Weight Loss Update 1/21/18 - We've imagined her binges perfectly

AL is a master manipulator and preys on simple-minded, decent-natured people with low self esteem. I say people because I do not believe for one minute she's a lesbian, she hitches her wagon to people out of sheer convenience. I know this observation has been made so many times, but it never seizes to amaze me.
 
Rafe was not playing when she said that all AL talks about is food. She mentions that she has to have a smoothie before the gym *without protein* and needs a bar afterward. First of all, get the membership, workout for more than 10 minutes, and then worry about what the fuck you have to eat.

Will the treadmills at the gym even be able to accommodate her weight? The treadmills used at my gym have a max user weight of 400 lbs.
 
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I am still trying to wrap my head around how you gain 6 pounds in a day. Also, fuck off with the excuse of not being aware of your behavior in a binge, bitch please, youre a cunt 24/7
 
Rafe was not playing when she said that all AL talks about is food. She mentions that she has to have a smoothie before the gym *without protein* and needs a bar afterward. First of all, get the membership, workout for more than 10 minutes, and then worry about what the fuck you have to eat.

Will the treadmills at the gym even be able to accommodate her weight? The treadmills used at my gym have a max user weight of 400 lbs.

Shit I was thinking this too. She doesn't even go to the gym, she's just thinking about joining one, but she's already looking for excuses to eat more.

Stick to counting calories and try not to binge, instead of joining a gym. Your joints will thank you. You already do some heavy weight lifting every single day anyway.
 
If she was really going to exercise rather than a reason to have smoothies (with ice cream I’m sure) and go to Cheesecake Factory after, she should do water classes. Elephants kind of float around in the water and they can exercise without doing more damage to joints. Course, Amber’s just too cute {squeal} for that old lady, fat people exercise.

Nah, she’s going to put her hair in a ponytail and carry around high calorie drinks. Too bad she can’t fit into lululemon, but they don’t make rhinoceros size.
 
If she blames her behavior on her addiction then she‘s done.

Fight against it but don‘t see it as a excuse to binge again just because you secretly love it.
 
she is the kind of dieter that, if her fitbit says she burned 300 calories , she will think that she needs to fill up that 300.

shes never gonna make it, is she.
 
For now, she should stick with her walking DVD. When the weather warms up, she can walk outside with Eric and Becky again, and use the DVD on rainy days. I just don't understand her thinking that walking on a treadmill will be easier or better than what she's doing now. Does she think Becky doesn't know she wants to get out of the house so they can go to Walmart more often? I can see her spending maybe 10 minutes at the gym and then saying, "I'm tired now. Let's go shopping!" Every. Day.
 
I wonder how her tantrums rival Steven Assanti. He was able to manipulate his father (even just so his father didn't have to hear it any more) to order him food from across the country. I have no doubts Amber would pull the same strings in that situation.

I quit watching her videos so I'm ambivalent toward Becky, but if Amber cannot physically go get food on her own, Becky really is part of the problem, too. Enablers should get just as much credit when talking about a woman-child with self destructive behaviors being able to binge so frequently when that person is the reason she's able to indulge in said behaviors. Becky is an adult and a willing participant in the shitshow that is Amber Reid's life.
 
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If she was really going to exercise rather than a reason to have smoothies (with ice cream I’m sure) and go to Cheesecake Factory after, she should do water classes. Elephants kind of float around in the water and they can exercise without doing more damage to joints. Course, Amber’s just too cute {squeal} for that old lady, fat people exercise.

Nah, she’s going to put her hair in a ponytail and carry around high calorie drinks. Too bad she can’t fit into lululemon, but they don’t make rhinoceros size.

I'll fight anyone who tries to diss water aerobics, hamber included. Going as a young person is great, everyone is excited you're there and it's like hanging out with 20 grandparents at once.

I digress. If she can't stick to a diet which involves a form of inaction (not eating), she 100% won't stick to a solid exercise routine which requires daily action. But she needs something new to justify her eating, and if becks doesn't get a gym membership she won't know that al is just sitting on a bench on her phone for an hour.
 
She did during Krystle-era, said she went to a meeting and hated it. There's even therapy apps/services that you can text. She's adamantly against involving people outside of her hovel in her weight loss endeavors because there's a chance they may not coddle her.
Yeah. Therapy isn't just a happy pat on the back and "d'awww" comments. You get shit like assignments, things to do at home, serious critical thinking... it can suck sometimes. But it's worth it.

Check out this victim-blaming faggot in the comments;
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And here I thought Becky had only been dating Amberlynn a year, turns out it's Becky's fault Amberlynn has been a massive hog her entire life.

Looking back at this, I guess I should add that yes, what Becky did was technically enabling. But it's obvious AL was acting like a total cunt and tearing Becky up to get her to do as she wanted, and I can't blame Becky for simply not wanting to have shit slung at her any more. I bet when it was all said and done, she caved to that binge just to heal the hurt AL had caused, and to try to forget how she'd failed AL and herself.
Enabling is actually a very understandable thing. Almost all abuse victims are enablers. But enablers should never be blamed for the other person's behavior. (It's why I hate the term "enabling" actually, it's almost always used for victim blaming) Yes, Becky could have fought Amber, but it's completely understandable why she caved. Psychologically, humans don't like being emotionally hurt, and we will go to great lengths to avoid it. I would have done the same thing in that situation. Being brow beaten and bullied is not something to take lightly, something to "stand up to." I'm almost certain that Amber is abusive, now.

Becky pls leave. Go be happy. You don't have to be with Amber. Go find someone nice. Work as a babysitter, you seem good with kids. Live your own fulfilling life.
 
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