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- 14 de Ago, 2017
this is me, I love to say 'i'm ugly' so I can ignore that my real problem is my shitty personality...
I think also people use the ‘I’m ugly’ thing as a defensive measure because it’s something innate about themselves that they can’t change, ie ‘a physically innate part of me is repellent’ so I can’t change that and why try, rather than ‘I’m probably a bit awkward socially and may need some feedback and practice.’ Whereas the latter is more likely to be true.
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like i get plenty of matches on tinder and i don't have a huge problem with getting a first date, but a second date? the most i've ever had was five, with two different girls, and clearly that was enough for them to realize how annoying I am