🍗 Deathfat Amberlynn Reid - 600 pound pathological liar and U-Haul lesbian moving in with her next live-in maid/nurse/girlfriend.

[Ambaby]

I've always gotten the vibes that AL has a phobia about men, probably stemming from past trauma that has gone untreated for 20+ years. When she talks about being a lesbian the only thing she'll say to explain away not wanting a man is that "their penises freak her out". Not that she loooooves women, or various parts of women. She has absolutely no enthusiasm from women besides them being a safe comfort zone for her.

I think if she had been traumatized, Victimlynn would have told us about it by now. Other than the alleged name calling and fat-shaming from her brother and dad, I haven't heard of any trauma.

I think we've pretty much ascertained that, early on, AL (who dated guys until Cassidy) knew that disadvantaged females (young/spergy/low self-esteem) were going to be her targets to manipulate to "take her in" once she aged out of the foster care system.

 

[Long time lurker]

Honest question and if you guys think this will start a shitshow, just tell me to go fuck myself.

Why do some many here think Amber has a better chance at manipulating a woman than a man?

 

[EatAssEveryDayTwice]

Honest question and if you guys think this will start a shitshow, just tell me to go fuck myself.

Why do some many here think Amber has a better chance at manipulating a woman than a man?

Interestingly I was discussing this with my other half yesterday. I posed the argument that maybe its because men generally want physical fulfillment (ie sex) more-so than women? Aside from Destiny, none of Ambers past relationship have been particularly physical or intimate that we can tell. I'm not a lesbo so I can't exactly give a more compelling argument than that, I mean its not a compelling argument but its the best I can come up with :autism:

 

[Whatthefuck]

Interestingly I was discussing this with my other half yesterday. I posed the argument that maybe its because men generally want physical fulfillment (ie sex) more-so than women? Aside from Destiny, none of Ambers past relationship have been particularly physical or intimate that we can tell. I'm not a lesbo so I can't exactly give a more compelling argument than that, I mean its not a compelling argument but its the best I can come up with :autism:

I think that's definitely part of it. I'd add that men are more visually stimulated so, well, there's that. I think that the lesbian pool is so shallow in KY that she lucked into Becky. I also think that sex really isn't what determines her manipulation so much as the intelligence and self esteem of her current "victim". Kasey seems pretty intelligent and he was very young when they were together, but the rest of them seem to be either slightly sped or lacking in confidence to begin with. I think if she picked a male "victim" as long as he was either of those, she'd probably get away with it, but it'd require a man so lacking in confidence that he doesn't care what he's with hence those feeders on My 600lb Life.

 

[Wilford Brimley]

Honest question and if you guys think this will start a shitshow, just tell me to go fuck myself.

Why do some many here think Amber has a better chance at manipulating a woman than a man?

That's interesting. Hmmm.. I don't think she'd try her shit on a woman who had it together. I think she only picks people who she perceives as weaker. It's not hard to spot Becky's self confidence issues. You only prey on the weak. Or with people that she has total control of the narrative with. In my humble opinion.

 

[DaintyGorl]

Honest question and if you guys think this will start a shitshow, just tell me to go fuck myself.

Why do some many here think Amber has a better chance at manipulating a woman than a man?

Maybe it's because Amber herself believes it? I dunno. It's just every time dating, sleeping or anything of the sort with a guy is mentioned she's very insistent that she wouldn't and that leads me to believe that she knows she can't. It's known she's dated guys before Kasey meaning they'd be with her during her foster care life and maybe it failed then? It could explain why AL apparently freaked when Kasey tried to tell her that he was trans; she couldn't handle there being a possibility that her power could be threatened? Plus after the luck with Page (the four-letter name Kasey mentions in the response to the rape claims video; I don't know if that person was ever identified) and Krystle maybe she just knew she has better luck with women?

Maybe it's part of the reason, you know beyond her being a cesspool of trouble, she and Rickie have issues? Maybe she tried to manipulate him and it failed? Idk, it'd make sense though.

Of course I could be reading too much into it and that AL just knows how to identify the weaker ones.

 

[angelicbitch]

Why do some many here think Amber has a better chance at manipulating a woman than a man?

Because Amber doesn't go for men since she knows she'll never be able to please one (sexually) - she wasn't able to please (emotionally) the men in her childhood.
Men have more testosterone in their systems, which = a higher libido.
Amber wouldn't be able to keep him. Not a matter of who's easier to manipulate, more like who's easier to satisfy. (Ofc, like my other post mentioned, she goes for the naive ones/speds/ones w low self esteem, but this is another facet of why).

