🍗 Deathfat Amberlynn Reid - 600 pound pathological liar and U-Haul lesbian moving in with her next live-in maid/nurse/girlfriend.

[Rebel Scum]

I sometimes forget about Dusty moving. I thought she is binging to 600elbees because the end is near with Becky... but maybe she is still binging over Destiny (over a year later). Anyone know how much she's gained this year (or atleast how much she's admitted to?)

I wonder what that doctor thinks saying she was healthy at 500elbees. Doesn't she have to go back every few months for a checkup or does the doctor just keep refilling the anti-depressants without seeing her?

According to Amber she's only gained around 40 elbees in 2017/2018. March of last year she weighed 463. My personal guess is 75 to 100 pounds gained in a year, she left 500 pounds in the dust months ago.

 

[89elbees]

I bet her hands and neck have the velvety texture too. She admitted on this last video on how she's been not as "raw" (AL speak for truthful) so I bet you she has at best pre-diabetes. In AL's mind since it's pre means she doesnt have it.

I suspect there are a lot of details that got left out in her retelling of the doctor's visit, but even if there weren't: how much of a difference can a formal diabetes diagnosis really make when you're 500 goddamned pounds? You should've already known you're not healthy when you looked in the mirror the morning while you were getting ready to go to the doctor. Diabetes would just be the (yellow) icing on the cake.

 

[89elbees]

Her face looks HUGE in this pic. I can't believe, even at 500lbs, she's still wearing those cat ears. Cats are sleek and graceful. Amber is giant and lumbering.

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AL is also a nearly 30 year old woman and she's still posting shitty selfies wearing cat ears on her snapchat story. How depressing.

 

[497]

Cute and dainty, that's our gorl.

I still see a frog with the boobs as the 2 eyes.

 

[RanchRanchLover]

I dont think she would ever go on the show because she doesnt want people to see how she really is. She lies too much to cover up her real life. We all know someone at 500 pounds cant take care of themselves properly like she claims. They like to show all the ugliest most depressing parts of being morbidly obese, something amber would never let anyone see. It's sad because at this point going on a show like that is the only thing that will save her life. She cant do it on her own.

Can we start taking bets on when she becomes bed bound? I envision it as her hurting her ankle or foot from falling off a pavement outside Target. Goes to bed to recover and never gets out again.

 

[EH 110]

I sometimes forget about Dusty moving. I thought she is binging to 600elbees because the end is near with Becky... but maybe she is still binging over Destiny (over a year later).

Her binges have nothing to do with her girlfriends. She ate everything in sight years before they came along. She eats because she loves to eat. She's addicted to food the way her parents are/were addicted to drugs.

 

[angelicbitch]

Victimlynn's back at it.

 

[FitBitch]

"As someone with an eating disorder"
"People who have BED like me understand"
"I have an eating disorder"
"It's not me, it's the binge monster"
"I can't help myself, I have an eating disorder! "

But she insists she doesn't need therapy.

 

[666EVE666]

I'm getting convinced she's simply addicted to food and hides behind having an eating disorder to avoid breaking the addiction/uses it as an excuse for her addiction

 

[Bitchy McFucknut]

I still see a frog with the boobs as the 2 eyes.

can. not. unsee.

 

[FitBitch]

I'm getting convinced she's simply addicted to food and hides behind having an eating disorder to avoid breaking the addiction/uses it as an excuse for her addiction

I'm sure she also knows a therapist would hold her accountable for managing her addiction instead of letting her use her self-diagnosis of BED as a crutch.

 

[UW 411]

I'm getting convinced she's simply addicted to food and hides behind having an eating disorder to avoid breaking the addiction/uses it as an excuse for her addiction

I'm sure she also knows a therapist would hold her accountable for managing her addiction instead of letting her use her self-diagnosis of BED as a crutch.

This is why I can't understand her using it as an unbeatable excuse. She's mirroring all the snowflake skellies who refuse to recover on IG and Tumblr; It's not her fault and she deserves SYMPATHY you guise! Her super special eating disorder is worse than anyone else's possibly could be, nobody suffers or has a case as badly as hers...

Like with any eating disorder, there are treatment methods and therapy would be a great start. Nope, super special case over here that is just absolutely treatment resistent even though she's not even tried basic counselling or consulting a nutritional expert.

The nerve on her to assume that people giving her advice have never dealt with eating disorders too - not like they could possibly have a clue what recovery means!

Journeys aren't all up, you guise (unless we're taking body mass...)

