🍗 Deathfat Amberlynn Reid - 600 pound pathological liar and U-Haul lesbian moving in with her next live-in maid/nurse/girlfriend.

[foodbeautypastashrimps]

When Amber was 18 she moved from California, if I'm not mistaken, to be with Kasey in Arizona. Then she moved with Kristle in Virginia. From there she went to Florida to be with Destiny. The other girl she was chatting/dating while chatting/dating Kristle and living with Kasey was in California.

That’s true. I was more speaking about Becky’s reluctance to leave.

 

[angelicbitch]

She wasn't able to emotionally please her mother either in childhood

She doesn't have very negative thoughts when it comes to her mother. These come from her father/brother, so this is more significant than it would be in comparison to her mother.

And sure testosterone does lead to a higher libido but young women have about 10x the amount in youth that they do later in life.

While true, this doesn't negate the fact that men are still extremely sexually active, typically more so than women, and Amber wouldn't be able to please them because she is obese (low sex drive).

The men who would likely be with her would be feeders as others mentioned, and that's sexual. Is Amber inherently sexual? Not really, other than with Destiny.

She showed a lot of affection with Destiny, and not as much with Becky. Is it because Destiny acts more boyish than Becky, who has admitted to wearing makeup and admitted that she likes it? Amber said she likes her girls extremely butch. Nobdody would know this answer but her.

This is why people have a weird fascination with her sexuality, because they're curious. People on here have a weird fixation with her, period: that's why we're all here to discuss her odd life and mannerisms, lol

 

[Long time lurker]

That’s true. I was more speaking about Becky’s reluctance to leave.

Wut?

Here is the full reply you posted (emphasis mine):

Idk. Personally I don’t think it’s a “woman” she has a better chance of manipulating. I just think she can manipulate better because it’s a lgbt relationship. Like - I would feel the same if it was two men. Because Kentucky LGBT dating is a nightmare. And when you’re gay - and you find somebody else to be gay with - especially in rural Kentucky you don’t really want to give that up. What lesbian wants to start lesbian dating in rural Kentucky. But I respect that we disagree on that. Just me 2 cents.

I thought my question was clear enough and had nothing what so ever to do with Becky (who wasn't even mentioned in my post). I also thought you were referring to Amber since you were clearly answering the question I asked.

 

[foodbeautypastashrimps]

She doesn't have very negative thoughts when it comes to her mother. These come from her father/brother, so this is more significant than it would be in comparison to her mother.


While true, this doesn't negate the fact that men are still extremely sexually active, typically more so than women, and Amber wouldn't be able to please them because she is obese (low sex drive).

The men who would likely be with her would be feeders as others mentioned, and that's sexual. Is Amber inherently sexual? Not really, other than with Destiny.

She showed a lot of affection with Destiny, and not as much with Becky. Is it because Destiny acts more boyish than Becky, who has admitted to wearing makeup and admitted that she likes it? Amber said she likes her girls extremely butch. Nobdody would know this answer but her.

This is why people have a weird fascination with her sexuality, because they're curious. People on here have a weird fixation with her period: that's why we're all here to discuss her odd life and mannerisms, lol

Idk I think the Leisbien discourse is interesting to speculate about but way off base. Really, I think she’s just a big plain ol’ leisbien. And was just born that way. /ladygaga starts playing.

I don’t think it has anything to do with trauma or fear of men or sex or anything like that.

 

[DaintyGorl]

Amber said she likes her girls extremely butch.

Damn, to me that definitely reaffirms that she likes them butch so she can feel like she's manipulating a man visually. It'd explain why she was all for Becky growing out her hair and then, a second later, saying she likes it short because god forbid anyone else be gorly around her

 

[foodbeautypastashrimps]

Wut?

Here is the full reply you posted (emphasis mine):


I thought my question was clear enough and had nothing what so ever to do with Becky (who wasn't even mentioned in my post). I also thought you were referring to Amber since you were clearly answering the question I asked.

My bad. I thought you was replying with “what does that matter amberlynn travels all over to be with girls”

And my reply meant that Becky doesn’t or can’t and probably why she doesn’t want to start dating again after getting with Amber (add spiel about Kentucky dating)

 

[sixcarbchiligorl]

I don't have any concrete theories but my gut instinct is that the vast majority of the "fake lesbian-ness"/weird sexuality/food issues stems from sexual abuse in childhood. I don't think she's as open about her deep-seated issues as some think. She herself most definitely hasn't dealt with or processed her childhood trauma herself, hence the 500 pounds. So why do we assume that she would put it all out there on YouTube?