Whoever got banned the other day was bitching on twitter yesterday too about how they got threadbanned from here so wouldnt doubt them making multiple accounts just to implode and act :autism: when they dont get asspats for their opinions. So dramatic

Edit: Is this is?

Yeah, totally not because you were an :autism: fuck that got triggered over ratings...

 

[Botched Tit Job]

I do think women are easier targets. With mothering instincts and all that, they're far more likely to want to take care of her than a man would. I can see Becky taking care of a bedridden amberlynn. A man? No, not unless it was a very exceptional man.

Yeah, totally not because you were an :autism: fuck that got triggered over ratings...

They're like those people on Reddit who go on a rant when they get down voted. Jfc.

 

[SweetDee]

I'd like to see Amber snag someone who she thought was weak, but turns the tables and refuses to take her shit or enable her. She'd lose her mind.

 

[Long time lurker]

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Yeah, totally not because you were an :autism: fuck that got triggered over ratings...

This is...so sad and pathetic. Bitch comes in here thinking she's going to be the Queen Bee, shits all over the place, gets her ass handed back to her and then goes hide and cry on Twitter about all the tea we'll be missing.
Still behaving like a little child, I see. "I'm gonna run away and then you'll be sorry" was something I heard my sibling tell my parents a lot. When they were 7 yo.

On another note, thanks to everybody who has answered my question so far. Some very interesting points were raised.

I'd like to see Amber snag someone who she thought was weak, but turns the tables and refuses to take her shit or enable her. She'd lose her mind.

At first I had hopes that someone would be Becky.

 

[foodbeautypastashrimps]

Honest question and if you guys think this will start a shitshow, just tell me to go fuck myself.

Why do some many here think Amber has a better chance at manipulating a woman than a man?

Idk. Personally I don’t think it’s a “woman” she has a better chance of manipulating. I just think she can manipulate better because it’s a lgbt relationship. Like - I would feel the same if it was two men. Because Kentucky LGBT dating is a nightmare. And when you’re gay - and you find somebody else to be gay with - especially in rural Kentucky you don’t really want to give that up. What lesbian wants to start lesbian dating in rural Kentucky. But I respect that we disagree on that. Just me 2 cents.

 

[SweetDee]

For anyone who signs up to only post in one thread or subforum:

Kiwifarms is huge. Read some threads that aren't about Amberlynn before you post for the first time. Thank you.

It's true. The rabbit hole goes deep.

At first I had hopes that someone would be Becky.

Nah. She has scared eyes.

 

[DaintyGorl]

Idk. Personally I don’t think it’s a “woman” she has a better chance of manipulating. I just think she can manipulate better because it’s a lgbt relationship. Like - I would feel the same if it was two men. Because Kentucky LGBT dating is a nightmare. And when you’re gay - and you find somebody else to be gay with - especially in rural Kentucky you don’t really want to give that up. What lesbian wants to start lesbian dating in rural Kentucky. But I respect that we disagree on that. Just me 2 cents.

Oh that's interesting. As someone not from the US I don't know what all the dating scenes are like in all areas of her relationships but maybe that's another role in it? She just chooses people who she know will latch onto her?

 

[foodbeautypastashrimps]

Question: can somebody elaborate theories on why Amber, Becky, and Eric all seem to get along - but ricki avoids Amber like the plague. I’ve been watching for awhile. But mostly Becky era if I’m being honest. And it just seems like Ricki has NOTHING to do with Amber. And honestly, doesn’t have much to do with Becky either. He is he just that obessed with Eric? Despite them all living together - which I know doesn’t mean you have to be friends - it just seems like Ricky and Amber never, ever, cross circles. Even tho the other 3 occasionally do. I can’t even remember Amber ever saying Ricky’s name or anything.

 

[SweetDee]

Question: can somebody elaborate theories on why Amber, Becky, and Eric all seem to get along - but ricki avoids Amber like the plague. I’ve been watching for awhile. But mostly Becky era if I’m being honest. And it just seems like Ricki has NOTHING to do with Amber. And honestly, doesn’t have much to do with Becky either. He is he just that obessed with Eric? Despite them all living together - which I know doesn’t mean you have to be friends - it just seems like Ricky and Amber never, ever, cross circles. Even tho the other 3 occasionally do. I can’t even remember Amber ever saying Ricky’s bane or anything.

Ricky has a job and keeps normal hours.

 

[DaintyGorl]

Question: can somebody elaborate theories on why Amber, Becky, and Eric all seem to get along - but ricki avoids Amber like the plague. I’ve been watching for awhile. But mostly Becky era if I’m being honest. And it just seems like Ricki has NOTHING to do with Amber. And honestly, doesn’t have much to do with Becky either. He is he just that obessed with Eric? Despite them all living together - which I know doesn’t mean you have to be friends - it just seems like Ricky and Amber never, ever, cross circles. Even tho the other 3 occasionally do. I can’t even remember Amber ever saying Ricky’s name or anything.

