this isn’t ok - 11/27/20

[Situation Type Deal Gorl]

Amber...just shut up...OK...really, just shut the fuck up.

Eh, she can't, since she's a narc, but I think the time she stops talking is the time she stops living her pathetic, fatass life. She'll probably be screaming for Becky from her bed, and then just keel over dead.

NGL - am disappointed Amberlynn couldn't get Becky to sit and mean-mug the camera in the background while she filmed this load of bollocks. Mean-mugging Becky is best Becky after all.

Like all bullies, wannabe (like her) or not, she's a coward.

I know this may be off-topic, but I think that woman was done wrong. If I am misreading the situation, or if I am missing any FACTS, please feel free to set me straight.

I thought it was fascinating.

 

[The Queen of Autists]

I 100% believe the fags were/are being paid off to keep their mouths shut. There is no doubt in my mind.

Maybe the Williams family lawyer wrote up a non disclosure agreement with a hefty price tag. Thank God for black Betty Ann doran oh black Becky Ann doran ho.

I think Norma might not have sent those things to be revealed later, maybe she she just confided and shared them with her friend. And the friend is AWESOME! I think it was cause Amber was being two faced by going on the vacation but not attending the funeral. Ann needed to shout it out to the rooftops: fuck this selfish evil pig! Good for Ann!

Sometimes people with a gas lighting abuser don't realize the abuser really doesn't care about them until after a long break away process. It happened to me, I was sure the person tearing up my life was the love of my life and when my mom said he's just using you for entertainment I didn't want to hear but later I started getting more clues from other people. These narcissists create an alternate reality for their object of use and abuse. Not to power level, just wanted to say, Becky is probably so deep into it and brainwashed by Amber that she only sees the world through ambers eyes. These people enmesh themselves with the weak giving victims and slowly change everything around in their mind. I don't know if they do it on purpose, I always wanted to think it was subconscious of them, but I've been coming out of denial and realizing there really are people on this earth that think just that way! And they are sharks and I am chum. Becky will probably end up with another abuser if she doesn't get counseling and help for her Mentals. Now that I see who amber really is I wish I could take back my early ambaby energy sent out to support her, she is NOT a girl just like me, she is the dark triad.

 

[Red Mask]

Amber does not deserve to be called Dark Triad. Dark Triad is too cool a term for most people to use and I hate seeing it used in psychology, tbh.

 

[PotatoSalad4711]

Okay, I am not an expert on the Norma/Becky/BigAl relationship,

Maybe I missed something, but I have seen many places where Norma was excoriated as a homophobic bitch who kicked her daughter out of the house for being gay. I wonder if that wasn’t a gross misrepresentation of what actually happened, given the fact that Big AL blames all her misfortunes on the fact that she is fat. Why not be ready to whip out the “Norma kicked out Becky because she’s gay” card as well?

Although I never saw anywhere where she got a chance to defend herself, I saw plenty of people take someone else’s word for it, so I just wanted to present it from the point of view of a mother who most likely grew up in a different time with different social mores. Things have been changing for years, but most parents would have to have a difficult period of adjustment to finding out their child was gay. I don’t know what kind of a Christian she was either, but most Christian parents would have a doubly hard time of it.

And to add to the initial shake-up, imagine her showing up with Amberlynn Reid. I have a son, and I can assure you, if he showed up with a 600-pound girl, I would definitely have to have some time to process.

How do we know it wasn’t, “I’m sorry, but you cannot bring that woman to live with us”? And then Becky said “either that or I am leaving” or something along those lines. How do we know it had anything at all to do with Becky’s sexual preference? There are so many scenarios that COULD have happened, but only they know the truth, and we all know AMBERLYNN LIES.

We do know that Norma put forth effort to be involved in Becky’s life after the “kicking out.” She didn’t “disown” Becky, rather she invited Amberlynn, as well as Eric and Ricky, into her home in an obvious attempt to stay in Becky’s good graces. We don’t know how all that unfolded, how many times there were disagreements, misunderstandings, etc. I think that Big Al did all she could to drive a wedge between Becky and her family, for whatever reason. What we DO know is that, at the end of her life—as sick and frightened as she must have been already—she was terrified of losing her daughter. This fear could have been alleviated by the Gruesome Twosome, but evidently the drama was more important to them than helping Norma die with some sort of peace of mind. And that is unforgivable.