If she was abused and wasn't believed or was ignored or blown off, she would certainly be hesitant to share that information with her current audience. Perhaps she even tried to see what it would be like to share information about past abuse by making the false rape accusations against Kasey and look what happened there.

Whatever way you look at it she has a deep mistrust of and aversion to straight men and some severe childhood trauma. Childhood sexual abuse is very, very common in the super morbidly obese. My money is on abuse either by the unsavory characters her parents would have been friends with or in the foster system, or worse, both.

 

[angelicbitch]

Idk I think the Leisbien discourse is interesting to speculate about but way off base.

But that's the thing. It's just speculation. There doesn't really need to be hardcore evidence or anything about why a 500 lb toddler claims to like girls instead of guys.

Nobody here's a psychologist or sexologist or knows Amber personally(at least, not that I know of), so it's pretty much opinions: "here's what I think" vs "here's what you think" kind of thing.

 

[-amburrspearlzzz]

Does anyone know why she always talks about not sleeping and thats why she's so big? What does not sleeping have to do with her gaining weight?

 

[angelicbitch]

Does anyone know why she always talks about not sleeping and thats why she's so big? What does not sleeping have to do with her gaining weight?

A bad sleeping schedule makes you more hungry, so you end up eating more, and gaining weight. But for her, it's just an excuse because getting 8 hrs of sleep won't suddenly make her "blackout" episodes disappear.

 

[carolburnett]

While true, this doesn't negate the fact that men are still extremely sexually active, typically more so than women, and Amber wouldn't be able to please them because she is obese (low sex drive).

I think she was sexual with because Destiny is a sexual chad lesbian. And AL was so into her because Destiny gave her constant affection and affirmation for her all the time. Watch the early videos Destiny is drowning her in compliments about everything and Amber is loving it. Plus as others have mentioned Amber takes on the attributes of those she is around, since Destiny was more sexual she liked being more sexual to keep her around. Plus it probably made Amber feel high as a kite to feel desired by Destiny given her crazy ass issues. I do think lurker's post about her being more inherently asexual than being secretly straight is way more plausible. But a person can be asexual but be in homosexual or heterosexual relationships - there is just less sex and the partners need to be on the same page about it or the relationship usually falls apart.

Fat men also totally hook up and have relationships with fat women. That's not uncommon. More often than not I see fatties together than one with a feeder fetish, it exists, but once again those types of relationships are less common. It also doesn't fit with types of people Amber has shown attraction to - fatties (butchy women fatties particularly). And if she was dating fat dudes they also would have low sex drive due to obesity.

Also sexual activity does not have to be enacted upon or engaged in for a person to identify as that sexuality. Speculation is fine and you are welcome to it, but I just like it to be founded in a little more evidence than just throwing around narratives that confirm people's own biases even if it's about a cow like Amber.

Does anyone know why she always talks about not sleeping and thats why she's so big? What does not sleeping have to do with her gaining weight?

A lot of weight loss studies stress the need for regular sleep schedules cause it does show more consistent and successful weight loss. This is because your body burns more fat to function during sleep (and at a higher rate strangely enough) and by getting enough rest you have enough energy to do more physical activity the next day. People who cut back on sleep or don't sleep enough lose less weight than they would by getting the recommended amount of sleep. She also just eats because she is bored. So the more time awake the more time to eat.

She shouldn't be gaining weight either way (that's from all the extra food), but it would help her lose more weight.

 

[foodbeautypastashrimps]

Does anyone know why she always talks about not sleeping and thats why she's so big? What does not sleeping have to do with her gaining weight?

Chronic fatigue, restless, exhaustion but unable to sleep can be a signs of sleep apnea. Maybe she can’t sleep because she is getting choked on her fat and keeps waking up.

 

[angelicbitch]

think she was sexual with because Destiny is a sexual chad lesbian. And AL was so into her because Destiny gave her constant affection and affirmation for her all the time. Watch the early videos Destiny is drowning her in compliments about everything and Amber is loving it. Plus as others have mentioned Amber takes on the attributes of those she is around, since Destiny was more sexual she liked being more sexual to keep her around

Becky and Amber have made jokes about being sexual together too. Becky may be just as sexual as Destiny, but doesn't show it on camera as much because she's not as much of a sped. Plus, the whole panties scenario on FB, Becky talked about how she never wanted to have sex bc of the girl's "rotten muff" or something like that lol. EDIT: There's not much to go off here because Becky hates being on camera most of the time.

