Incels.is (Previously known as /r/incels) - Subreddit's banned, entitled Manchildren whine about why they can't get laid.

[Cryonic Haunted Bullets]

Due to the Halo Effect, women ascribe personality based on looks. Handsome men are considered to have good personalities, and ugly men have bad personalities. Looks = personality.

The Halo Effect doesn't just apply to looks; it applies to any positive quality. We tend to have the intuitive idea in our heads that people can be pegged as objectively "good" or "bad", and that people who are "good" in one aspect must be good in others. For instance; if you're well-groomed, funny, and socially apt, people may overlook the fact that you're unattractive.

That's why no one in 40+ pages has been able to describe "good personalty" to me other than "you don't have one".

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If you're going to list off psychological biases to "own" your opponents, I might as well do the same. This is a classic case of the Streetlight Effect:

A policeman sees a drunk man searching for something under a streetlight and asks what the drunk has lost. He says he lost his keys and they both look under the streetlight together. After a few minutes the policeman asks if he is sure he lost them here, and the drunk replies, no, and that he lost them in the park. The policeman asks why he is searching here, and the drunk replies, "this is where the light is".

There are some qualities that are genuinely difficult to quantify and describe. Attractiveness is not one of these qualities - it's easy to tell at a glance - but personality is. It encompasses a broad range of behaviors, and can only really be gleaned once you've been around a person for an extended period of time. You're like a guy who insists the earth is flat and the sun is directly above it, because, well, that's what my eyes are ostensibly telling me. Everyone else must be lying to me, there must some big collective conspiracy to uphold this social fiction, because nobody wants to defund NASA or replace the globes in their house.

If you want a definition of "personality", this is the best one I can give: personality is behavior indicative of good social adjustment / upbringing. Just as physical attractiveness is a proxy for how good your genes are, personality is a proxy for how good your social upbringing was; how well you can function alongside others, how well you can exist in the same room as others, how long you can go before succumbing to the constant, anxious itch to slink off to your gaming den and dispense more farts into your cum-stained DXRacer. This is important in the context of romantic relationships, because romantic relationships are inherently social. People who are in relationships don't just sit there and admire how hot their SO is. They talk with one another, share thoughts and feelings, give comfort and guidance, make each other laugh. In the long term, it's more like a business partnership than anything else (traditional cultures knew this, I blame Hollywood for convincing people otherwise).

 

[JaneThough]

@Protistology are you ugly? Is that the problem?

I don't believe you are. It's your personality 100%

 

[Ku Klux Fan]

You're just as dumb as this miserable dumbass you're addressing to, except his compass points to "it's all bullshit nothing matters" and your compass points to "toxic positivity".

He needs help and you need to be knocked down a peg or two before you realize just how little in control of your life you really are.

Toxic positivity? What's toxic about saying figure out how to be more comfortable with yourself, become comfortable with failure, and get your shit together? If you consider that to be "toxic," you're fucking weak and hopeless.

Can a plane fly through my roof and kill me at any moment? Sure. I can also have a brain aneurysm at any moment or any number of things. But that's not unique to anybody. The vast majority of people have plenty of control in their own life and denying this is pure defeatism. Get your own house in order, because that's the only way to live a noteworthy life. Relying on other people can only get you so far at best.

I'm speaking in generalities here. "You" can refer to anybody reading this.

E: mobile is trash

 

[In the Sick of It]

I know when I want advice go and post in the thread dedicated to mocking people like me. That's the best way to dispel normie lies, prove to them how pathetic I am, and bathe them in my flowing milk and negrates. I must feed the hungry farmers.

 

[Rabidcolombian]

To argue for the Blackpill.

You want to force everyone else to overdose on Blackpills like you? It’s never goanna happen. I was used to taking the black pill everyday as a teen until I realized how pointless it was to wallow in self pity. Religion and my family helped me through it. Maybe you should go to them instead of getting advice from shitposters on the internet.

I get it though. It’s hard to be positive. It’s hard to find the best in others. It’s hard to always see a silver lining. It’s takes years to change that attitude and way of thinking - so the trouble is you’re either lazy or trying to find more reasons here to finally be brave enough to bite the bullet. Stop fishing the thread for more reasons to kill yourself and GET HELP. Someone in your family has got to care for you. A twice removed nephew or something? Gizmo the Pomeranian? Anyone in real life is better than people on the internet.

 

[Vince McMahon]

I know when I want advice go and post in the thread dedicated to mocking people like me. That's the best way to dispel normie lies, prove to them how pathetic I am, and bathe them in my flowing milk and negrates. I must feed the hungry farmers.

Quite a few incels also have a penchant for humiliation. So maybe he's just one of them and "arguing for the blackpill" gives him plausible deniability.

 

[Vapid_Idiot]

Normies: read books and be interesting
Also normies: huu durr u red and talk about thing

Reading is not about socializing, its about educating yourself and learning more about the world, so you don't latch on to stupid, pointless beliefs. How fucking autistic are you?

 

[Bad Take Crucifier]

Ok, so am I making a genuine effort then?

No? You yourself said you've already given up, and you basically are clearly mentally ill and depressed. You seem to be just existing. However you are making a minimum effort to not literally KYS nor be a menace to society such as the brony shooter and that's good.

