Love on the farms - I know this shit is corny but i'm interested

will kiwi farms users ever fall in love irl

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It's certainly never going to happen to me because I'm a human repellent. Every time I send a message to someone I don't receive a reply, they don't even bother to respond me back with a "hi". I know why it happens In real life: I'm ugly, but it's really puzzling here on the internet since I don't use photos of myself.

And no, I've never sent dick pics to anyone.
 
Raging Capybara dijo:
I know why it happens In real life: I'm ugly
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Now look, I have to take you to task on this. I doubt it is. I don’t know anyone too ugly to date. I have dated guys who look like the back end of a bus but are really lovely humans (and I’ve dated a couple of Adonis types who turned out to be morons, give me an ugly but intelligent/funny chap any day.)

On here, it’s because most people are mildly paranoid that someone sending them messages might be trying to dox them. IRL, I dunno, it’s more likely to be small non verbal things or that you might be acting very slightly inappropriately. It’s takes time to know someone well enough to realise that they’re alright so I think many guys who are a bit eccentric get an automatic no unless women know them better. Why is this?
Well.,,Be aware (and I think a lot of men are totally unaware of this) that pretty much every female on the planet has been subjected to unwanted sexual advances, ranging from catcalling to being groped to much worse. Women are often in a default state of wariness and I think men often don’t see that. Men think that they’d love women chucking themselves at them. Women don’t think that. Women are aware that they’re physically vulnerable. What’s this bloke like? Is he going to turn into a raging terrifying tantrum if I politely say no? Is he going to force the issue? Am I going to get dragged off and attacked? That seems dramatic, but believe me, it happens. It’s happened to me (a polite ‘no thanks, I’m out with friends’ resulted in a massive bloke chimping out and physically attacking me in a pub)

I think also people use the ‘I’m ugly’ thing as a defensive measure because it’s something innate about themselves that they can’t change, ie ‘a physically innate part of me is repellent’ so I can’t change that and why try, rather than ‘I’m probably a bit awkward socially and may need some feedback and practice.’ Whereas the latter is more likely to be true.

You got any honest and trustworthy female relatives you can run this one by? Do you spend time socially/professionally with people in a non pressured context for practice?
 
or maybe he is just ugly for real.
also I wouldnt bother with online. Women are standoffish as hell and if looks arent your forte, you'll be wasting time sending messages and then you'll probably get ghosted as soon as you exchange pics.
 
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Raging Capybara dijo:
It's certainly never going to happen to me because I'm a human repellent. Every time I send a message to someone I don't receive a reply, they don't even bother to respond me back with a "hi". I know why it happens In real life: I'm ugly, but it's really puzzling here on the internet since I don't use photos of myself.

And no, I've never sent dick pics to anyone.
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hi
 
We could always set up a speed dating event for single kiwis and leg beards of PULL? Best case scenario you wind up getting hate fucked, worst case it creates a mountain of autism so dense a black hole is made destroying all life on earth.
 
Wait... is this the real Kiwi hookup thread? Fucking finally. Traps to the left, twinks to the right, and ladies front and center. The only thing bigger than my dick is my heart and I've a lot of love to give.
Okkervils dijo:
Maybe that's your issue, send a dick pic and you just might get a response from someone like me.
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Send you a dick pic? On it.
 
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