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Trans employees need more support from their employers
By Paola Peralta

July 12, 2021


It is of great importance in today’s working world that employers rededicate themselves to creating a more inclusive workplace — especially for trangender and nonbinary employees.

Forty-seven percent of transgender employees experienced at least some discriminatory behavior on a daily basis at work — such as being the target of transphobic remarks, being ignored or being pressured to act in “traditionally gendered” ways, according to a 2019 survey conducted by The Harvard Business Review.

Oftentimes, the bulk of the issues begin with employers, according to Dr. Jack Bartel, licensed clinical psychologist with telemedicine platform, Doctor On Demand.

“They’ll say if your driver's license isn't changed [they] don't have to call you by that name,” he says. “Or, the employer ‘liked them better’ the other way so they’re just going to keep going with who they were and not really realizing that it's not their decision to make about those things.”

Some of the largest pain points companies fail to address are policy driven — such as appropriate benefits and resources for all, comprehensive workplace education and not enough transgender and non-binary individuals in positions of leadership. Another issue is the assumption that if there are transgender or nonbinary employees in your workplace, you’ll automatically be able to tell, but this is incorrect according to Bartel.
“Many places of employment assume if they don't know about transgender or non-binary employees, they must not exist in the workplace — this is highly inaccurate as there is no way to ‘look transgender,’” he says.

Bartel was assigned female at birth and began his transition before he began to work in a corporate setting. Bartel says he has experienced both unhealthy and oppressive workplaces, as well as collaborative and supportive environments, which he says made up the bulk of his experience.

“I'm thankful that most people were supportive,” he says. “But I did have some providers in the practice I was in that were very adamant about not using [my correct] name or those pronouns. [They said] that's not who you are, that's not who we know you as and that was a little bit scary at times.”
The landscape for trans employees has changed significantly and continues to change drastically, according to Bartel. One of the largest changes being greater dialogue about transgender individuals, which is now open for discussion in many places of employment.
“Transgender individuals are now being acknowledged as existing versus in the past where there was little or no dialogue,” he says. “There is more and more awareness; but there is still a lot of improvement to be made.”

Dr. Bartel shared a few ways employers can make work spaces safer and more inclusive for their trans employees.

What are some specific things employers can do to better serve trans employees?

Changing resources and policies. A lot of transgender individuals do not use their legal birth name, they prefer another name and a lot of workplace documents don't necessarily have a basis or an area for them to note that. So, often people assume what their name is and they're called by the wrong name and wrong pronouns.

Also, do you have appropriate accommodations in your office locations that offer gender neutral restroom options or changing rooms? And if you don't have the ability to have gender neutral restrooms, do you have products [in gendered restrooms] for everyone? Something that gets missed a lot is that some transgender men have menstrual cycles, so if they're using a men's restroom they may not have access to some products that they may need. Those are just little things that get left out that other people wouldn't think about but that can be really big and important to somebody in the community.

What part of LGBTQ inclusivity often gets overlooked by employers trying to make change?

A lot of companies are doing a really wonderful job, but there's still little pieces that get left out here and there. This concept of inclusivity is really wonderful, we have these diversity, equity and inclusion committees and a lot of major companies are putting [queer] people in charge. But outside of warm bodies to fix meeting [inclusivity] numbers and outside of the non-discrimination statements that you see, we find that a lot of companies aren't truly including these individuals. Just because you're not excluding somebody doesn't mean that you're necessarily including them either. So, do your policies reflect those of the community? Do you have resources available specifically for the needs of that community? It extends outside of just having people on staff who identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender — are you really making sure that their needs are met?

Are there pandemic-specific stressors that employers should also be considering in their return-to-work strategies to better support their LGBTQ staff?

One of the biggest concerns that's come up is people being fearful about navigating coworkers. Maybe they've had difficulties in the past due to lack of support and when you're working remotely or from home it's a little bit easier to avoid people. I have a lot of people that are really fearful and just want to know how to best effectively communicate with people around them who maybe don't have the same level of comfort with the LGBTQ community, or aren't supportive and maybe have said really hurtful things in the past.
Making sure as a company that you really have policies lined up and in place about where you stand on [issues such as] the use of pronouns and using someone's affirmed name. What are you doing outside of just pride month to make sure that you're supportive of [queer employees]? Do you have resources out and available in the office — whether it be brochures, magazines, flags or stickers? Do you have things that show this is who we are and we're supportive of you? Because most LGBTQ employees, they look for those signs and signals.
 
