege, I guess.

This post was very bitchy but in all honesty, people having One Thing be the most important part of their identity is bad. Especially if it's inherently externally defined. If someone only wants to be beautiful, they'll never be satisfied because beauty is subjective and easily destroyed. If you have something else going for you, you're less likely to fall for weirdo scams like this.

It's honestly not the end of the world to just be ugly.
 
I feel like part of the problem with the fat acceptance movement as a whole is the focus on fat people (women primarily) being seen as beautiful. These chicks literally thought the world would be a better place if people thought they were beautiful. Promoting fat women as beautiful is activism for these people.

In reality, that barely matters at all. Yes women are judged more on their looks than men but JFC it's only one aspect of life. Get a hobby, you know?

It's not surprising to me that these women who apparently didn't have any other problems in their life except they wanted to be seen as beautiful (and are stupid) went to this place and realized that chasing male validation at any cost ends in disappointment at best, tragedy at worse.

Skinny girls learn this shit in high school. That's pretty privilege, I guess.

This post was very bitchy but in all honesty, people having One Thing be the most important part of their identity is bad. Especially if it's inherently externally defined. If someone only wants to be beautiful, they'll never be satisfied because beauty is subjective and easily destroyed. If you have something else going for you, you're less likely to fall for weirdo scams like this.

It's honestly not the end of the world to just be ugly.
I think a lot of the body positivity and HAES and fat acceptance was just an attempt to socially engineer things so that they'd have a more, active? fulfilling? romantic life. It's why all these movements focused on "beauty" and on fat girls being considered sexy too!! and etc. It wasn't really the anti-bullying campaign some tried to present it as.
 
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Here's a better (or worse) perspective (also stolen from reddit) wearing the same sheer coverup; left was Jaimie ~4 years ago when she was still living with her parents. iirc, she moved out in late 2023. I wonder if her parents accepted she's a terminal fat with not much time left and was like, "Eh, we'll only have to pay her rent for 5 years max; she's not croaking in my home."

can any artfag dissect her anatomy. she's so fascinating. as obese as other cows like amber / chantal / anna / qlr / etc etc, at the very least they still human-shaped. but jaimie though? unfortunate looking from head to toe.

she's my favorite cow to gawk at
 
can any artfag dissect her anatomy. she's so fascinating. as obese as other cows like amber / chantal / anna / qlr / etc etc, at the very least they still human-shaped. but jaimie though? unfortunate looking from head to toe.

she's my favorite cow to gawk at
Could it be scoliosis under tons of weight? That’s my guess they always say it has an S shaped curve lol.
 
Could it be scoliosis under tons of weight? That’s my guess they always say it has an S shaped curve lol.
Yeah except scoliosis is a side curve making an "S" or "C" shape. The spine is naturally curved like an S but front to back. It's the only way we can stand up straight and it's why the lower back and neck area tend to also be the weakest parts of the spine.

In Jamie's case it's more due to how she carries her weight. Not only does she have massive back tits but that enormous gunt in the front are pulling her in different directions and possibly compressing her spine so that it's more out of whack than normal. But then I'm not a doctor so I can't say.
 
As I’ve been seeking out the OG deathfats, I came across Marianne Kirby aka TheRotund. Kirby is still around, still fat, and still promoting the usual FA/HAES nonsense now with a series called Fat Tuesday, a weekly IG post where she and some other deathfat celebrate “best dressed fats”.
Some more old heads:

FatDoctorUK
Deactivated/privated, as far as I can tell

JaeBae
Deactivated/privated

Splotchmaker
Never reactivated the account of the same name, and doesn't appear to work for that counseling office anymore. She may have gotten married, though, because her name comes up in search as "Leah Hutchinson Sanchez". Good for her.

Jordan Underwood
Got her own thread but doesn't do HAES-y stuff anymore. She's pivoted to "size inclusivity".

Jordan Underwood · @jordallenhall
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@infiness7 ur a star thank u for always believing in me ily. We did that in 5 hours 🙏🏻 bless . . . @infiness7 choreo @divadgm costumes @soundmoda mix @clubnycent

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MMFR | Plus Size Fashion · @mightymurphinfash
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I could have been meaner, I could have been louder, I could have played dirtier…but that isn’t me and it wouldn’t make me feel any better so you’re lucky we aren’t the same ✌️ #healing #HealingJourney #betruetoyourself #taylorsversion

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Bekah (they/she) ✨ · @fullbodiedbekah
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I have been ✨ very depressed ✨ but there have been little glimmers amongst the sadness. this was one of them 🥹 #noahkahan #thegreatdivide #endofaugust #mentallyilltiktok
Get better, girl.

