Cheating - Affairs and Betrayals

[janedoe]

i know that some women stay with the men they are cheating on because they like the 'security' that the man provides for them. but they are unwilling to put in the effort to earn that security. childish hoes, essentially, who fail the marshmallow test every god damn time.
what really pisses me off is the women who jump through hoops to justify their unfaithfulness. they will say some of the most ridiculous deflecting bullshit or just straight up gaslighting to come out as less of a piece of shit or whore. their image, virtue and feelings, essentially, become more important than the relationship they destroyed.

anyway, this all got me wondering, what do you guys think about the 'other man' or 'other woman' in cheating scenarios? i think if they know someone is cheating with them, yet they continue, they're a piece of shit. maybe not as bad as the person cheating, but still somewhat responsible.

regrettably, i know too many guys who gleefully take the role of the 'other guy' with married women. and what i have learned from them is that they don't respect the women they're fucking, not even slightly. they're just holes to them. and honestly why the hell should they respect them??? these are MARRIED women who are cheating on some overworked guy who probably lost his sex drive. but all the same i can't help the disgust i feel listening to all this gloating about their fuckboy bullshit. like you niggas really can't be the bigger man? even though they are my friends, i admit i always end up thinking less of them when they tell me this shit.
regarding the fairer sex, some bitches really, really, get off on getting a man to cheat on their girl, i shit you not. and they especially love being 'the one who got him to leave his gf'. it's just part of that competitive cattiness. they usually get what's coming to them, though, because you have to be an utter moron to believe he will somehow remain faithful to YOU considering what the relationship was founded on lmfao

 

[Lemmingwise]

even though they are my friends, i admit i always end up thinking less of them when they tell me this shit.

Women and men that treat their partner so savagely... I can never stay friends with them. Even if I like other parts. Everytime I look in their eyes I see how the person they're supposed to love most and that they stab them in the back habitually. It's so disgusting. I'm surprised each time about how deeply aversive I find it.

regarding the fairer sex, some bitches really, really, get off on getting a man to cheat on their girl, i shit you not. and they especially love being 'the one who got him to leave his gf'

Yeah, women like preselected men and they like the competition. Though it's more common that they'll be treated like a sidepiece for a while.

But now he's handed her the keycode to explode his current relationship, so it's a bad idea all around.

 

[Penis Drager]

I will say what I said on a&n:.
Cheating whores deserve ridicule, not death. The proper way to deal with the situation is divorce. And the porper punishment should be that she doesn't get a single penny from the man.
Though it's a bit optimistic to think modern courts would go for that...

 

[behavioral swamp thang]

Cheaters are time wasters. Those that stay with them are cucks. The only real option is divorce.

 

[TamarYaelBatYah]

Infidelity/Cheating/Adultery is a form of emotional and mental abuse that one partner inflicts on the other. In many countries it is spoken of as a form of socially acceptable abuse through victim blaming of the injured spouse. However, it is never justified and adulterers should get the death penalty in religious courts.

When someone infects their partner with an STD because of his/her cheating/infidelity, it becomes physical abuse as well.

 

[Goy Sheckelstein]

If women weren't automatically entitled to *half* of a mans estate I'd be more open to getting married. Alas, time and again I see dudes around me being fucking raped by a vindictive, entitled, worthless leeches of a woman. Even if it's the man that's cheated, which is fucked up, she can still easily take him to court and get half his pension, the house, alimony (in some states,) child support, and leave the dude saddled with a debt so inescapable it's on par with student loans.

To think that the concept of alimony was derived from a woman being divorced or filing for divorce, and going 'mama mia! i have no skills other than stirring soup on a pot or folding clothing! How can I be expected to survive on my own without a man to provide for me?!' If women were half as strong as their shitty feminist plattitudes make them out to be, they'd be fine with just dissolving the marriage, leaving with what they brought into the relationship, or worst case, combining all assets and splitting it 50/50 (again, worst case since 9 out of 10 times the man earned everything of value) and leaving.

Then the woman will go on and on about how this is the best thing that's ever happened to her, and how she don't need no man just need my kids. Never realizing the irony in her sentiments, as she's collecting over half the value of another person, a man, for the rest of her life as she floats around from partner to partner collecting checks. I don't need no man, yet I will regularly check up on your employment status to see if I can sue you for more child support because after all I'm a useless leech with no skills and I need your income to survive.

 

[Nagibatel]

I wrote an entire thread on why I consider it akin to sexual assault.

 

[furūtsu]

If we're gonna rope cheaters, we should apply that to every form of crime too. Bring back the gallows for thieves, liars, arsonists etc.

Personally, no, death is too high a penalty for anything aside from sexual assault/abuse or murder. I think we should bring back social ostracization and public shaming so people sense an actual deterrent to this behavior. The adulterer should either pay damages to the cheated on spouse or get nothing in the divorce. Sane and simple.

 

[L50LasPak]

Adultery should only carry the penalty of your name being added to a public database that anyone can look up to see your history of past offenses. This way everyone knows what they're getting into if they want to start a relationship with you, fair and square.

 

[The Last Stand]

Some describing the disgust towards the thought of a 67-year old woman having sex.

Depends on the 67 year old woman.