Deep Thunks: Relationships and Sex - Off-Topic

[Forsaken Wanderer]

The left spend so much time forcing themselves to suffer through these open relationships and hating every moment of it because to admit it goes against all that is good and natural is to admit that their enemies are right and they can never do that. So they will forever worship the black phallus and the loose wife.

 

[Autistic Gunspergings]

Just the idea of loveless sex I find really awkward and embarrassing and I don't understand why people are so eager to engage in lifestyles like that. It seems like such an empty way to live your life and everyone I've met that lives like that only really confirms my beliefs.
On the other hand, some of the most emotionally stable & kind people I know are in long term relationships with a significant other.

 

[Administrator Flotsam]

I have never met a single poly person that does communicate w ppl about who they’re fucking

"I thought we were poly so I didn't do anything wrong", how is that even an excuse? These kind of people don't need to cheat, they should be filtered out long before that with some simple questions like whether she has a boyfriend or why she broke up with her ex. If you don't get a clear non-mindgamey answer you should say you have mega AIDS and run.

 

[FeatherPlucker]

The poly shit pisses me off to no end, but it's not just a left wing thing.
I'm becoming irrationally irate at the growing number of YouTube channels who suggest that women should marry rainbows and trannies, and/or stay married to rainbows and trannies. I have seen this on channels that are not left wing.
I've seen this phenomenon on channels supposedly run by conservative women, occult channels, channels about dating, conservative channels obsessed with birth rates, etc.. I notice that a large number of right wing leaning genderfags are demanding personal slaves to breed them children and clean their homes. I'd rather eat ground glass than clean up after some fag's chemsex party and take in his e-coli tainted sperm. Down low brothers are notoriously nasty... so if you are a normal gay man who identifies as a gay man in public, please don't take offense.
I find the occult channels particularly suspect... they often seem Q aligned... . because I know many of these so called "ancient wisdom" religions and new age cults they name drop have man-to-man ass sex as their highest religious rite, but these channels aren't open about that fact... yet they drone on about women having to exhibit "sacred femininity" and how "aggression of women is faulty male energy due to epi-genics" ect., and "meditate your aggression away, ladies, and open your hearts to Gaia, your feminine energy can HEAL men". Inevitably the hosts for these channels are faggoty men with heavy lisps. You know they're sucking and fucking each other during their "shamanistic" rituals.
Fuck that shit.
Men can't be changed by women. Men can only change themselves, and when they choose to do so. These same people would turn around and claim "you're being punished by your bad karma!" if said man a woman chooses turns out to be "NOT fixable" with "mother Gaia energy". "Oh, your chakras are misaligned, you deserve your misery!"
In reverse, I wouldn't expect a man to marry a bull dyke and take care of her and/or have kids with her. However, these channels don't expect that from men, naturally. Occultism generally isn't about lesbianism, however, it's mostly about putting male ass-fucking on a pedestal when you dig deep enough into the lore.

 

[soup peddler]

I'm 24 and recently I've felt this ridiculously strong biological imperative to like, move back to where I grew up, marry a guy, and have lots of kids. It feels weirdly animalistic... like when salmon know to go back to where they were born to lay eggs lol.

 

[Paper Machete]

Men can't be changed by women. Men can only change themselves, and when they choose to do so.

I don't know if this is a spergy tangent for this thread or on topic but this is a great point. People always go on about how women temper men's sexuality but that couldn't be more bullshit. If that were true troons wouldn't exist, down low men wouldn't give their wives HIV, men wouldn't cheat, they wouldn't hire pros to do things their wives don't want to in the bedroom, etc.

Nasty motherfuckers feel a compulsion to be nasty. Until they own up to the fact they need real psychological help to train themselves into not indulging if they even think it's something bad they need to curb...than no, they won't choose between it (whatever it is) and being respectful to the woman and relationship.

Men who are good and behave themselves do so because they're genuinely decent people. Women do not make them go one direction or the other inherently. It's not her responsibility if he's a freak!