All my friends are gone

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BeetleBug242

Please don't eat me
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18 de Nov, 2020
Last year all my friends graduated and moved away. My life changed. Now I'm living with girlfriend, but something feels off. I don't have friends I can see. Sure we keep in contact, but I don't have anyone close. I guess I'm just feeling lonely. Sorry for the shitty feels I just don't have anywhere to go. (And this is where I cry too, yeah I know I'm a fagy)
 
Do you really think that school friends is a life-long thing? You will be disappointed.

Also, friends are overrated, if you can't be happy by yourself, no one is gonna make you so.
 
But you yourself have no friends.
Maybe. But I'm fine with it. I enjoy my solitude, for the most part. But I'd love to have someone to just BS and get fucked up with. Once this corona shit is taken care of I'll start working on that. Also fucking around on the farms helps.

There are a couple of people at work who I could be friends with. One of them, a black dude. He seems pretty chill. I wonder of he'd be down for a drink. There's this other guy, white guy, he does mma shit and he seems like fun. I really wanna find someone who drinks though, cause otherwise it's no fun.

Man I'd love a chance to fight that guy. I don't have much fighting experience but I can throw a mean punch.
 
I've pretty much replaced my entire group of friends 3 times already, it's not that big of a deal.
People change, you change as well, I wouldn't be able to deal with anybody from my school years these days.
Learn to do something cool so that people want to be your friend and start approaching you, then you can pick and choose.
 
Harsh truth, most of the time your school friends are going to move on with their lives. You guys were friends mostly out of convenience. You went to the same school, maybe had a few common interests and that's all it took. Friendship requires more than that as you get older. I had quite a few friends in high school and I still only keep in contact with one of them. People change as they get older and other priorities start taking precedence over the dude they happened to be friendly with in high school ten or twenty years ago.

Start making friends at work. Get to know some of your girlfriend's friends. Invite them over. You're not going to meet new people and make new friends if you're just sitting around whining about being lonely without putting effort into changing that.
 
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