Ask women why they do stuff in a particular manner and possibly get a straightforward answer

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Roast Chicken

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Obligatory counterpart to the "Ask men why they do the things they do" thread as there doesn't seem to be one already.

*slaps hands on knees* So. Whaddya wanna know, Fellas?
 
An Old Farmer, you love to see it.

Here's my question - why the fuck can't you girls just say "no"?

I'm not talking about anything sex/relationship related, it's just this ongoing, exhausting process where I ask a woman to do something and I get this big pile of SNCA explaining why it couldn't be done.

Like if you can't do it just tell me, I get people are busy. I'll find someone else!
 
For the record, I assume you're a man.

That said, why are women so fucking threatened by all other females, anywhere, in any context. Walk out of the gym with my wife, a woman in her 40's, and she can't make it five steps before she has to start talking shit about some high school girl she saw in there like they were a direct threat.
 
For the record, I assume you're a man.

That said, why are women so fucking threatened by all other females, anywhere, in any context. Walk out of the gym with my wife, a woman in her 40's, and she can't make it five steps before she has to start talking shit about some high school girl she saw in there like they were a direct threat.
About equal parts of my female acquaintances seem to be completely confident in themselves/don't compare themselves to others, while the other half shit talks.

The only common denominator that I have noticed from the shit talkers is, at some point in life they have interacted with a total bitch that left a lasting impression in how they compare themselves to other women.


This is totally just from my own subjective experience and not at all indicative of all women.
 
An Old Farmer, you love to see it.

Here's my question - why the fuck can't you girls just say "no"?

I'm not talking about anything sex/relationship related, it's just this ongoing, exhausting process where I ask a woman to do something and I get this big pile of SNCA explaining why it couldn't be done.

Like if you can't do it just tell me, I get people are busy. I'll find someone else!
She thinks you won't take "no" for an answer.
 
if you don't want to date a guy and never want to see him again why can't you just say "i don't want to date you and i never want to see you again", even though you know that's the best course of action for both parties involved
it would honestly be less painful, more humane and more efficient if you were to pull out a gun and shoot him than to use the "let's just be friends" line
 
Here's my question - why the fuck can't you girls just say "no"?

I have said no to things. Then people give me an attitude for it.

Edit: I've also done it for my husband when he was too tired to do something, so I told the person that he couldn't help them the very next day. I said no to the guy and he got very bitchy about it.
 
I have said no to things. Then people give me an attitude for it.
I just want things to work smoothly for once in my life.

Opened a box of spoons to replace ones lost earlier today and every single god damned spoon was individually wrapped in plastic

I didn't like this.
 
I just want things to work smoothly for once in my life.
This is why I said no to the butthead who was trying to pressure my husband to do some long hours car work for them when he wasn't available for it.

I told the guy, "no, he has an inspection and he has to prepare for it so he can't fix your car tomorrow."

Then the guy threw a fit about how he's paying my husband (he didn't pay him yet though, lol) so he should drop everything and fix his POS car.

I said no again, lol.

People get very mad when I tell them no.
 
Why do so many women claim they are looking for non-threatening soft men yet end up with literal ogres? I don't mean nice guys but twink/pretty boy huh "fans", I did notice this pattern years ago, many of those girls later gravitate towards men with extremely masculine features, not handsome, but hyper masculine, not because of unplanned pregnancies or because they settled for the only man available; in fact I've seen all the Jonas Brothers/Bieber fans from my school days end up married with king kong looking creatures, I must point out that many of those classmates were not fat or ugly but some of the prettiest and most popular girls, so....
 
We are not medical professionals, go see one and have them ask you the same question.

Not like it will help much, its like asking a baby why it cries.
 
Here's my question - why the fuck can't you girls just say "no"? Like if you can't do it just tell me, I get people are busy. I'll find someone else!
People pleasing dies hard. Sometimes it's easier to say the 500 reasons I can't do the thing than to just say no, so I'm not the bad guy or evil bitch for saying no, I clearly have reasons.
That said, why are women so fucking threatened by all other females, anywhere, in any context.
Sounds like insecurity, which can happen to both sexes. Might be more present in women since we're more social than men, so we're more aware of the pecking order and where we stand.
if you don't want to date a guy and never want to see him again why can't you just say "i don't want to date you and i never want to see you again", even though you know that's the best course of action for both parties involved
it would honestly be less painful, more humane and more efficient if you were to pull out a gun and shoot him than to use the "let's just be friends" line
Sometimes you might genuinely want to be friends with a guy you're not romantically interested in, like "yeah I like hanging out with you but I don't think we'd be compatible in a romantic/sexual relationship." As far as straight-up rejection or ghosting goes, there are two types: The "modern dater" who doesn't care and treats potential partners as meaningless and just ghosts out of nowhere based on nothing, and you shouldn't take those fickle people seriously (because they clearly don't take the situation seriously either,) OR, it's a normal woman who's scared of the repercussions of rejecting a guy who turns out to be a psycho. Men have stalked, stabbed, kidnapped and tortured, even killed women for rejecting them. The scariest ones, you can't even tell from the jump they're crazy, because they hide it so they can get someone invested.
Why do so many women claim they are looking for non-threatening soft men yet end up with literal ogres?
Why do so many men want a 9/10 who can cook, clean, and has an ass so firm you could bounce a quarter off it but end up with a 5/10 who owns too many cats? Life happens.
 
I have done a "yeah, I don't like you and I don't want to go out with you again" to a guy who my friend set up on a blind date.

I just wasn't attracted to him.

Why do so many men want a 9/10 who can cook, clean, and has an ass so firm you could bounce a quarter off it but end up with a 5/10 who owns too many cats? Life happens.
"I want me a trad wife."

Yeah, good luck with that, man.
 
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