Empty life you mean
Yeah, it's been speculated by his parents and I honestly believe he has brain damage. Btw, I mentioned the photos from his accident, they're in the OP. It may not look awful but there are a lot of injuries on his face and probably head.
Ayrt is referring to before he changed. I also believe he was headed to a bland normal life, with a boring stable job, hell maybe a wife who shared his possible diaper fetish.
I also think he is genuinely distressed when he throws tantrums, but not for the reason he wants you to believe or he himself may believe. He's not a poor widdle victim and certainly isn't entitled to the full control over others and subservience that he wants, and that's what he seems to be upset about.
he turns that shit on and off like water...he is a massive fraud, and should be treated as such. his parents are just stupid and enabling...that said, i think there are a lot of mental issues going on in his family, the house in which they all live is hoarded out, you have another guy in his late 30s who still lives at home, under the guise of "helping" his parents..yet nothing is obviously done around there..no cleaning for sure. when his parents eventually pass on, he will at least face real consequences of his horrible behavior, because i dont see his brother tolerating any of it on his own.
well yeah, hes stressed when he throws the fits because number 1: he works himself up and plays it up for to manipulate people with it, number 2, he is upset that he cant manipulate people, most people are over it and they know his tricks they all know he is faking and he is basically committing fraud by pretending to be severely retarded / autistic, using medical, EMT, police, 9-1-1, crisis services, adult services etc. for his games; lots of misuse and theft of services : and he turns up the intensity volume thinking that will make people go....''ooooh hes for real, he really is autistic and retarded, oh shit were so sorry''...- but it aint workin' LOL
That's even more pathetic: Imagine having a choice between being a NEET but having a somewhat stable job, or being a manbaby that shits his diaper, and he genuinely chose the latter.
Your story is fascinating, and offers an interesting perspective to Andy. Do you think his parents let him stay, because they feel guilty about the potential brain injury?
Very likely, does anyone know exactly how it happened? I may have a limited experience, but I've been to enough docs to know the protocols they usually offer.
Again, not defending as you can be right but remember, another side effect is extreme mood swings. They don't have to last long, and you do genuinely act a bit like a toddler. Mine continued for a long while due to being, what I now know as, frustration. Depending, he could have a much lighter version that still causes an extreme reaction, or he knows how to work himself up into a frenzy until he gets what he wants. Some people learn how to weaponize their injury, and his tantrums do feel genuine to a degree.
i think the biggest thing is his parents have been gas-lighted and railroaded by him they are beaten and they are empty shells as their spirits are broken. the thing is i used feel bad for his family on one level; because they do not deserve to be treated like that. HOWEVER, they CHOOSE to let him stay with them, his parents and brother have a CHOICE, they could kick him out, and they should for their own safety, health, and sanity: Andy is an adult, he is not severely developmentally disabled ( hes not DD at all) , its perfectly legal to have him leave and have him banned ( restraining order) from coming back: the fact his family keeps putting up with his shit, literally and figuratively is beyond me. his family are miserable and broken; they are passive-aggressive; so while they are unhappy, they hate their situation, but yet they wont take any steps to get out o the situation they have put themselves in by keeping a , yes, dangerous person, like Andy around! he constantly screams '' you're 'buuzin' meeee'' but he is the only one doing abuse. he physically abuses his family, he manipulates, he gaslights, he blackmails people. these are all forms of abuse. he should be locked up for all the abuse and mistreatment of his family which they are legit disabled and less able to defend themselves. -- ( however i do love the brother Joe with his creative and effective ways to annoy and run off his annoying POS of a brother whos name is Andy ditch by playing the trumpet ) :-)
Neuroplasticity is not only possible but is extremely effective. Andy’s just a prick surrounded by enablers.
i think the biggest thing is his parents have been gas-lighted and railroaded by him they are beaten and they are empty shells as their spirits are broken. the thing is i used feel bad for his family on one level; because they do not deserve to be treated like that. HOWEVER, they CHOOSE to let him stay with them, his parents and brother have a CHOICE, they could kick him out, and they should for their own safety, health, and sanity: Andy is an adult, he is not severely developmentally disabled ( hes not DD at all) , its perfectly legal to have him leave and have him banned ( restraining order) from coming back: the fact his family keeps putting up with his shit, literally and figuratively is beyond me. his family are miserable and broken; they are passive-aggressive; so while they are unhappy, they hate their situation, but yet they wont take any steps to get out o the situation they have put themselves in by keeping a , yes, dangerous person, like Andy around! he constantly screams '' you're 'buuzin' meeee'' but he is the only one doing abuse. he physically abuses his family, he manipulates, he gaslights, he blackmails people. these are all forms of abuse. he should be locked up for all the abuse and mistreatment of his family which they are legit disabled and less able to defend themselves. -- ( however i do love the brother Joe with his creative and effective ways to annoy and run off his annoying POS of a brother whos name is Andy ditch by playing the trumpet ) :-)
i saw that as well, and i would not be surprised in the least if he was not brain damaged and even that was just a ruse to try and use so he could make excuses and say he was/is ''disabled'' i mean he was a pretty major ass and attention-seeker before the '' brain damage'' - but - he was at least a functional contributing member of society, AND, after the so called accident, he was still functional, until he decided to use the accident as an excuse and he seemed to be like:
it definitely comes from a place of malice, you can hear it in his videos, he wants to hurt others, hes literally a demon. as for the accident, hes got photos from it, and it was pretty horrible, but still..he was doing all of this before he even had the accident, hes just a sick piece of shit.
Again, his father has confirmed that he went to Andrew when the accident happened and saw him on the street. The photos are on the OP and if I'm not mistaken the audio of his father describing it is also in the op. The brain damage theory comes from his parents.
oh i dont even pity his family because they choose to keep putting up with him as long as they did, they had the choice to better their situation. i would have kicked him out long ago. im not a fan of booting out your own kids but there are extreme or major situations when it is the only option. someone in the family that is abusing others, whether it be siblings, parents or pets, they need to be put out in order to protect yourselves and others in the household.
oh eew, that makes him 5 times more horrifying and creepy.