I know this may be off-topic, but I think that woman was done wrong. If I am misreading the situation, or if I am missing any FACTS, please feel free to set me straight.

So I re-read @FrazzleCakes post (it can be found here:
Thread 'How I entered the Amberland universe... the backstory'
https://kiwifarms.net/threads/how-i-entered-the-amberland-universe-the-backstory.61147/ ). Becky was long gone from Norma’s trailer by the time she hooked up with Amber, but more importantly, Norma and Jerry kicked out his daughter for being gay too. It wouldn’t be a stretch to say Eric and Ricky didn’t want someone like Norma around.

I’m not defending anyone here, they’re all cunts in different ways.

My opinion: I don't think I really care one way or the other. I've seen rural bullshit soap opera crap in the South before and this is just like that, albeit with the addition of fuckingover your neighbors via the internet.

100% this.

 

[Cosmologic]

I 100% believe the fags were/are being paid off to keep their mouths shut. There is no doubt in my mind.

this is what i'm thinking, which is a shame because one thing i really wanted out of the end of their living situation this year was a "tea spill" video where they dished on what living with amber was really like. that was obviously just a pipe dream on my end, though. if she DID pay them off it must have been a fuckload.

i'm shocked that eric didn't pull a rafe. ricky never seemed to really like amber that much or involve himself in a lot of her bs, but eric was present for so much drama and has been known to be a shit stirrer. you'd think he would try to expose her just for the attention, regardless of how much she paid them.

 

[Turd Fergusson]

Maybe the Williams family lawyer wrote up a non disclosure agreement with a hefty price tag. Thank God for black Betty Ann doran oh black Becky Ann doran ho.

Williams family lawyer? I sounds like the Williams family are captains of industry. I do not think that they have any lawyer representing them. People who have lawyers representing them do not go around threatening to sue people.

 

[Situation Type Deal Gorl]

Maybe the Williams family lawyer wrote up a non disclosure agreement with a hefty price tag. Thank God for black Betty Ann doran oh black Becky Ann doran ho.

The Williams family "lawyer". FTFY, LOL

I think Norma might not have sent those things to be revealed later, maybe she she just confided and shared them with her friend. And the friend is AWESOME! I think it was cause Amber was being two faced by going on the vacation but not attending the funeral. Ann needed to shout it out to the rooftops: fuck this selfish evil pig! Good for Ann!

Wait a damn minute: Big Al not only didn't go to the headstone pickin' fest but ALSO didn't go to the funeral? Way to support your supposed gf, Big Al. Could you be more of a bitch? JFC, if you're going to get all teary eyed and rattle on about how you and Norma had a great relationship, haydurs, and then Becky is going to supposedly chime in with Norma and Big Al making up long before she died, it's rather cuntish to not attend the damn funeral. Even the most cracked out holler residents attend funerals and bring shitty casseroles to the house of mourning, goddamn.

 

[DefCon Dumb]

I hate being fair, really hate it sometimes but the funeral happened not very long after Amber's surgery & medically speaking, it would have been a really bad move. Too long in the car & unable to shift her position enough to protect her incision & the funeral itself would have been just as bad.

 

[L. Ron Hubbard's Cat]

The Williams family "lawyer". FTFY, LOL



Wait a damn minute: Big Al not only didn't go to the headstone pickin' fest but ALSO didn't go to the funeral? Way to support your supposed gf, Big Al. Could you be more of a bitch? JFC, if you're going to get all teary eyed and rattle on about how you and Norma had a great relationship, haydurs, and then Becky is going to supposedly chime in with Norma and Big Al making up long before she died, it's rather cuntish to not attend the damn funeral. Even the most cracked out holler residents attend funerals and bring shitty casseroles to the house of mourning, goddamn.

And if she didn't go to the funeral (or pick out the headstone or attend the family tattooing thing) then it really calls into question how close she was to Norma and what kind of terms she's on with the surviving family. Either she didn't care enough to go or someone told her she wasn't welcome.

She did manage to go eat out at the memorial a year later though, and have a nice little vacation. Of course. Time heals all wounds, I guess. Time and Cracker Barrel.

There is just no way this looks good for her.

Edit: @DefCon Dumb made a good point. Still.