I mean, I feel for him - he lives with three people free-loading off of him (cut and dry they have to be at least somewhat) who spend all their day colouring in and playing board games whilst he's working. Since he's familiar with Eric and Becky I'm sure he can find a way to look beyond it but our big gorl hasn't really given him a reason to like him, lezbereal.

 

[Strong Tomato]

Question: can somebody elaborate theories on why Amber, Becky, and Eric all seem to get along - but ricki avoids Amber like the plague. I’ve been watching for awhile. But mostly Becky era if I’m being honest. And it just seems like Ricki has NOTHING to do with Amber. And honestly, doesn’t have much to do with Becky either. He is he just that obessed with Eric? Despite them all living together - which I know doesn’t mean you have to be friends - it just seems like Ricky and Amber never, ever, cross circles. Even tho the other 3 occasionally do. I can’t even remember Amber ever saying Ricky’s name or anything.

Likely because he has a job, as mentioned above. He may also be one of the only people in her life who tries to avoid being in her vlogs or anything with her online presence because you know, when you're involved with her you're gonna have shit talked about you. Some people seem to think Ricky is some poor unfortunate soul in all of this, but I don't buy it. The whole "Poor Ricky" thing drives me absolutely nuts. I'd like to assume he's probably just as shitty as all of them deep down, the only redeeming quality he has in my eyes is that he has a job. Maybe he makes enough so he doesn't care if Eric doesn't work, lots of couples do things like that. Amber obviously doesn't bother him, or anyone else in that house enough for them to do something about it.

I know I kind of just ranted about something that isn't really on topic with what you asked but meh.

 

[carolburnett]

Because Amber doesn't go for men since she knows she'll never be able to please one (sexually) - she wasn't able to please (emotionally) the men in her childhood.

She wasn't able to emotionally please her mother either in childhood. I don't think that is the driving force here. And sure testosterone does lead to a higher libido but young women have about 10x the amount in youth that they do later in life. And while we like to think dudes are ready all the time about 1 in 5 of them have sex drive issues (which can be physical or pyschological). Lesbian relationships also have a thing called "nesting" and it's not because they usually move in together immediately (although that happens often enough) but because they legit lounge in bed as much as they can and keep fucking for like a good 2 weeks when they first get together at least. People depending on who they are have varying levels of sexual desire and drive and how often they need it to be fulfilled in a relationship. Social expectations shape more so the narratives about that than the reality.

And sexuality is fluid, I have known plenty of lesbians who were just as likely to have dated men earlier in their life as those who only dated women. So the whole, she dated dudes before doesn't prove anything that some have been arguing for me.

There are plenty of emotionally malleable men out there who can be drawn into emotionally abusive relationships or plenty of fatties that shack up or just feeder fetish people that would date Amber. If it was a fat dude he'd probably have Amber's low level of sexual interest likely to due to either physical complications or because of body image ones. If Amber were into dudes she would probably be dating a boring fat man that's not much unlike Becky emotionally - just another sap that is desperate to not be alone and wants to dump a bunch of love and care in the black pit that is Amber's emotional state to feel needed. A ddude that would validate her when she asks "Do you love me?" and drive her for spicy cheetos. Amber doesn't please anyone in a relationship - it would always be about her if it was a man or a woman.

I just never find much merit in trying to prove someone's sexuality because lol it can change nor is there a way to prove it. The only time discussing about someone sexuality turns out funny is when a person is vehemently denying it and then does dumb shit that contradicts it, which Amber hasn't done. Her sexuality is one of the few things she is as consistent about as overeating her calorie consumption and likelihood to buy dumb shit at walmart.

If Amber got a whole new circle of friends and changed her sexuality or lost a bunch of weight and it suddenly changed - yeah that would be funny and worthwhile discussing, but otherwise it's like this total weird totally not provable thing that intermittently comes up that is trying to be an insult about her but like just insults women based on assumptions?

 

[Long time lurker]

Because Kentucky LGBT dating

especially in rural Kentucky

What lesbian wants to start lesbian dating in rural Kentucky

When Amber was 18 she moved from California, if I'm not mistaken, to be with Kasey in Arizona. Then she moved with Kristle in Virginia. From there she went to Florida to be with Destiny. The other girl she was chatting/dating while chatting/dating Kristle and living with Kasey was in California.

 

[Strawberry Swirl]

Let’s not forget the Christmas video where she bought Rickie a load of shit and he was sarcastically commenting about each gift such as the recipe book “This will come in handy when net neutrality falls through”