It's just not a valid excuse, her ED isn't a scapegoat and she knows what she should be doing to even seem like she's bothering to try. She's even lazy with her lies and excuses and clearly can't be arsed to stick to her own script.

 

[SweetDee]

She just told us why on that whole Twitter rant thing a couple of posts up. She won't get help because it's "super hard". Amber doesn't like to put forth effort. For anything. She even has her own driver to go get her junk food.

 

[UrFavePoet]

Absolutely - it reminds me of treating violent/abusive psychopaths and sociopaths with therapy, it doesn't actually help them quell their urges it simply gives them the language and tools to elusively move through the system whilst maintaining their status quo of mistreatment and other maladaptive/antisocial behaviours.
All the "advice" she receives from followers tends to be on the personal side, with people providing her insight into their own conditions and psyche. She seems to simply bleat our regurgitated anecdotes and DSM-5 criteria for every "condition" she's apparently afflicted with, it's entirely transparent to anyone with a modicum of sense.

EXACTLY. she reeks of Cluster-B. although we roast her for how dumb she seems, her manipulation skills are actually very strong. it has always been clear, and it takes a tremendous amount of effort and energy to do what she is able to do. she isn’t unaware of the severity of her condition. she is either unwilling to, or afraid of, actually making changes. her manipulation is just a maladaptive way of navigating life.

 

[SweetDee]

Are her manipulation skills strong or does she just choose stupid, weak people? Because it's honestly really, really easy to see/understand what she's doing. Don't really understand why everyone thinks she this master manipulator. Sure, she's got some skills, but she's also really fucking dumb. Amber isn't that devious. She tries to be but lacks the mental capacity to be a master con-artist.

 

[UrFavePoet]

Her face looks HUGE in this pic. I can't believe, even at 500lbs, she's still wearing those cat ears. Cats are sleek and graceful. Amber is giant and lumbering.

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GET THIS BITCH A LINT ROLLER AND SOME HEAD & SHOULDERS!

Her hygiene and cleanliness skills are terrible. Even if she loses the weight, she’ll be gross.

 

[smallmilk]

Well, it's not like people around her are any smarter

 

[SweetDee]

You have to give her some credit for her tenuous grasp on human psychology.

No.


Seriously however, I wonder if she does throw her weight around (literally) when she "blacks out" and becomes a binge monster. Maybe Becky IS being abused. Addicts can get MEAN when they're told no.

Well, it's not like people around her are any smarter

Good point.

 

[angelicbitch]

"As someone with an eating disorder"
"People who have BED like me understand"
"I have an eating disorder"
"It's not me, it's the binge monster"
"I can't help myself, I have an eating disorder! "

But she insists she doesn't need therapy.

Yet, people with actual EDs are telling her to get help and stop hiding behind it as an excuse

 

[Long time lurker]

And searching Eric's friends is a desperate attempt to reassure herself that everything is fine.

The first time she said that (when that person forced her to go on YouNow) I was appalled by the statement, but couldn't quite put my finger on what bothered me so much. When you posted this, I mentally went through the process of "going through Eric's friends' list", and I think I figured out what bothers me.

1. The only way Amber could sniff out who the person was would be if she knew - by heart - every single name on Eric's FB. It implies that she checks his FB often enough to knows the ins and outs of it. It also implies that she keeps tabs on whom he friends there.
2. It shows how she sees him - as a possession - and as such, he has no right to privacy.

Where was Becky, Eric, Ricky?

It was almost midnight. They were probably in bed.

Did they post an address too?

Yes, they did.

Doesn't she have to go back every few months for a checkup or does the doctor just keep refilling the anti-depressants without seeing her?

Interesting...I haven't thought about that. You're right, though. Amber would need to go back to refill her prescription.
On a related note, when she was on Welbutrin she couldn't stop talking about it, but she only mentioned the new medication twice (I think) - when the doctor changed to it, and a few days ago when she was showing that the blue water bottle wasn't going to just gather dust in the den.

Nope, super special case over here that is just absolutely treatment resistent

In her defense, NPD is something that many shrinks don't want to deal with, and it's very hard to treat, because a narcissist thinks there is nothing wrong with them - it the rest of the world that causes them problems (sounds familiar?).

I bet some people are wishing they had gotten those Do Nots beforehand.

It isn't our job to tell people how to behave like, well...people.
Those people are arriving here full of anger and thinking they're the meanest mean girl ever without realizing they aren't in their small pond anymore. This is not a touchy-feely community and there are plenty of threads created to mock members of the Farms.

FYI, every single fucking thread on the Farms has a header with hints on how to behave.