 

[Cosmologic]

I hate being fair, really hate it sometimes but the funeral happened not very long after Amber's surgery & medically speaking, it would have been a really bad move. Too long in the car & unable to shift her position enough to protect her incision & the funeral itself would have been just as bad.

yeah, this is why i’m not really in agreement with people calling her heartless because she didn’t attend. personally there isn’t a single person i’d be willing to risk a broken uterine stitch for by attending their funeral

 

[Turd Fergusson]

yeah, this is why i’m not really in agreement with people calling her heartless because she didn’t attend. personally there isn’t a single person i’d be willing to risk a broken uterine stitch for by attending their funeral

It is true that she was not in great physical shape to attend the funeral, but she went with Becky to chose a headstone but stayed in the car. This does not sound like someone who has a great relationship with the Williams family.

 

[EvaBraunsGhost]

It is true that she was not in great physical shape to attend the funeral, but she went with Becky to chose a headstone but stayed in the car. This does not sound like someone who has a great relationship with the Williams family.

It's not like she can use the 'medical advice' excuse either; I'm pretty sure she was told to drop pounds before surgery to make it less risky, and drop pounds after so she could be properly assessed and graded - certainly didn't stop her pounding down the takeaways straight after did it?

End of the day, it was going to be uncomfortable for her physically and/or mentally and we know Amber just won't countenance that, whatsoever, unless of course it involves a shit-ton of her drug of choice

 

[Peachtea18]

I wonder if Norma knew about Amber's cancer diagnosis before she died. I'm sure that would've been some sweet poetic justice for her.

 

[497]

I wonder if Norma knew about Amber's cancer diagnosis before she died. I'm sure that would've been some sweet poetic justice for her.

She probably did. Becky had to go back and forth between Amber during her surgery and her dying mother (even though AL had her mom stay longer to help wipe her ass)

 

[Tramadol nights]

I hate being fair, really hate it sometimes but the funeral happened not very long after Amber's surgery & medically speaking, it would have been a really bad move. Too long in the car & unable to shift her position enough to protect her incision & the funeral itself would have been just as bad.

yeah, this is why i’m not really in agreement with people calling her heartless because she didn’t attend. personally there isn’t a single person i’d be willing to risk a broken uterine stitch for by attending their funeral

It's not like she can use the 'medical advice' excuse either; I'm pretty sure she was told to drop pounds before surgery to make it less risky, and drop pounds after so she could be properly assessed and graded - certainly didn't stop her pounding down the takeaways straight after did it?

End of the day, it was going to be uncomfortable for her physically and/or mentally and we know Amber just won't countenance that, whatsoever, unless of course it involves a shit-ton of her drug of choice

she managed the long drive home with no problems. I'm sure she would have went to the funeral if the cheesecake factory was around the corner.

 

[Clogged Arteries]

I hate being fair, really hate it sometimes but the funeral happened not very long after Amber's surgery & medically speaking, it would have been a really bad move. Too long in the car & unable to shift her position enough to protect her incision & the funeral itself would have been just as bad.

It pains me as well but you’re right. I’ll give her that one.

 

[Ass Dan]

This is why Big Al is the quintessential cow - she always "claps back" at haydurs, in an attempt to DARVO, but it only ever serves to provide more milk. And as far as bitch-boy to a fat narc being Necky's Dream Job, let's be real - it's nobody's dream job, but it's the only job Necky's qualified for at this point. Can't wait to see what that batshit old whore Ann Doran has in store next.

 

[Thumb Butler]

I 100% believe the fags were/are being paid off to keep their mouths shut. There is no doubt in my mind.

Perhaps Amber simply gifted them loads of "limited edition" scented candles? No paper trail to follow there. Clever gorl.

 

[StrawberryDouche]

she managed the long drive home with no problems.

The hospital she had surgery in is a few short miles and minutes from her apartment. Becky's mother lived and died 90 miles away.

 

[Situation Type Deal Gorl]

I hate being fair, really hate it sometimes but the funeral happened not very long after Amber's surgery & medically speaking, it would have been a really bad move. Too long in the car & unable to shift her position enough to protect her incision & the funeral itself would have been just as bad.

Hmmm. Fine, I'll give her half a point, but everything else still stands. That bitch doesn't do shit to support her servant.

She did manage to go eat out at the memorial a year later though, and have a nice little vacation. Of course. Time heals all wounds, I guess. Time and Cracker Barrel.

Time and CF, Panda Express, the buffette, Mickey D's, etc., etc.