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If you really had to who would you sex?


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Agreed. Even if they need to start with escorts. I maintain the biggest problem most incels have is they romanticize women and relationships way too much, and I understand that's a hard thing to shake.
Can speak from experience. Getting laid and realizing sex isn't the end all be all of life measurably improved my mental health.
 
Can speak from experience. Getting laid and realizing sex isn't the end all be all of life measurably improved my mental health.
Even if they do get it, they'll just move the goalposts by saying it doesn't count because it didn't result in a steady relationship. That and Tinderella will probably cheat on you if you try to make that a thing.

If you're a nerd or autistic you're gonna have a bad time.
 
food for thought, i think its pretty interesting how the Maslow's hierarchy of needs basically covers this as a physiological need that we all have as our base desires.

i think whats different though is that physiological needs are not at the top of the hierarchy of needs, which is the point they are making; theres more to life than food, shelter, and sex, agreeing with your side, you cant deny that those are important needs we all have.

Not all renditions of the hierarchy include sex on the base level. Which is appropriate, bc sex is only a fundamental "need" on the scale of food, water, air, sleep, etc., in the sense of reproduction - aka, on a broad, not individual scale. Plenty of people, by choice or not, don't have sex and manage to focus on qualities higher in the pyramid.

But the point of the pyramid is that the things at the bottom are survival-level, not that they are less important. Which is why sex doesn't belong there for an individual. Without food or water or air, a human physically dies. Without sex, the human race dies, but an individual (who has not obsessed) just does other things.

It doesn't surprise me that your IRL incel was a vintage computer parts dealer. That in itself dries up pussy faster than the fucking Sahara. But he's doing himself no favors by embracing their ideas.
How many certified incels have robust and varied relationships with men - as in friendships, good working relationships, robust working relationships, easy rapport with strangers? Or have strong and healthy non-sexual/ non-romantic relationships with women?
 
I maintain the biggest problem most incels have is they romanticize women and relationships way too much, and I understand that's a hard thing to shake.
That's the thing: when you speak from the POV of someone who HAS HAD relationships, they seem very mundane and, perhaps, troublesome.

But, from the POV of someone who NEVER had a relationship, it's hard to claim that. All that person knows is loneliness and a need for connection that was never met. To incels, when normies say that, it's like when a wealthy person says to someone who has been living on stale bread and porridge, and never ate anything but, that lobsters or filet mignon are overrated.
 
https://youtube.com/watch?v=EY1-s8Iin2ICurrycel blackpill youtuber Drayyythan got DBDR'd and ended up losing his friends because they saw his videos. Maybe he should've tried being confident.

It sounds like he's the south Asian version of DBDR though with how controlling and overprotective his parents are to him. But less psycho like DBDR's mom and more of the "you better study for the bloody test and become a bitch bastard doctor, saar!" type.
seems pretty different from the other blackpill channels out there with the 3D animation and stuff.
 
seems pretty different from the other blackpill channels out there with the 3D animation and stuff.
He's pretty creative with the Blender animations and thumbnails. Drayythan is a bigger failed normie than DBDR (as in, more normal) but his perspective is interesting. Being south Asian makes dating a LOT harder in a white Western country and I actually feel bad for the Americanized Indian men who struggle with dating.
 
How many certified incels have robust and varied relationships with men - as in friendships, good working relationships, robust working relationships, easy rapport with strangers? Or have strong and healthy non-sexual/ non-romantic relationships with women?
That's a tough call. Admittedly I haven't dated in a while myself, but I do have a plurality of people I at least communicate with outside of my family. The difference is that incels seem to feel the need for social validation of some sort.

The difference between guys who don't have girlfriends very often, and guys who are incels, is the need for this type of validation. It's a way of saying "Fuck you Chad, I'm just as good as you are" if they do manage to land a girlfriend.

They forget that women need things in a relationship, and that the guys who are romantically and sexually successful are at least able to sell the idea that they can provide these things. It might be a complete lie, but for many, it's a lie that works, at least some of the time. Incels don't seek relationships so much as they seek the perceived social approval that comes with it.

