Weight Loss Update 1/21/18 - We've imagined her binges perfectly

Edit: I just remembered how annoying it was when Becky was explaining how she had a Pepsi at her family's house and AL goes "I WAS SHOCKED!" She LOVES emphasizing other people's small "mistakes" to deter the attention from her HUGE consistent mistakes (and to justify her actions as well).

I like how Becky "doesn't even like pepsi" but decided to drink a can anyway. *sigh*
But yes, AL loves deflecting from her own tremendous failures.
 
How is Becky going to do that? She invited Amber into her home, she allowed Amber to co-sign on a car, and she quit her job. Becky made a lot of poor choices in the last year that will not be easy to undo.
I know, but shit, no one deserves to be an abuse victim. It'll be hard, but it can be done. Becky, if you are reading this: start by saving up money without Amber's knowledge and reach out to people for support, even if it's just an online support group. Start babysitting or get an outside job to get some space from Amber. Maybe volunteer or take a college course. It'll help clear your mind and make you feel more independent and self-sufficient. Once you feel like you can support yourself without Amber, and have people to catch you when you emotionally fall (because it hurts to cut off dependent relationships, I know) kick her to the curb. Maybe go to therapy sessions during and afterwards for mental care and better advice. They'll also help you with the leftover damage.
 
If you still have doubts, check Kasey's video rebutting the rape allegations.

The various texts he screen capped show clearly how abusive she is. Also a desperate need for control, even after they had broken up and Amber had moved away.

And Kasey said that Amber hit her multiple times in the chest + threw a glass at the wall during a tantrum. I'm sure it was during a binge though so that makes it totally okay /sneed

I think that's why she chooses speds as her girlfriends, she knows it'll be easier to make them into enablers and manipulate/be terrible to them.

How is Becky going to do that? She invited Amber into her home, she allowed Amber to co-sign on a car, and she quit her job. Becky made a lot of poor choices in the last year that will not be easy to undo.

Eh, she could kick Amber out (with the help of the gays and the landlord), pay for the car herself, and get another job if she needed to. Didn't she say she's working somewhere else now? I mean, I know it's easier said than done but the longer she's with Amber and allows this behavior, the worse it'll get.
 
If they kick Amberlynn out, the fag and Becks will both have to actually work. When will they have time to color and play Mario Kart?
 
I know, but shit, no one deserves to be an abuse victim. It'll be hard, but it can be done. Becky, if you are reading this: start by saving up money without Amber's knowledge and reach out to people for support, even if it's just an online support group. Start babysitting or get an outside job to get some space from Amber. Maybe volunteer or take a college course. It'll help clear your mind and make you feel more independent and self-sufficient. Once you feel like you can support yourself without Amber, and have people to catch you when you emotionally fall (because it hurts to cut off dependent relationships, I know) kick her to the curb. Maybe go to therapy sessions during and afterwards for mental care and better advice. They'll also help you with the leftover damage.
Maybe a good time to start therapy would be now, because at this point hopefully she's wondering "What the fuck is going on here?"
 
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