Amber can deny she’s the issue all day, and the only person that will ever believe her is herself. Even her supporters fall off once they’re wise to her antics.
There’s this old Cajun joke* about a man who weathered a huge flood by climbing on his roof. The water was rising, but he had faith God would save him. So some guys rude by in a pirouette and ask if he wants a ride. The man says “No, God will save me,” and they drift away. A few hours later the water is halfway up the house and two men in a rescue boat come by and offer to help. He declined, “No, God will save me” and the men leave to find others to help. A little while later the water is still rising and is coming into the roof. A helicopter flies over and offers to rescue him. The man, again, says “No, God will save me” and the helicopter flies away.
Eventually, the water spills over the roof, washing the man away and he dies. When he reaches the gates of Heaven, he angrily asks God why he didn’t save him... God looks at him, and replies “I sent you two boats and a chopper, what else do you want from me?”
[* I don’t actually know if it’s origin is Cajun...some old coonasses told me it was, but they also drink a lot lol]
Amber reminds me of that joke a lot. She keeps ignoring or denying the signs of her failing health and dismissing criticism regardless of how tactful it is or isn’t, and when her time is up and/or when the shekels run dry, she’s the only one to blame. And no one pities a dumbass