I think there's some other problem behind this like your family not loving you, or being horribly bullied in school and your dad never teaching you how to fight for yourself or something. Or perhaps being molested by your scout master, because the last incel in the thread claimed he was molested. Or perhaps you are simply a ham planet that eats sugar all day and thus you're both fat and retarded?

 

[No Exit]

Giving @Protistology attention is a waste of time and does nothing to add to the thread. We should start doing what women do offline and just ignore him.

 

[Fwiffo]

I have a lot of social hobbies. I buy more books than any other purchases. The last book I read was A Garden of Pomegranates by Israel Regardie. I don't care for sports. I walk a lot for exercise.

So when you lost your virginity in High School, you cared nothing for sex or women? Of course not. Please only give advice based on your personal experience, otherwise it's just bullshit.


I did. And on what magic tree will I find a personal trainer for free or cheap? I have a lot of social hobbies. I buy more books than any other purchases. The last book I read was A Garden of Pomegranates by Israel Regardie. I make enough money to live off of and I shouldn't want golddiggers right? I meet people through my hobbies.

So when you lost your virginity in High School, you cared nothing for sex or women? Of course not. Please only give advice based on your personal experience, otherwise it's just bullshit.

I do value myself. The problem is everyone hates me and wants me dead for being a virgin. Once I get a girlfriend the hate will stop.


And yet many people in this thread have mentioned that everyone IRL can tell I'm a virgin and hate me for it silently. I'm sure that most people IRL have the same attitude as the people in this thread.

I’m going to give you honest-to-goodness advice. You seem to be convinced that you’re alone 100 percent because you’re ugly. Ok. You also reject everyone else’s advice that this is very likely not the case. So, why not go straight to the source?

You said that you have many close friends — most likely a lie, but we will proceed anyway — so ask them. Find your closest female friend and ask why you are single. If you don’t have female friends (lol) then ask your closest male friends. If you’re as functional a 34-year-old as you say you are, your friends would absolutely level with you and tell you the truth, even if it’s unpleasant. My friends have occasionally done the same for me, and I feel blessed that someone cared enough to not delude me.

Do this and tell us what they say. Again though, I don’t think you have any friends close enough to level with you like this, for the same reason you’re an incel.

 

[Gone Ham]

What's the next step?

Suicide

 

[Bad Take Crucifier]

I'm going with "Your parents didn't love you" because of you being 34 years old and not knowing what social skills are.

What's the next step?

I am not your mom/dad or your therapist. But get off the Internet.

 

[Protistology]

I'm going with "Your parents didn't love you" because of you being 34 years old and not knowing what social skills are.


I am not your mom/dad or your therapist. But get off the Internet.

When will you normies understand. it's just looks. Serial killers, rapists, and pedophiles have girlfriends and wives. Social skills aren't attractive. Looks are attractive. I had a normal childhood. My parents are very nice people. They're supportable and warm. I had plenty of friends growing up and I was never molested. It really is simple.

Despite having a normal background and being social, women don't like me. Because I'm ugly.

Then stop giving advice.

 

[Bad Take Crucifier]

When will you normies understand. it's just looks. Serial killers, rapists, and pedophiles have girlfriends and wives. Social skills aren't attractive. Looks are attractive. I had a normal childhood. My parents are very nice people. They're supportable and warm. I had plenty of friends growing up and I was never molested. It really is simple.

Despite having a normal background and being social, women don't like me. Because I'm ugly.

Then stop giving advice.

Post selfie

 

[Gone Ham]

Kiwi fashion tips. What clothes do you wear too?

 

[Bad Take Crucifier]

Hurr durr dox yourself faggot

Are you ashamed of what you've posted here, or something?

Anyway even the ugliest and most unattractive of men have gotten laid or married so I'm pretty sure you're just autistic as fuck.

 

[Gone Ham]

Polos and slacks usually. dress shirts for work. T-shirts or plaid if I don't care.

Average fuckboy outfit ok. Hmm. What sizes do you wear

 

[Protistology]

Are you ashamed of what you've posted here, or something?

Anyway even the ugliest and most unattractive of men have gotten laid or married so I'm pretty sure you're just autistic as fuck.
https://youtube.com/watch?v=k4o30y96kv8

That's a scam. He's "had" three girlfirends who looks almost the same and all three have made TV appearances talking about how much they "love" him. He's just a grifter trying to become famous selling heart warming stories.

https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=Squirmy+and+Grubs+exposed

It's heart warming because ugly men usually die alone and everyone knows that. Would you live with him and take care of him?

Average fuckboy outfit ok. Hmm. What sizes do you wear

L. 36/32 pants.

 

[Gone Ham]

That's a scam. He's "had" three girlfirends who looks almost the same and all three have made TV appearances talking about how much they "love" him. He's just a grifter trying to become famous selling heart warming stories.


L. 36/32 pants.

Not a bad size. Little bulky but that’s fine. Dad bods are in rn. When you say you’re ugly, do you say that because you have facial deformities or scaring, or just acne?

 

[Bad Take Crucifier]

Average fuckboy outfit ok. Hmm. What sizes do you wear

What are you talking about, this is the pussy destoyer shirt.

That's a scam. He's "had" three girlfirends who looks almost the same and all three have made TV appearances talking about how much they "love" him. He's just a grifter trying to become famous selling heart warming stories.

It's heart warming because ugly men usually die alone and everyone knows that. Would you live with him and take care of him?

He got laid before you