I don't know what to say 06/04/20 - "not at the beginning stage"

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The cancer is not going to kill her, she needs surgery even if it was pre cancerous from thickened lining she will need a total or partial hyst with or without cervix removal, my guess is she has cervical inflammation due to her hormones being incredibly off balance, and not to mention she stinks down there which is another sign of her cervix being trashed.
People need to understand and come out of the 60's way of thinking cancer is not a death sentence.
She is over 500 pounds and stand 5'3". She is in a very small percentile of people who need this kind of invasive surgery. Her recovery and IF she makes it through surgery without coding will be her hopefully not ding of infection.

Her death will be caused by her weight and not the cancer itself. She will either.
Code on the table.
Code post surgery from heart failure
Sepsis
Internal hemorrhaging
DVT/ Clot moved to heart, lungs or brain.
Kidney failure

She better get an advanced directive now.
Nobody wished it on her but wishing someone has cancer and saying she had it coming to her are marginally different. When a tornado is barelling down towards you, and you ignore all warnings to move out of the way, you caused what the outcome is.
it's the post surgery period I'm wondering about.Who the heck can take care of her in that condition? Becky? That would finally break her. If Amber survives the surgery, she'll probably have to go to a nursing home for a few weeks.
 
As for Becky, with all the medical bills piling on, Amber will not be able to pay her to stay at home and be her personal service worker. Becky will be told to get a job and I am not sure how she will take that.

I think it’s more likely Amber will spend her assets down, go on disability, and Becky will get paid to be her caregiver.
 
Chemo fucks with your immune system and your appetite/gastro, so things like fried crap, unpasteurized crap, spicy crap - basically a lot of stuff she loves to pound down her piehole would be nonos if she had to get chemo and didn't follow the doctors' advice (which, let's face it, she probably would not).
What happens when you eat chemo-unsafe foods on chemo?
 
I wouldn’t be surprised if Becky tried to off herself this year. Even on her best days, she seemed extremely depressed. Now she’s about to lose her mother and maybe her girlfriend. She could end up alone, broke, and with no job to pay her part of the rent. Someone might let her stay with them for a while but I doubt they will let her live there permanently. If she somehow gets a job, it will be some depressing minimum wage thing. It’s not entirely unlikely she could end up homeless. Things are looking pretty dark on the horizon.
 
I don't know what to say. I feel legit feelz. This isn't a death fat disease, it's unfair. SHE S'POSED TO DIE FROM BEETUS!
Not some random thing that could happen to anyone.
Get better, Amber. Then die of something that fits.
 
She's a meth baby whose parents loved meth more than her, the love of her life cheated on her, and now she purportedly has cancer. It should have happened to another deathfat. Amber's a bitch, but bitches don't deserve to get cancer before they're 30. She's not evil.
 
i stopped checking in on her for months, possibly a year. big rip to her. i hope she beats it, shes one of my favorite lolcows and losing her so young would suck
 
I don't know what to say. I feel legit feelz. This isn't a death fat disease, it's unfair. SHE S'POSED TO DIE FROM BEETUS!
Not some random thing that could happen to anyone.
Get better, Amber. Then die of something that fits.

Obesity is a risk factor of uterine cancer actually. I wasn't sure either until I read about it a bit. So unfortunately it's likely that she did do this to herself, and then subsequently ignored the warning signs for several months. RIP Doctorlynn
 
She just tweeted this
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Imagine if it is more on the serious side and Amber loses her precious hair from chemo. Her hair might be the thing she values most in this world. 10/10 would watch that meltdown.
 
This is undeserved. Give her a death fat disease. This is bullshit.

This actually is an obesity-related cancer. My 400lb sister had it (hysterectomy cured it, but had complications due to her weight/sleep apnea during and post surgery) and her doctor told her over 70% of this type of cancer is caused by obesity screwing up hormones.

Fat tissue creates a shitload of estrogen and also causes massive hormonal imbalances. Estrogen produces the endometrial lining, and the rising and stark fall of progesterone triggers the sloughing of it (AKA, a menstrual period). Without progesterone (PCOS and obese women suffer from lack of progesterone quite commonly), you often don't have a period (or if you do, it's called "breakthrough bleeding"). But because your body is STILL pumpin out massive amounts of estrogen, the endometrial lining keeps getting thicker and thicker, with no regular periods to "refresh" it. So all of those cells - ones that are SUPPOSED to be sloughed out each month - sit in there for forever, they mutate and turn cancerous.

Absolutely is a death fat disease.
 
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