Watching this old vlog of Amber it really gives insight in how self-centered and needy AL is, even though this is the Krystal-era ALR that a lot of her detractors see as being the "most genuine, honest and nice."
She talks about being teased because of her weight growing up (newsflash: kids are awful human beings, water is wet) and how she had confidence issues because of it and wanted to be seen as beautiful. Fair enough, that's usually how stuff goes.
But she goes on to say the cornerstone of her relationship is whether or not her girlfriends thought she was the hottest thing on this earth, and the second they stopped telling her that or suggested she'd be prettier if she changed this or that, she would pitch a fit about "not being able to trust anyone." Meanwhile, she does nothing to try and change her appearance and just expects them to see this 400lbs, greasy woman who doesn't brush her hair and douses herself in cheap sprays and think she's the most beautiful thing on the planet.
People who constantly feed off that specific validation drive me up the fucking wall. The truth of the matter is: most of us are fucking ugly. Deal with it. The .0000000005647 of the population who look hot without makeup are fucking
anomalies. They're the 1/1,000,000 with perfect genetics and supermodel proportions are rare, that's why they're in all the fucking magazines.
Have you seen all of those YouTube beauty gurus without makeup on? Half of them look like skeletons. I'm sick of this "I'm not beautiful but I want you to tell me I am while I put no actual effort into my appearance" feminist bullshit movement. Some people are naturally ugly, sorry that hurts your feelings AL.
Accept you're ugly and move on. If all you care about in a relationship is your partner constantly telling you how beautiful you are and giving you shallow validation, no wonder they all fail. Especially since you don't seem to return the validation nearly as much.
