Ralph clearly doesn't understand Scar or the game she plays.
Why does she still bring up her stupid hat?
That was the day Matt won. He beat her at her own game, live on Melton's New Year's stream. She had everyone convinced he was an abusive monster, until Melton brought him on. He just happened to have his friend Jenny with him - the same woman who was there the day Scar "jumped out of a window". She calmly explained what actually took place, and exposed Scar for the pathological liar that she is. Nothing Scar said about Matt held any credibility after that, even though she was talking to an audience that hated him and wanted to believe her. She made both Melton and Moody look like fools.
Matt won that day, and he continues to win by moving on with his life. He wins by no longer talking to or about her.
Ralph can't win because he doesn't understand the rules of the game. He loses every time he says her name. Every time he takes her call. Every time he sends her a message, and especially when he gives her exactly what she wants - when he puts her face on his stream.
That's the game she's playing. She publicly humiliates him and shows the world what a small, weak, little boy he is. He doesn't have the ability to win this game. He's not smart or talented enough to put on a show anyone wants to watch without her.
Scar wins. She even chased off his other guests so she got exactly what she wanted, all of his attention to herself. Yes, he booted her because he could see she was mad, but she was mad because she had to share the screen. She dominates him and so easily manipulates him into doing exactly what she wants.
The only way to win against Scarlett is to ignore her, completely....and he doesn't have the intelligence, emotional maturity, or willpower to do that, so she will always win and he will always lose. That's the whole reason Scar likes him in the first place, because he's so easy to play with. By the end of the stream he's visibly defeated with his head in his hands. "You did say you were going to rape my mother." Scar concedes nothing.