Marissa Matthews
Still active on @sheismarissamatthews and @shitmarissasays, but very boring

Fat Liberation/ Body Positive! · @shitmarissasays
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#dietculture #antidietculture #poetry #spokenword #spokenwordpoetry

"Catch a bubble in your mouth" Lexi Nimmo
Last Tiktok was a month ago, but the last Tiktok with her face in it was 8 months ago

Lexinimmo · @lexinimmo
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Replying to @Tim Palmer the prophecy shall come to pass...but like, after I complete my Labubu collection 💅🏻👹✨ #labubu #witchcraft #whyaremen

Lizzo
is signficantly smaller and seems to have dropped the HAES stuff so I don't even bother checking her page anymore

lizzo · @lizzo
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MY ALBUM B!TCH IS *OUT NOW* LETS GOOOOOO

I feel like part of the problem with the fat acceptance movement as a whole is the focus on fat people (women primarily) being seen as beautiful. These chicks literally thought the world would be a better place if people thought they were beautiful. Promoting fat women as beautiful is activism for these people.

In reality, that barely matters at all. Yes women are judged more on their looks than men but JFC it's only one aspect of life. Get a hobby, you know?

It's not surprising to me that these women who apparently didn't have any other problems in their life except they wanted to be seen as beautiful (and are stupid) went to this place and realized that chasing male validation at any cost ends in disappointment at best, tragedy at worse.

Skinny girls learn this shit in high school. That's pretty privilege, I guess.

This post was very bitchy but in all honesty, people having One Thing be the most important part of their identity is bad. Especially if it's inherently externally defined. If someone only wants to be beautiful, they'll never be satisfied because beauty is subjective and easily destroyed. If you have something else going for you, you're less likely to fall for weirdo scams like this.

It's honestly not the end of the world to just be ugly.
Looks like Sam at Every Size did two videos as well:
The Shocking Details You Need Before the Escaping Pearadise Documentary Drops Tomorrow

Xio and Stefan both EXPOSED as LIARS | Big Girls Wanted: Escaping Pearadise
 
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I think a lot of the body positivity and HAES and fat acceptance was just an attempt to socially engineer things so that they'd have a more, active? fulfilling? romantic life. It's why all these movements focused on "beauty" and on fat girls being considered sexy too!! and etc. It wasn't really the anti-bullying campaign some tried to present it as.
It makes more sense when you understand that “fat acceptance” had its origins as a campaign for straight men who fetishized fat women and didn’t want to feel socially stigmatized for it. They were publishing ‘zines in the 1970s about how chubby chasers are people too, damn it! Had jack shit to do with feminism or social justice until the fat-positive terminology started being assimilated by shitlibs into their weird postmodern identity politics.

But the energy of the original FA movement (which revolved entirely around mainstreaming the idea that fat women are fuckable) never fully disappeared, it just rebranded itself as woke and intersectional now. So not being attracted to fat women is actually political violence, rooted in white supremacy and colonialist genocide against queer-coded non-normative bodies that dare to take up space in the capitalist patriarchy. Or something.
 
Oh I remember this one being extra insufferable
Jordan Underwood
The one with a column lymphoedema legs, I remember her photos when she was a child and she was already obese. Her mother is thin and all I could think of was child abuse.
Bekah (Fuck's sake)
Sad to see for fuck sakes Bekah still fat and miserable, her story is really depressing.

My contribution

Mechanicshopfemme. Obnoxious and ugly then, uglier and equally obnoxious now.
2021
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Now
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And a second one is this honey babe, just for the laughs. Harkonen horror

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Edit : grammar
 
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can any artfag dissect her anatomy. she's so fascinating. as obese as other cows like amber / chantal / anna / qlr / etc etc, at the very least they still human-shaped. but jaimie though? unfortunate looking from head to toe.

she's my favorite cow to gawk at
Ask and ye shall recieve:
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Edit: my guess is her ribcage bends outwards slightly more because of an enlarged heart and fluid filled lungs, but it could be normal sized. I'm sure her liver, spleen, stomach and bowels are all enlarged or enflamed to produce such a weirdly lumpy frame (aside from obvious FAT)
 
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In Jamie's case it's more due to how she carries her weight. Not only does she have massive back tits but that enormous gunt in the front are pulling her in different directions and possibly compressing her spine so that it's more out of whack than normal. But then I'm not a doctor so I can't say.
I recently posted about Heidi aka Sugar Monster, a defunct deathfat. She wasn’t as large as Jaimie though extremely obese but her surgery “before” pics are likely the closest approximation of Jaimie’s bizarre fat distribution:
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