You'll notice this in Elliot Rodger's writings, he wrote that he respected his father for being able to get into a relationship quickly after divorcing his mom. Peter Rodger is an arrogant, narcissistic cunt, so I suppose it runs in the family. Explains a lot, really. But the point is that Elliot bought into this idea that guys with girlfriends have some kind of social approval that has evaded him his whole life. And he wanted that approval more than anything in the world. It eventually cost him everything.
He's pretty creative with the Blender animations and thumbnails. Drayythan is a bigger failed normie than DBDR (as in, more normal) but his perspective is interesting. Being south Asian makes dating a LOT harder in a white Western country and I actually feel bad for the Americanized Indian men who struggle with dating.
It certainly doesn't help that many Indian guys living here in the US, or their parents, grew up in a culture where marriages are arranged between people before they hit puberty. The practice isn't as widespread now and is mostly relegated to rural villages, but they don't so much have the Western approach to love and attraction, that's largely a thing in the cities and is fairly recent in their history. For them, marriages are arranged as a mechanism required for society to survive in the long run.
Be careful what you wish for, if all incels killed themselves, this website would be left without an administrator.
Josh has struck me as kind of an incel in his behavior and mannerisms in earlier years, but I'm pretty sure he's grown out of it. It's really tiring keeping up that kind of thing, and people leaving that mindset and community is for the best. Web admins in general are not known for their alpha personalities and ability to slay pussy on a daily basis. No offense to them, those aren't really traits that are necessary for keeping an internet forum up and running.

And another thing, not everything has to be about attracting women or seeking social approval. Nikola Tesla died a penniless virgin, but his contributions to electrical devices and science are a legacy that no incel will ever match.

 
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I doubt that, I'm chasing just about any relationship I can get even ones that are clearly doomed to fail with women I'm not even interested in.
That might be part of your problem, you give off signs of desperation and it's a bigger turn off than just being physically unattractive. If you're not even interested in the women you're trying to date, why even bother? Is it just a ploy to "get some experience" for when you do meet someone you actually like? I've done this myself and it's just not worth the wasted nights of swiping on Tinder until something matches. Personally, I dislike dating apps but I've tried them myself when I was more like you years ago.
Never? Just finding anyone with similar experiences to me is such a rarity it's only ever happened online and typically only in containment forums like Incels.is
I totally get this, most people talk about mundane and uninteresting things like sports scores and weather. It just seems so basic and low IQ NPC to me, but I don't really look down on them. It's just the way some people are.
So what else is there for men who are expected to be nothing more than sexless slaves? Death is more dignified than living like that.
You're so stuck in your own mind of "me horny man, me want sex but get no sex" that you don't understand that there are things in life other than sex. Don't you have any interests other than masturbating and screeching at random people on the internet about being a jobless alcoholic virgin? Christ, you're making me glad I gave up drinking, or at least I rarely do it at all anymore.
Still sounds a hell of a lot better than getting rejected by damaged goods you aren't attracted to like regularly happens to me.
Why are you going after so-called "damaged goods?" What makes them "damaged" in your view? If you don't find them attractive and are just desperate for a relationship so you don't feel lonely or like some kind of sad social outcast, maybe you should stop.
Everything I've every obsessed over have been completely normal experiences that all my peers have had years before me, I'm perfectly justified in my obsessions given that I'm not even trying to do anything exceptional, my obsession is one of being able to live a normal life and everyone just tells me to fucking give up on that and stop caring as though I should just be content being a sexless joyless slave.
Are you still mad at the age of 30 that you never dated in high school? A lot of people haven't. My own father told me he never dated much, and never in high school. And yet he's been married for decades. And no, you're not justified in your obsession with teenage romance if that's your hangup. Many perfectly normal, decent guys don't date in high school, or even college. You are not exceptional in this aspect.
I wouldn't be back at square one, I'd have a milestone checked off my life and could finally move on to whatever is next, probably trying to reproduce with a woman without getting enslaved with child support if(when) the bitch tries to leave.
"It was a milestone! I missed it! I can't go back to fix it! My life is ruined!" Do you have any idea how many relationships fail? Most of them actually. Even Chads get rejected by women, maybe more often because they at least shoot their shots. The difference is that Chads don't internalize it. They simply realize that the girl who said no isn't the only one in the world, nor the only one who might potentially be interested. And forget about child support. Your unborn children are simply going to get blown into a Kleenex and flushed down a toilet, as they always have been.
Dollfucker was screwed from the start and ended up with family that cares about his suffering, but are too sex positive/generally permissive to tell him to at least conceal his depravity from his family. He and his family remind me of Chris and barb and I'm worried it will end the same way
Dollfucker is what you get when you combine helicopter parenting, "friend mommy" parenting, and sexually permissive parenting, you see it a lot in the trannies who still have good relationships with their families. In the grand scheme of things wasting thousands of dollars buying woman sized sex toys and openly reviewing them is still far less damaging than the same amount of time and money spent "transitioning".
Dollfucker comes off as a gross idiot, but I do have some small amount of sympathy for him, as he's a victim of his environment and upbringing. A lot of parents try way too hard to be "friends" with their offspring. DF's mother took this to an extreme. I don't know if his dad is in the picture. I doubt it because if I were his father I wouldn't have allowed things to get this far. I think it's kind of weird that they're not at least side-eyeing his sexuality. As far as the "transitioning" thing goes, my personal theory is that it's a ploy to get banned from .is because they hate transsexuals, and honestly, they hate anyone who's not a member of their little internet cult.
Almost every hardship I put myself through is in pursuit of sex, I get education for sex, I work for sex, I work out for sex, I try to socialize for sex, I take care of my health for sex, and despite all the work I put in to get sex the payment never comes. How is that not slavery? Economic Marxism is retarded for the most part, but I do think a lot of Marxist principals have merit when shifted from financial economics to sexual economics. Why shouldn't we distribute the means of reproduction to the common man as it once was in many successful societies of the past?

