American woman sparks furious backlash for ‘tone-deaf’ viral thread about moving to Bali - welcome back to America bitch

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An American woman has sparked heated debate on social media after a thread about her move to Bali went viral.
It seems she may have picked the wrong platform to gush about her new home. While her 20-tweet thread may have worked as an Instagram caption about making dreams come true, over on Twitter people had other thoughts.
The woman in question has since locked her account, but here’s a summary of the thread: after spending most of 2019 out of work, she and her girlfriend decided to try out Bali for six months, where she became a self-employed graphic designer and managed to live in a “treehouse” for just $400, compared to a $1,300 LA studio they were in before. They have now been there for a year, and she says that they are living an “elevated lifestyle” and that Bali was “the perfect medicine” for her physical and emotional health.

She lists the benefits of living in Bali as: safety, low cost of living, luxury lifestyle, queer-friendly, and goes on to share her positive experience as a Black woman with the Black community there. To close out, she links to her ebook Our Bali Life is Yours which helps other people to achieve the same dream. It is currently for sale for $30.
The backlash was immediate, with thousands of replies and quote-tweets, many of which were highlighting the impact that relatively wealthy American migrants have on local communities and gentrification.





Some tried to suggest these points were the equivalent to anti-immigration sentiment in the US, but others highlighted that this ignores the reality of the different power dynamics at play.


Her comments about living in luxury were also labelled tone-deaf, given that Indonesia is Southeast Asia’s most populous nation and its largest economy, yet around a quarter of the population lives just above the poverty line, with almost 10 per cent living in poverty.


People who are from Indonesia themselves also highlighted how different life is in the country for those without the writer’s American privilege, and the potential damage of encouraging more Americans to move there.



Others took the opportunity to point out the historical and ongoing violence and oppression which exists in Indonesia, but which she didn’t touch upon at all in her thread.



The Papua Conflict in particular has led to accusations against the Indonesian government of human rights violations including torture, extrajudicial killings and politically motivated arrests.
According to a 2019 report from Amnesty, “the government failed to protect human rights defenders, and restricted the rights to freedom of expression, peaceful assembly and association.”
While Bali is known to be more progressive, especially on LGBTQ+ issues, Indonesian law still discriminates against people for their sexual orientation and fails to protect them from hate crimes and homophobic attacks.
Despite many people branding the thread out-of-touch, there were also many who defended the writer, saying it shouldn’t be the responsibility of a Black queer woman to fix systemic issues affecting the country.




Before locking her account, the user posted one last tweet which seemed to acknowledge the backlash, saying: “The conversations being had here are valid. Though they aren’t the conversations I was having today. They’ve been seen and heard. Just sharing my story with people.”
Meanwhile, “Bali” continues to trend on Twitter as people furiously debate who’s right and who’s wrong in this complex scenario.

 
I was under the impression that she was going to be criticized because we were under lockdown orders due to a global pandemic, but most of these reasons here seem trivial at best.

Also:
Despite many people branding the thread out-of-touch, there were also many who defended the writer, saying it shouldn’t be the responsibility of a Black queer woman to fix systemic issues affecting the country.

Yet when it comes to white people wanting to leave to visit and live in other countries, you blame them for “gentrification”. And meanwhile, you don’t say a thing when Koreans want to leave to their home country to retire there because they don’t recognize the American Dream anymore.
 
You remember how one of the Greek Dictators (they called them “tyrants” then) sent an envoy to another Dictator to ask his advice about the principles of government. The second Dictator led the envoy into a field of grain, and there he snicked off with his cane the top of every stalk that rose an inch or so above the general level. The moral was plain. Allow no preeminence among your subjects. Let no man live who is wiser or better or more famous or even handsomer than the mass. Cut them all down to a level: all slaves, all ciphers, all nobodies. All equals.
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No one need now go through the field with a cane. The little stalks will now of themselves bite the tops off the big ones. The big ones are beginning to bite off their own in their desire to Be Like Stalks. -Screwtape Proposes a Toast
 
Jakarta > Bali.
Fight me.
I went on a visa run to Bali from Thailand as you tend to get grilled by immigration officers if you just fly back straight away plus you might as well stick around for a few weeks, it's over rated as fuck and full of meme """digital nomad""" types.

The locals like them tho, they've setup yoga studios and overpriced (for Bali) juice cafes etc.

I agree Jakarta is much better tbh.
 
The real story is they found a studio in LA for $1300/mo and left. Then again they saw moving to the third world as an improvement so it must have been a dump.
 
Its interesting to see black people be accused of gentrifying for once.
Only because the western world is overwhelmingly black supremacist. The rest of the world tells it like it is. Westerners revere black people to such a degree that they won't even speak up when their neighborhood is burned to the ground. This is not normal elsewhere.

Of course, nearly every country in the world is some kind of supremacist, but to my knowledge the west is the only place where they're racist against their own people.
 
She is a dumb bitch but then again she is living a luxurious lifestyle in bali so who is really winning.
 
I don't know why indy100 is trying to protect her identity. Her name is Kristen Gray, and on her Instagram page she's claiming she was locked out of Twitter, which means she couldn't handle the criticism and deactivated it. Someone who was keeping up with the dumpster fire posted to OutOfTheLoop on Reddit had this to say:
The op posted a thread about her experience moving to bali with her girlfriend, citing that she finally able to have a 'luxury lifestyle' and 'a change of pace' much more cheaper than what she could afford in the US. She then urged others to move to Bali as well in the middle of the freaking pandemic, when Indonesia doesn't even offer work visa to foreigners, citing she can refer you to her agent implying for visa fraud. She also allegedly overstayed their TRAVEL visa by MONTHS. Her girlfriend in separate tweet confirmed that they're not paying any tax to Indonesia.

