homadesoop
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- 27 de Dic, 2018
The one thing I've noticed about every single enabler on MY600PL is, they are all stupid. They all come off as extremely stupid.This. We can't just ignore the psychological aspect of this kind of relationship. It's not as cut and dry as "Becky takes the abuse because she wants Wommart cartoon T-shirts". Of course we can't put ourselves in an enabler's shoes, we've never been there. I'm sure Becky and the loved ones of those people on M600PL couldn't relate either before they found themselves in that role.
We also have to keep in mind that almost nobody would put up with the kind of crap they routinely take in an abusive relationship at first. It's the boiled frog thing.
Becky is not blameless, nor is she that great of a person. Is she taking advantage of Amber's income? Given her history, it's more than likely. But on the other hand she also has ridiculously low self-esteem, which Amber keeps constantly undermining. We can shit on her all we want, god knows we have enough reasons to. But human beings are multi-faceted, even neckless blobs like Becky.