There has never been a truly economic Marxist empire, but there have been plenty of sexually marxist empires and those are the ones with historically the most stability because the common man wasn't put into a position of "get pussy or die trying"
You're throwing everything you have at the objective of getting a girl to like you enough to sleep with you. That in itself is a recipe for disaster and failure. Do you want to know something about guys who are sexually successful with women, especially reasonably attractive ones? They don't make it their life's goal to get laid. As I said before many times, guys whose main goal in life is to "get girls" aren't that interesting as people. Trying to develop other interests that are unrelated to women or sex will serve you much better in the long run.

I've said it many times in this thread and other threads. Hell, simply going out on walks in nature will make you much more appealing than shitposting about being an approval seeking nobody. I don't like to use the "alpha male" and "beta male" terminology, but your behavioral patterns are reminiscent of an insecure beta, which I think a lot of incels really are in the grand scheme of things. I don't like to generalize, there are women who are attracted to beta personalities, but the difference is that it's the ones who aren't insecure shut-ins. But women are individuals with their own likes, dislikes, and aspirations, just like men. So don't take anyone who thinks you have to be "Chad" to have any degree of success. Personally I don't like guys with alpha personalities, I think they're self-righteous, overbearing douchebags. I'm sure there's plenty of women who feel the same way, even if they won't admit it openly.

You're desperate to be liked. And to be liked by attractive women, which incels see as the ultimate validation.
 
Shemales don't count as "girls", my friend.

It was a normal girl, and real. Just left and I'm going to play Vidya now. Just empty my balls and I'm ok because I had casual sex, like you know any normal human being.

-goes into a place about incels
-says he has sex
-thinks he's funny and original

Just stating facts: I come to an incel place, tell them I just had sex because I'm funny and original and girls like that.

Meanwhile you faggots are jerking off to Pretty Derbi or some gay anime shit or bronny shit.
 
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