This angered natives because of gentrification. Foreigners make Bali so much expensive to the locals, even to native Bali people. She's saying Westerners can afford luxury lifestyle for cheap cost in Bali but then ignoring natives who told her that it's in the cost of the natives.

She said that Bali is a LGBTQ friendly place, ignoring the fact that she can say that because of her foreigner privilege, while local LGBTQ community is still underground to avoid judgement and violence.

There's also this 'saviour complex' thing that I can't even start to talk about without being teary.

In the end of her thread, she then promoted her $30 e-book about her journey to find peace in Bali or something in that topic.

She now locks her accounts because of the critism.

The issue then got so much bigger because some part of Black community then accused Indonesians for 'attacking her because she's black' when the critism never even brought up her race or skin colour. So it's more on that than the initial issue. (edit edit edit: there are also part of Black community who also criticize her, as pointed by the other redditor. My mistake on that, I apologize).

I spotted another thread with Indonesians weighing in, and they were willing to call a spade a spade. I put a few comments in Google translate:
By the way, when I read a few threads on Twitter, this American really likes to talk about all things with the same issues as race and color, even though it is clear that the problem lies in the economic class of society.
Hopefully we Indonesians get a racial pass because we are tan and Asian.
Indonesian netizens gossip with inappropriate words even though we are the right party and we don't need to get out of the mouths of racial things, as if it doesn't matter if criticism doesn't come out with racial slurries, a xenophobic spirit comes out, "diversity is single if" but the focus is on "singular" which tends to lean to oneself, emerges Indonesia's divisive nature Expat netizens are actually unhappy about social problems between ethnic groups, even though they are privileged as fuck & rich according to Indonesian standards and are free from the social problems here, playing the victim even though their behavior is like the colonizers they usually denounce, the soul of a colonizer comes out, just realizing that being a colonizer is delicious , don't bother with local people, the important thing is that you are happy, talk about social issues so you can do it but don't want to participate in developing social equality & equity

What is it with retards in LA thinking that the only way to live affordably is to leave the country? Have they ever tried not living in LA, maybe just go to another city or state? I guess that isn't bougie enough for them.
 
I don't know why indy100 is trying to protect her identity. Her name is Kristen Gray, and on her Instagram page she's claiming she was locked out of Twitter, which means she couldn't handle the criticism and deactivated it. Someone who was keeping up with the dumpster fire posted to OutOfTheLoop on Reddit had this to say:


I spotted another thread with Indonesians weighing in, and they were willing to call a spade a spade. I put a few comments in Google translate:




What is it with retards in LA thinking that the only way to live affordably is to leave the country? Have they ever tried not living in LA, maybe just go to another city or state? I guess that isn't bougie enough for them.

Hey dear leader left USA and its working for him
 
I don't know why indy100 is trying to protect her identity. Her name is Kristen Gray, and on her Instagram page she's claiming she was locked out of Twitter, which means she couldn't handle the criticism and deactivated it. Someone who was keeping up with the dumpster fire posted to OutOfTheLoop on Reddit had this to say:


I spotted another thread with Indonesians weighing in, and they were willing to call a spade a spade. I put a few comments in Google translate:




What is it with retards in LA thinking that the only way to live affordably is to leave the country? Have they ever tried not living in LA, maybe just go to another city or state? I guess that isn't bougie enough for them.
People in California are very used to an expensive, urban lifestyle with amenities being abundant and easily accessible. Given the friction between people from Cali and nearly all states West of the Mississippi river, finding another place to live where they'd fit in seems daunting.

Given how this chick was out of work for six months and still had enough money to move to another country, get a graphic designer job and post up, odds are her parents paid for her living expenses in L.A., or she had a good enough job to afford it all.

This woman is the definition of privileged L.A socialite. And if you're not that exact type of person you don't like them by default.
 
Kind of amazed a black woman is actually getting chewed out for anything. Generally black women are considered flawless and any criticism of one (however valid) is considered racism by the woke crowd. Even privileged rich brats like this chick clearly is.

Seriously, most white Americans can't afford to live in LA or move to another country. This chick has no room to bitch about being oppressed.
 
What a spoiled little bitch.
I, like Android Raptor am very surprised she got called out at all. It's refreshing, but God knows there are some braindead morons who are still going to screech that "she isn't white, so she's oppressed" and that "she isn't white, forgive her"
 
Bali sounds like it used to be pretty nice back before Instagram tourism took off but I've heard pretty much nothing good about it recently. It's full of "digital nomads", drunk and belligerent Aussie weekenders, the cities are dirty, scammers and touts everywhere, and everything is horribly overpriced for what you get.

What is it with retards in LA thinking that the only way to live affordably is to leave the country? Have they ever tried not living in LA, maybe just go to another city or state? I guess that isn't bougie enough for them.
Too late. AZ, NV, OR and WA are already fully Californicated, and now the vultures are descending on TX, ID and MT.
 
Kind of amazed a black woman is actually getting chewed out for anything.
that's because this isn't in the woke west

it is amazing how the people who complain about whitewashing and gentrification and colonization
are SHOCKED that not everything is just like cozy white-ville and will scream to demand that it be made so
 
Too late. AZ, NV, OR and WA are already fully Californicated, and now the vultures are descending on TX, ID and MT.
I heard about the infestation in Texas back when it was first festering. I figured if Californians ever actually moved they'd just complain about rednecks or too many white people or whatever and then go back to their own luxury hell hole. Send them back.
 
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