More often than not I see fatties together than one with a feeder fetish, it exists, but once again those types of relationships are less common. It also doesn't fit with types of people Amber has shown attraction to - fatties (butchy women fatties particularly). And if she was dating fat dudes they also would have low sex drive due to obesity.

I see the point here, but a feeder relationship won't work with Amber because she has it in her head that she's going to lose weight and this and that. Destiny was a big enabler for Amber (almost feeder-like) because she ate such garbage and let Amber eat it too, but Amber kept saying that she wanted to lose weight, and that she was going to. But Destiny finally let her big ass go because she never wanted to do anything other than eat, and Destiny also thought that Amber was gonna keel over at some point.

There's also the whole joke that fat men want people who look better than them, but that a lot of lesbians are just fat together or w/e.

It'd be much easier for Amber to find a fat lesbian in Kentucky than a fat, insecure man (who's probably an incel )

EDIT:

Also sexual activity does not have to be enacted upon or engaged in for a person to identify as that sexuality.

But we're speculating off Amber, who says that she's super sexual. Not someone who's asexual.

At the end of it, Amber's fat, only 'has sex" with girls, and will eventually die sooner or later.

 

[Bookish]

I think it's funny that people keep going on and on about how women are so easy to manipulate, and you have to meet a certain benchmark to date a man, yet 9/10 episodes of any morbidly and super morbidly obese show has women contestants/participants who are married to men. From those dating men with an obvious fetish who are paying $$$ to those who have settled down, got married and made a family. They're overwhelmingly straight women. And a lot of the guys they're married to look normal and are of at least average looks. I've never noticed an overwhelming amount of lesbians on these shows. I've seen a lot of chubby lesbian couples, but not morbidly obese, they're usually with men, even when they can no longer wipe their own behinds.

 

[UW 411]

I think it's funny that people keep going on and on about how women are so easy to manipulate, and you have to meet a certain benchmark to date a man, yet 9/10 episodes of any morbidly and super morbidly obese show has women contestants/participants who are married to men. From those dating men with an obvious fetish who are paying $$$ to those who have settled down, got married and made a family. They're overwhelmingly straight women. And a lot of the guys they're married to look normal and are of at least average looks. I've never noticed an overwhelming amount of lesbians on these shows. I've seen a lot of chubby lesbian couples, but not morbidly obese, they're usually with men, even when they can no longer wipe their own behinds.

There seem to be more (at least openly identifying as such) cases of feederism in men vs women based on both 'My 600lb Life' and the countless weirdo documentaries on the subject. I think fat lesbian relationships are more proportionally based around convenience/eligibility in the dating pool more than straight male chubby chasers and feeders. There are lesbian feeders, surely - but it seems to be more common that a man will be the feeder (in heterosexual relationships or in gay relationships like our cow friend Chance has horrifically shown)

I could be wrong, it just seems to be less common with lesbians.

 

[-amburrspearlzzz]

In the new vid she mentions asking Necky to go out to eat and she said no. Glad she's starting to say no to hambeast.

 

[angelicbitch]

In the new vid she mentions asking Necky to go out to eat and she said no. Glad she's starting to say no to hambeast.

Wait until that "blackout"

 

[DuckSucker]

Idk. Personally I don’t think it’s a “woman” she has a better chance of manipulating. I just think she can manipulate better because it’s a lgbt relationship. Like - I would feel the same if it was two men. Because Kentucky LGBT dating is a nightmare. And when you’re gay - and you find somebody else to be gay with - especially in rural Kentucky you don’t really want to give that up. What lesbian wants to start lesbian dating in rural Kentucky. But I respect that we disagree on that. Just me 2 cents.

It doesnt have anything to do with gender. It only really has to do with self-esteem, self-image and options. If it's anything to do with sex then it's about men being more visually stimulated, although the mental aspect of it has to be there too, she just has neither going on (more testosterone=higher libido is kind of oversimplifying it, and of course everyone wants more out of a relationship than just sex).

I think somebody saying that it has to do more with some women (Becky in this case) having more of a "mother hen" nature, and women typically being more socially inclined than men, and less okay with being "alone". It may come down to this: Becky herself said she was uncomfortable being out of a relationship for too long, and Amberlynn physically cannot live without needing somebody. Somebody to drive her, bathe her, somebody to reach shit off of shelves, somebody to get up to put in the next DVD. Like in relationships people still want their space, they want to be alone sometimes and just do their own shit--and Amberlynn hasnt let Becky out of her sight for months. You can kind of see it's starting to grate on her though.

While true, this doesn't negate the fact that men are still extremely sexually active, typically more so than women, and Amber wouldn't be able to please them because she is obese (low sex drive).