We are more difficult to work with than anybody you've ever hired.
You will need to spend time and money to satisfy us.
You will need to completely change the way your workplace operates in order to make us feel good.
We will not compromise, we have our needs.
We require..... wait, where are you going?
 
I work at a 41% Factory so I will be happy to hire all trans.
 
Companies need to provide the same services the autist’s helicopter moms provided during childhood: play dates, forced friends, insistence that the autist will be just fine and stop screaming if the other kids will just do exactly what the autist wants, always.

I love how “ignoring” is slipped in there in the index of crimes lol. They’ve started adding it to the indoctrination at work too, too many normies just wisely stay silent and avoid all non-business-related interaction. Troons demand companies force employees to *like* the troons, to invite the troons to private gatherings outside of work, to not simply quietly grab your bag and escape with the rest of the actual females to a nice lunch...nope you have to invite the troon so he can experience the gender euphoria of being one of the girls tee hee.
 

There’s a reason for this. No one wants to deal with you and you can’t force people to interact with you. You’re all very weird, awkward, and frankly a huge liability for other employees. Other employees see you as a dangerous ticking time bomb who can destroy their career and they smartly stay the fuck away.

I’ve had the misfortune of working with some trans people while dealing with American companies and it’s the same story every time.

can make work spaces safer and more inclusive for their trans employees.

At the expense of everyone else I’m sure.
 
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Speaking as someone who was a minority most of my professional life by way of my uterus, there was only one- count 'em, one- accommodation that I asked for in all that time, also because of my uterus, and that was a sanitary box in the loo.

All I have to say to these snowflakes is this: suck it up, darlings, and try not to hurt your limp wrist.
 
Speaking as someone who was a minority most of my professional life by way of my uterus, there was only one- count 'em, one- accommodation that I asked for in all that time, also because of my uterus, and that was a sanitary box in the loo.

All I have to say to these snowflakes is this: suck it up, darlings, and try not to hurt your limp wrist.
Mine was asking for smaller safety shoes so I wouldn't trip in a steel factory. Other clothes I just used safety pins and what have you but shoes I couldn't so I asked for none clown shoes.

It's honestly not that hard to understand that you aren't like most of the workers and you're at work, so dealing with it is what you need to do. You are there for your boss to use for their benefit not other way around, that's why you're getting paid. If you are more trouble than you're worth most bosses don't look you for very long.
 
I love how “ignoring” is slipped in there in the index of crimes lol.
It’s no longer just “diversity,” it’s now “diversity and inclusion.” Interact with the troon, socialize with the troon, go to lunch with the troon, be the troon’s friend.

many normies just wisely stay silent and avoid all non-business-related interaction.
My normal co-workers and I have discovered that they do not like being loudly asked what whatever they are blabbering about has to do with work.
 
Interact with the troon, socialize with the troon, go to lunch with the troon, be the troon’s friend.
I don't want to do this with 99% of the people I have ever worked with. Hell I specifically do my absolute best to separate "WORK WORLD" from "REAL LIFE WORLD" and not have people I work with know much about my personal life, what I do in my spare time or details about where I live.
 
Trans, "Hey, you must accommodate my special needs!"

Employer, "The Taliban doesn't hire Trans".

Trans, "They are anti Trans."

Employer, "You are Islam-o-phobic. We don't hire racists!"
 
Stop saying 'LGBTQ inclusivity' when you just mean trannies.
 
How long until we agree, as a collective, that trannies arent worth keeping around? Hopefully its soon but it will require so many of our youth violated and raped to get the message across that these mentally unstable fucks are dangerous, either up front or behind the scenes.

Companies need to provide the same services the autist’s helicopter moms provided during childhood: play dates, forced friends, insistence that the autist will be just fine and stop screaming if the other kids will just do exactly what the autist wants, always.

I love how “ignoring” is slipped in there in the index of crimes lol. They’ve started adding it to the indoctrination at work too, too many normies just wisely stay silent and avoid all non-business-related interaction. Troons demand companies force employees to *like* the troons, to invite the troons to private gatherings outside of work, to not simply quietly grab your bag and escape with the rest of the actual females to a nice lunch...nope you have to invite the troon so he can experience the gender euphoria of being one of the girls tee hee.

Dont want to be a dick but these females probably were all "Yeah, slay queen!" when trannies wanted them rights. Now they lay on the bed they shat on.

Giving a shit what people call you is the peak of 1st World Problems.
Transexuality is mostly on first world countries, both because third world contries rarely tolerate that crap and because they never have it TOO good to the point they want to make up problems.

Third world might be more based than they seem.
 
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