Even if that was the case, if shes manipulating a man by keeping him around through sex, all she needs is some KY jelly. She doesnt have to be sexually excited and it doesnt matter if she's getting off. Just let him mindlessly hump away every few days, maybe a handjob every now and then (I would be terrified for a dude who put his junk near Amberlynns mouth) to keep him around. But she would be a terrible partner because she cant, you couldnt do any of the fun shit that other girls are capable of, or that youre capable of with them. It would just be her laying there, starfishing, while the dude does all the work and tries to get off, interspersed with "Di'jyoo finish yet? Can you hand me the hot cheetos?" Plus, in this case, there would be size issues involved on one or both people. But if she were into guys and wanted to keep them around with sex, she could. Not necessarily about who's easier to satisfy or she couldnt do it with or please men.

There are still desperate dudes who have shit self image or are shitty people and just want a warm hole or something. I mean I guess your argument kind of holds true in that there are fewer men like that though, and guys with like self-image, confidence, or self-esteem issues dont get out as often or like respond as well, and they arent going out looking for relationships that often, so theyre harder to find. It's easier to find a vulnerable woman.

 

[angelicbitch]

Amber dated Kasey because it was mainly online (I believe), and then she had to move in without a choice, making the relationship longer
Amber dated Krystle because her parents had $$$ and could buy her things/give her $1,000+ allowance
Amber dated Destiny because she felt extremely lonely after Krystle and her broke up/Destiny wanted to cheat
Amber dated Becky because she felt extremely lonely after Destiny and her broke up, needed a new place to live/Becky felt extremely depressed because of her nephew's death

Pretty much it.

Edit:

Letting go of...?

EDIT 2:

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Amber allegedly gave a handjob (or was it a blowjob?) in a movie theater before.

As for the "more testosterone=higher libido" being oversimplified, ehhh... This is scientifically based. If you lower the amount of testosterone in anybody, women or men, their libido will likely drop, and if you raise the amount, their libido will likely increase. Sure, there are people with low T and average sex drives, but commonly, it's low t = low libido. It's a big reason why men even get their hormones checked in the first place.

Also, confused. You said that she could keep a guy around sexually, but also that she'd be terrible at it and not do anything fun, and there would be size issues involved, making it more complicated to have sex anyway. A handie isn't going to keep anyone around but a sped, and like you said, he would have a hard time getting around her to hump her.

But yes, she's way easier off finding an insecure girl than guy.

I'm pretty much over talking about this topic because it's getting extremely fftopic: with speculations and hypotheticals
At the end of the day, Amber seems to only pick people out of convenience.

 

[Bookish]

There seem to be more (at least openly identifying as such) cases of feederism in men vs women based on both 'My 600lb Life' and the countless weirdo documentaries on the subject. I think fat lesbian relationships are more proportionally based around convenience/eligibility in the dating pool more than straight male chubby chasers and feeders. There are lesbian feeders, surely - but it seems to be more common that a man will be the feeder (in heterosexual relationships or in gay relationships like our cow friend Chance has horrifically shown)

I could be wrong, it just seems to be less common with lesbians.

I agree. That's why I mentioned the chubby lesbian couples, because for some reason there seems to be plenty of fat lesbians, but not as many morbidly obese lesbian couples, at least in the media and with some notoriety online (I mean super morbidly obese, not run of the mill might see at a typical department store fat). If what people say is true, real life would be a lot different. Unless we're to believe that all of these men, chubby chasers/fetishists (who definitely want sex) and just men who are legit (as any two people might connect) attracted to fat women without a fetish-angle, just so happen to not want sex with these women, despite the fact that some have children, who prove sex is happening. If men had some super standard of beauty and weren't as easy to manipulate, why isn't it predominantly women bathing their wives on porches. If she wanted a carer, quick money, or both, the odds would be more in her favor to find a man than a woman. Even with the fetishists, there's no way some of those women on 600lb life are doing much in the way of sex, because some can hardly move, at all. Amberlynn-sized gfs/wives or not, there are plenty of men not getting as much sex as they'd like from women, who manage to stick around.

*Not anything I particularly want to rehash, again, but it keeps coming up in threads despite many of us watching these shows/channels and not seeing an overabundance of lesbians, despite the belief here that they're the easier option for the manipulative types (AL and Chantals of the world).

Question: Destiny posted a congrats to Dana on IG for her attaining a job. Was this job in FL or KY, anyone know? I know she just moved, but I wonder if this new job is what brought it about or if she left her new gig?